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I just noticed frm Alice's story..is that somnath temple next to shivas house.. 🤪

Originally posted by: _charu_

Hhhmm no never..one is never the victim and other the manhandler... It's always both ways... or should I say, it's understood that way..And shiva is no better than other heros..he comes from the same mould...they r all the same , they do the same things, they are replied back in the same way, they are justified in the same way , even the arguments r same 😆 It all depends on which couple we like and who we don't like. Gul ko chodo, #2 trp show , wo bhi wahi hai..and the recently shut down professor show, woh bhi wahi tha..they just need 1 trigger , that is, their family, and they all lose their sanity ..show them the mirror , they lose their sanity ...n they all come around 😆 and we say "what chemistry". I am not being sarcastic..I have been there , done that..still doing..

🤣 Yep!! It’s a sad reality that ITV romanticizes physical violence. Jisko mann kiya push kiya, phir thappad and what not. Real life Mein no one does this sh!+

Just saw a clip. Raavi leaving with her suitcase!!

About time!!

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Just saw a clip. Raavi leaving with her suitcase!!

About time!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XM4r6aneWkA

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Just saw a clip. Raavi leaving with her suitcase!!

About time!!

Did you see Alice’s story about Majnu Shiva?😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

Hhhmm no never..one is never the victim and other the manhandler... It's always both ways... or should I say, it's understood that way..And shiva is no better than other heros..he comes from the same mould...they r all the same , they do the same things, they are replied back in the same way, they are justified in the same way , even the arguments r same 😆 It all depends on which couple we like and who we don't like. Gul ko chodo, #2 trp show , wo bhi wahi hai..and the recently shut down professor show, woh bhi wahi tha..they just need 1 trigger , that is, their family, and they all lose their sanity ..show them the mirror , they lose their sanity ...n they all come around 😆 and we say "what chemistry". I am not being sarcastic..I have been there , done that..still doing..

I soo agree

Before Diary kaand. I always said Shiva isn't typical ITV male jesa bhi bohot accha hain and different hain.

But after that he has acted like those ml only. That is sad reality.

Agreed and all flaws r hid in name of great acting and chemistry.

There have been rare good male leads.

For me Gautam Pandya, IPS Neil Khanna, Dr. Pramod Chautala and Businessmen Rakshit Shergill were really good male leads bcoz from start to the end they did no shit. No wrong except from Gaumbi but these 3 were bigger reason for the working of the relationships it was soo different to see not crying fl but a ml finding ways to make the relationship work and be nice to fl.

Rakshit is the most underrated, I actually used to feel so bad for him, almost half of the show it was only he who used to put efforts, it was not that fl was bad she was very strong but never used to tell him things and necwr shared anything with him also marrying him without telling him but he was the best he used to support and stand for her against his mother, protecting the female lead, his family, always supporting, caring and everything. He was freaking amazing.

I thought Shiva will come out as different. He may not be a calm person but will be different but he too is made typical ml.

Tamsha on road, calling each other names and what not. In Today's episode both were wrong atleast one of them needed to calm down and talk at home not on road.

But both r wrong, their outburst is correct but place is wrong.

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

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I thought Shiva will come out as different. He may not be a calm person but will be different but he too is made typical ml.

Wrong jaisa wrong ?. he literally disbalanced his bike in rage , the bike almost fell over raavi but he was more concerned about the commentary from behind. 🤢 he didn't see if raavi was hurt or no...He wanted to get up and thrash her friends. The same thing Mr chavan did last week which led to his wife almost fatal accident on road coz she just walked away in anger , but shivas action was equally worse. Both mls acting out of possessiveness and insecurity coz they are in love but cant confess, then cry buckets and apologize till the fl melts..Shiva probably won't apologize also ..

Originally posted by: Namita-M

🤣 Yep!! It’s a sad reality that ITV romanticizes physical violence. Jisko mann kiya push kiya, phir thappad and what not. Real life Mein no one does this sh!+

Nopes..real life may be more sickening ..its just that , as a third person's story we find it romantic bec everything turns out to be fine later on but in real life it doesn't...as long as it's not somebody's reality they won't feel the pain.

Itv must enforce the concept of "respect and boundaries" in all relationships.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

I agree with you on some points. Shiva shouldn’t have said anything about her character, that’s unacceptable.

As for reading minds, no one expects her to read minds but Raavi is absolutely clueless.

Yes, she feeds his insecurities. Dhara doesn’t lose her mind because at the end of it all, she has Suman, Gaumbi and her Devar’s support.

Heck, even Raavi has support. Where is Shiva’s support? Raavi wants to compromise and move on, you don’t compromise for something so huge. Make a decision. That’s what I felt Shiva was trying to do in his weird way. It would have been better to have a conversation but again Raavi was adamant about staying yet continuously reminding him that he wasn’t who she wanted. Nice clothes matter more than who a person is.

There is no relationship, it’s better to end. Raavi was staying for all the wrong reasons. That’s not how marriages work.

Both are at fault but I hope they realize that they can’t continue this way.

Shiva was always shown to respect women but his behaviour has been anything to be desired for. Not sure why maker’s had to have him push and shove.

She acts clueless about what ? If she was clueless she won't be telling him the truth in black and white today. And how can she help.shiva ? And why does Shiva need support ? Does his family not love him enuf ? Didn't dev try to tell him.his behavior is wrong with raavi? he is so adamant in "main aisa hi hoon jisko pyar karna hai aise hi karle". So when he doesn't expect anyone to love him , from where did the insecurity pop in?

He is lying to himself and he needs to accept. Taking daily bath is not a big feat either. It doesn't even come in the category of "I changed in love" . It's so basic to keep oneself and their clothes clean. What God has given us , this body and mind , we cannot change that , so calling anyone for the way they are is horrible. But what raavi expects from.him isn't that is , if she does. Yes education can be one factor but I have always seen raavi appreciating his hard work and love for family ..

I understand , "deep" down in his heart , he wants to be loved by raavi. Plus , he feels that he ruined her life bec she is not happy in this marriage as he is not her ideal guy. Only a person with a good heart can feel like this. So he thinks she should leave him.

BUT is it raavi or is it mami who thinks he is jungli gawar ? Coz since.childhood he has been punishing raavi in place of mami and THAT is wrong ..that's the reason raavi is more right. I supported him in the compromise scene...but the way he reacts ? I don't know. He is making raavi hate him so that she leaves him? What exactly is it?

Originally posted by: deeps07

I just noticed frm Alice's story..is that somnath temple next to shivas house.. 🤪

Ya I am supremely confused- I thought they lived close to the temple because they seemed to go there at a drop of a hat.

But it looks like it is actually 25kms away 😐