GHKPM Social Media Updates Thread #20 - Page 107

Originally posted by: appisuri

adish shared bts with neil and sneha

Chalo ab Sasta Big Boss chalega..As it is there wont be much to see as far as Sairat is concerned..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Chalo ab Sasta Big Boss chalega..As it is there wont be much to see as far as Sairat is concerned..

kaab ni chlata the last week episode were prep by vanku to this drag feast

Originally posted by: tptwi

thank god 🤣

ha poo kaam sae kaam they got a change especially ayesha neil mohit

Originally posted by: appisuri

ha poo kaam sae kaam they got a change especially ayesha neil mohit

chalo matlab next week sammy will be back in CN

Originally posted by: tptwi

chalo matlab next week sammy will be back in CN

Finally!! I thought it would take couple of weeks🤣

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Finally!! I thought it would take couple of weeks🤣

I thought it would take an entire lifetime 🤣

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

See thats I have said before, believing/not believing that's Sai's demons to face, her mess to sort up.. This whole waada and him loving someone else while taking pheras was his mess to deal with.. Once he has cleared it, he can not be called out for staying mum or giving her a wrong impression. I am talking from a viewers point of view.. In marriage a partner needs to have a clear picture on things that I have mentioned..One need not talk about past if it does not belong to the present..But here the past is always standing outside their bedroom.. Virat has not given pretty much clear data ..I am talking about the words and you want her to understand and analyse his behaviour..When Virat himself have not been able to do so w.r.t. Sai without Sunnt being in picture.. It took him Sunny to understand Sai could be jealous..She actually has no one to talk to , with so many things in picture.. Try to understand that aspect also dear... For argument sakes, we can go on and on this, but then my simple point is, what was started with such strong use of words, has to be cleared as well with the same use of words.. Sai takes Virat's Virat Chavhan Jaachi Pakki Jubaan very very seriously, more seriously than him..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

See thats I have said before, believing/not believing that's Sai's demons to face, her mess to sort up.. This whole waada and him loving someone else while taking pheras was his miss to deal with.. Once he has cleared it, he can not be called out for staying mum or giving her a wrong impression. I am talking from a viewers point of view.. In marriage a partner needs to have a clear picture on things that I have mentioned..One need not talk about past if it does not belong to the present..But here the past is always standing outside their bedroom.. Virat has not given pretty much clear data ..I am talking about the words and you want her to understand and analyse his behaviour..When Virat himself have not been able to do so w.r.t. Sai without Sunnt being in picture.. It took him Sunny to understand Sai could be jealous..She actually has no one to talk to , with so many things in picture.. Try to understand that aspect also dear... For argument sakes, we can go on and on this, but then my simple point is, what was started with such strong use of words, has to be cleared as well with the same use of words.. Sai takes Virat's Virat Chavhan Jaachi Pakki Jubaan very very seriously, more seriously than him..

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I understand what you are saying but I was thinking Will Sai trust anyone and listen to them like how Virat trusts Sunny . Aai , Shivani and lately Mohit tried helping her to figure her emotions but she hasn’t payed any heed to their advice. Pulkit and Devi tai tried in the past but no luck . Is there anyone who can be a Sunny to her . I am not bashing Sai but I am trying to say Sai doesn’t believe anyone and the only way is if she figures it on her own .

She is not trusting anyone. She is trusting Virat's words.. and his resolution to not deny Pakhi when she talks about their love story.. Aai Mohit and Shivani they just tell her Viru loves you, because they were not there when he took that oath while taking 7 other vachanas.. All they say, is SOCHO toh, SOCHO toh, SOCHO and then the moment she tries to she gets to hear a new version of Pakhi's love story with Virat staying mum.. How is one to deal with it all? And none of those people witnesses what Pakhi says to her...for that not even Virat... She needs to know what happened between those two.. verbatim.. After that Virat needs to do nothing, nothing at all.. He has done enough. Since he started it all with clear crisp words the onus is on him to end it as well.. in a similar manner.. It was not his actions that told her that he is undying relationship with Pakhi , but his words..

