Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 98

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Bon has always had a kind of mad devotion to Ani... But it was proved wrong in the Mano track, and it will be proved to be wrong even now... Actually, this Sanyasi track/Bandhua track were necessary so that Bon can see exactly how much Ani is important for TPs ecosystem.

I yesterday also said for me bon is not yet in love she is in love with d feeling which she had 4 ani from childhood which turn romantic in growing years .

It's ani's introspection scene it was ani who was imagining 2 bondita so it was his thoughts about love not bondita.

I hope it proved wrong this time to that why I said it would be better if ani simply prove her innocent &send her back to KN , bon should remember she can't have her way with ani .

If they bring annulment thing that they r still husband wife it's better for both them specially ani he will not be stressed anymore.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

well he said his life is incomplete without Bondita to Vaijanti..so that shows how important Bondita is to him.. and the other day kakasasur said something along the lines of the promise he made to Bondita that she could come back after 8 years and choose him as her life partner..so I don’t think it was said randomly..But either way..I think if Anirudh had married someone else …Bondita would have stepped back and not pursued him,.but now that he’s still single and told her how important Bondita is to him…she’s trying to get him back into her life..I think there’s nothing wrong with that..and anyway anidita share a deep relationship..they’ve been through so much together..they fought so many battles together,.and above all they were married to each other…so I think all this …their history together ,.links them …and Bondita does not want to give that up…

Seconded...

In fact, when Ani agreed to marry VJ, Bon was planning to tell him the truth and then step back...

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

So would Bon... She was planning on stepping back when Ani agreed to marry VJ... But Ani confessed first...

She got jealous of VJ😆 & planning to end her relationship with him she was extremely angry , it was not stepping back. She was about band bajao of ani .

Mano track is best example of it . We can say TRC - shampoo manipulate her but they can't put feeling in her it was bon's feelings . She can never be happy with a thought that Ani has someone else .

Originally posted by: Indira1211

well he said his life is incomplete without Bondita to Vaijanti..so that shows how important Bondita is to him.. and the other day kakasasur said something along the lines of the promise he made to Bondita that she could come back after 8 years and choose him as her life partner..so I don’t think it was said randomly..But either way..I think if Anirudh had married someone else …Bondita would have stepped back and not pursued him,.but now that he’s still single and told her how important Bondita is to him…she’s trying to get him back into her life..I think there’s nothing wrong with that..and anyway anidita share a deep relationship..they’ve been through so much together..they fought so many battles together,.and above all they were married to each other…so I think all this …their history together ,.links them …and Bondita does not want to give that up…

Yes...

He said Bondita was in his heart, is in his heart, and will always be in his heart. He said he is incomplete without her. He said their relationship is sabse anokha and nirala. He said that people do laakhon mannatein and many prayers to get this kind of relationship he has with Bondita. He said it's only fixed with Durga Maa's will. He said she wasn't just his zimmedari but much more than that. He said when she calls him on the telephone, her words ring in his heart. ❤️

He even praised Bondita for risking her life despite knowing he didn't want to see her face, to save their 'pyaare rishta', which is EXACTLY what she's doing now again. Anirudh LOVES this part of her. He was admiring what lengths she would go to for him in his Monday confession scene.

Then HIS introspection scene came where HIS version of Bondita used the words 'YOUR pyaar was the reason you lost' ... why would that word be there in his introspection if he doesn't love her 😆

How much more do we need to know he loves her? This man is completely in love with her, in EVERY way. Romantic love is such a small part of what he feels for her. He feels this wholesome all-compassing form of love that yes, also includes romantic kind because the kind of divine love he feels does not have any limitations. ❤️

Originally posted by: Indira1211

well he said his life is incomplete without Bondita to Vaijanti..so that shows how important Bondita is to him.. and the other day kakasasur said something along the lines of the promise he made to Bondita that she could come back after 8 years and choose him as her life partner..so I don’t think it was said randomly..But either way..I think if Anirudh had married someone else …Bondita would have stepped back and not pursued him,.but now that he’s still single and told her how important Bondita is to him…she’s trying to get him back into her life..I think there’s nothing wrong with that..and anyway anidita share a deep relationship..they’ve been through so much together..they fought so many battles together,.and above all they were married to each other…so I think all this …their history together ,.links them …and Bondita does not want to give that up…

There is nothing wrong to pursue some one whom u like , I appreciate & applaud her for caring a damn about TM , das family or society but it definitely wrong to use a person emotion to get something , bon is clearly wrong in it . In what way bon is right ?

Ani was wrong when he faked his marriage with mano without caring about bon's pain & impact on her caused by his ruthless act . Was it right thou ani's has good intentions .

