Member Topic: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? - Page 3

Define cheating, for me emotional cheating holds the same weight as physical.

I also consider it cheating if the guy gets a hard on from another woman other than his wife, although it'd be hard to establish that.

I'd only have a child if it was a sacred space to nourish them in, they don't deserve to be brought into the world if conditions of the relationship are anything other than loving.

Assuming I do and he cheats, obviously would still call it quits. I would still push for joint parenting, that way I'm not burdened with all the responsibility and get time to work on myself.

Obviously love is not an off-on switch, but in all scenarios, I'd try my damnedest to get over him.

If he did insist it was a one time thing, I'd reconsider although the insecurity of will he, won't he do this again will eat away inside me.

Cheating more than once, well that seals the deal, there would be no claw backs.

Depends on what kind of cheating it was. I can forgive the "It was just meaningless sex honey " thing. As long as it doesn't happen again. But a full blown affair ? Nope. Now that doesn't happen during a weak moment. You had plenty of time to recover from the initial temptation and back away but you didn't so off you fck. If a child is involved I might ignore it as long as he continues to be a good father. If the child gets to keep the fantasy of a happy family I guess I'll not wreck it.

( If the other woman agrees to do laundry and visit the in laws on my behalf , I 'll give her my blessings right away..she can even move in if the place is big enough )

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Would you forgive them if it was their first time? What if you have a child together? Would you just walk out regardless? Or would you try to win him/her back at all costs?

Destroy them emotionally and move on.

Once someone cheats even if you forgive them you can't trust them again relationship won't be the same again never so walking out is the best option even if there is a child.

I'll give an honest answer.

If such a thing happens, I would get really angry and even possibly violent with my lover/spouse.

But more than that, I would internally blame myself like I was not good enough, that maybe somehow it's my fault that my spouse had to cheat on me.

Would I forgive my spouse? Only if he tries extremely hard to ask for forgiveness. Then I might forgive but would not forget it. I would keep on reminding him about what he did to me from time to time.

If he's an asshole to not even feel guilty, then i would not leave him. I would keep him in that toxic relationship and make him suffer.

That's how I really am. Cheating over me would extremely hurt my ego and I won't let that person get away with any repurcussions. I would make him suffer as long as I can.

I wonder if there is a topic

Member Topic: What would you do if your partner found out you cheated?

How many will respond with honesty..

broken trust and broken heart, is hard to forgive,

it is not impossible but once your partner cheats on you, he / she has no shame doing so, they won't fear doing it again.

you would forgive them, they might be nice to you but again they might do the same thing or even worst

why did they return to you? was it because their gf / bf left them? was it because they regret losing you or was it because they found out you are moving ahead in your life and now you are looking good and you have someone in your life so .. they want you back.. !

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I would make sure she gets deported 😆

But you are already cheating on her with looking excessively over girls online. Does your wife know that? I won’t deny that I feel bad for your wife. 😢

Originally posted by: The_Best

But you are already cheating on her with looking excessively over girls online. Does your wife know that? I won’t deny that I feel bad for your wife. 😢

Its not cheating tho 😆

Throw him out into the trash bin & if he tries to act smart - toxic - decides to comeback to harass you mentally, report him to the police. (To do the 2nd thing, it takes a lot of courage & support from family, otherwise you'll be the only one getting blamed instead.. family honour & all that)