You see when the first time he told her about his commitment she did not speak about leaving and going him, she told him re-think his decision. Only when she saw him taking the Pheras , the vachans infront of Bappa and then tearfully looking at Pakhi and making another vachan for her, to her was that made her this person.. Her self respect was hurt, she was rejected as a woman. Thats where she says, I will leave you once I am a doctor..

How is she to refute Pakhi's claims when she does not know Virat's side of story..DO you think when she knows its a two day thing and Virat did not even know her name, she is going let Pakhi go on with her BS...She needs to know for herself and him both.. Thats all he needs to do..He wont even have to confess honestly after that.. That is not a small issue that should be just kept under the wraps....SOmetimes words of assurance are very important..In Sai's case they are...and Virat has failed to do that.. He has been a wonderful partner, but before wanting to have a life with her, to have her as his wife he needs to tell her the reason because of which he rejected her as a wife is no more there..that there was no RISHTA to begin with, he needs to tell her that..Right now she does not even know what kind of RISHTA was there...what was the duration.... .that makes Pakhi cry all the time outside their room, that lets her taunt her all the time.. Is all this even worth it...WHat is she to think when Pakhi comes to tell her Virat cheated her and Vorat says nothing...okay he did not refute her because she delusional, but atleast tell Sai there was no such thing that she is talking about. Not refuting is equivalent to agreeing right... I think the only onus on Virat is to clear the deal.. and his vaada.. Confession or no confession , I would want to see that in the show.. A clear and crisp Virat Chavhan..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

She is not trusting anyone. She is trusting Virat's words.. and his resolution to not deny Pakhi when she talks about their love story.. Aai Mohit and Shivani they just tell her Viru loves you, because they were not there when he took that oath while taking 7 other vachanas.. All they say, is SOCHO toh, SOCHO toh, SOCHO and then the moment she tries to she gets to hear a new version of Pakhi's love story with Virat staying mum.. How is one to deal with it all? And none of those people witnesses what Pakhi says to her...for that not even Virat... She needs to know what happened between those two.. verbatim.. After that Virat needs to do nothing, nothing at all.. He has done enough. Since he started it all with clear crisp words the onus is on him to end it as well.. in a similar manner.. It was not his actions that told her that he is undying relationship with Pakhi , but his words..

You see when the first time he told her about his commitment she did not speak about leaving and going him, she told him re-think his decision. Only when she saw him taking the Pheras , the vachans infront of Bappa and then tearfully looking at Pakhi and making another vachan for her, to her was that made her this person.. Her self respect was hurt, she was rejected as a woman. Thats where she says, I will leave you once I am a doctor..

How is she to refute Pakhi's claims when she does not know Virat's side of story..DO you think when she knows its a two day thing and Virat did not even know her name, she is going let Pakhi go on with her BS...She needs to know for herself and him both.. Thats all he needs to do..He wont even have to confess honestly after that.. That is not a small issue that should be just kept under the wraps....SOmetimes words of assurance are very important..In Sai's case they are...and Virat has failed to do that.. He has been a wonderful partner, but before wanting to have a life with her, to have her as his wife he needs to tell her the reason because of which he rejected her as a wife is no more there..that there was no RISHTA to begin with, he needs to tell her that..Right now she does not even know what kind of RISHTA was there...what was the duration.... .that makes Pakhi cry all the time outside their room, that lets her taunt her all the time.. Is all this even worth it...WHat is she to think when Pakhi comes to tell her Virat cheated her and Vorat says nothing...okay he did not refute her because she delusional, but atleast tell Sai there was no such thing that she is talking about. Not refuting is equivalent to agreeing right... I think the only onus on Virat is to clear the deal.. and his vaada.. Confession or no confession , I would want to see that in the show.. A clear and crisp Virat Chavhan..

If we think about it , Sunny hasn’t witnessed Sai and her interactions with Virat daily yet when he said Sai loves Virat , Virat trusted him . Sai needs to do that as well . Aai knows about Virat and Pakhi’s past and is a witness to how Pakhi behaves . If Aai who supports her is asking Sai to think she needs to take her advise seriously . If she isn’t convinced she needs to share it with Aai instead of bottling up and coming to wrong conclusions.