Originally posted by: GrilledCheese
Raavi's friend asks her why she doesn't post any photos on social media with her husband
One of her guy friends points towards Shiva and says he is her husband, and they all start laughing
Shiva is hearing this conversation
Everyone's social media decisions are different. I stopped posting on my own social media accounts 3.5 years ago, and despite starting medical school, celebrating a 25th birthday, I kept all those moments private and personal. Perhaps Raavi wanted some privacy, especially after the entire town watched her be abandoned and essentially sold off to the next available guy at her marriage. I understand that she probably doesn't want to be active on social media.
However, I didn't like her reaction. Yes she said, "Shut up," but it seemed more like an after thought to me. As if she somehow remembered she now needed to defend Shiva in front of her friends... it didn't fit her pre-haveli character in the slightest. This was somehow the same girl who fought to get Shiva chole... she fought... what happened to that spunk? What happened to that bravery?
Even if she doesn't accept Shiva as a husband, why can't she accept Shiva as someone who is part of the Pandya family? I'm not asking her to say Shiva is the best husband in the entire world. I'm just asking her to tell her friends off and remind them that laughing at another person is straight up wrong and unnecessary. Rishita does so much, always saying, "He is my father!" despite everything wrong Janardhan does... why can't Raavi share a few of those traits?
Why is every character somehow a single emotion? What happened to multifaceted characters