According to me, this was necessary to bring back the Aniruddh that had been lost in this meaningless enmity. The Aniruddh who used to listen to his heart, the Aniruddh who used to feel and express emotions strongly, the Aniruddh who used to smile and laugh, the Aniruddh who used to actually live and be happy. This Aniruddh is a man who is just living like a robot, he has become so far removed from happiness that he had not even laughed for 8 long years. And who was it who made him laugh? It was none other than Bondita. Her action sparked his most fond memories and he laughed after 8 yrs. Who was the person who actually strive so hard to bring out what he has been bottling up inside him? Once again it is Bondita. Who is the person who made him participate in the family festivities and even play games? Again it was none other than Bondita. Please do remind me if Saudamini had done these things to alleviate his troubles and give him moments of happiness like these because I don't remember her ever doing anything other than plotting and planning for her own gain. Who was the person who brought Aniruddh's dad in his sister's birthday party and got a daughter blessed by her father for the first time in her life on her birthday? Again it was Bondita. Who was the one who saved Aniruddh's father from being run over by a car when he failed to do it himself? Again it was Bondita. Who was the person who hid the Durga Ma idol so that RCs are not blamed and humiliated as per TM and CC's plan? Once again it was Bondita. Who was it who saved Aniruddh's father once again during fencing ceremony? Bondita offcourse. While being VJ she could have easily created a situation where his character would have been questioned and he would have been forced to marry her by society like dear Saudamini did. Did Bondita do that? Never.

Now the question is why did she do this? Because she is selfish? No. Because she is a genuinely good person who wants to help others as well as spread happiness in others' lives. All she wanted to do is bring happiness in his life too.

Now, the question arises is why is she pushing Aniruddh to accept what it is in his heart so hard. Because that is the only way to break the walls he had created around him, the only way to bring him back to life as he is living a half life. Acceptance is always the beginning of healing. Only when he will accept his true feelings by winning over his fears will he start living truly again because by his own confession it is clear that he can never be happy without her by his side. He has so far retreated into himself that too bring his true self out a major push is needed. And Bondita is doing just that. Even psychologists say that crying out rather than bottling up emotions is good for the mind otherwise it may eventually lead to nervous breakdown. Thus, Bondita is doing this as much for him as for herself. Infact more for him.

So, even after this if people think that Bondita is being like Saudamini, then I will say they are being willfully blind. And no logic works with people who are being willfully blind. Prime example is Saudamini herself. 😆

P.S - During Mono track, he could have made her understand things calmly instead of resorting to such ott ways but he didn't. And he was doing something she did not want by marrying Mono. While Bondita tried every sam dam dand bhed to make him come out of his self imposed prison. Only then she is taking this step and that too for something she and we all know he wants but is unable to say or go for it. He needs someone to teach him again to do his heart's bidding as he has suppressed that nature of his for so long that he has forgotten to do it himself.

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

Yes...

He said Bondita was in his heart, is in his heart, and will always be in his heart. He said he is incomplete without her. He said their relationship is sabse anokha and nirala. He said that people do laakhon mannatein and many prayers to get this kind of relationship he has with Bondita. He said it's only fixed with Durga Maa's will. He said she wasn't just his zimmedari but much more than that. He said when she calls him on the telephone, her words ring in his heart. ❤️

He even praised Bondita for risking her life despite knowing he didn't want to see her face, to save their 'pyaare rishta', which is EXACTLY what she's doing now again. Anirudh LOVES this part of her. He was admiring what lengths she would go to for him in his Monday confession scene.

Then HIS introspection scene came where HIS version of Bondita used the words 'YOUR pyaar was the reason you lost' ... why would that word be there in his introspection if he doesn't love her 😆

How much more do we need to know he loves her? This man is completely in love with her, in EVERY way. Romantic love is such a small part of what he feels for her. He feels this wholesome all-compassing form of love that yes, also includes romantic kind because the kind of divine love he feels does not have any limitations. ❤️

Dear I never denied ani don't love her but he definitely don't love her d way she is expecting from him .Ani 's introspection scene he din't denied love coz it was his conflicted thoughts which appears in form of 2 bons.

If u remember our one of our past conversation loving ani is very easy for bon but loving bon is very complex for ani .

Ani ke feeling aaj ki nhi hai usse bahut pehle hi realise ho chuka in preleap only he wholeheartedly accepted bon as his wife he use to enjoy her showing her rights over him but when consummation track came u remember he imagined bon as his bride after that he restrain bon from doing wifely duties or coming in his room coz he did started fearing of his own feelings , he just used mano thing to divert himself from bon he never fell 4 mano.

Right now also it very complex for him which bon care a damn, das family & sumati truly never cared for bon she don't feel hesitant to abonden then coz her emotions lies with ani but not d same case with ani , be it TRC , binoy , som every do love ani did supported him preleap they suffered Coz ani's fitoor of making bon independent currently he is living in that guilt this time he can't put them on risk for bon infact ab poore TP ki responsibility is on him.

Bon has to understand this which she is not willing too.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Dear I never denied ani don't love her but he definitely don't love her d way she is expecting from him .Ani 's introspection scene he din't denied love coz it was his conflicted thoughts which appears in form of 2 bons.

If u remember our one of our past conversation loving ani is very easy for bon but loving bon is very complex for ani .

Ani ke feeling aaj ki nhi hai usse bahut pehle hi realise ho chuka in preleap only he wholeheartedly accepted bon as his wife he use to enjoy her showing her rights over him but when consummation track came u remember he imagined bon as his bride after that he restrain bon from doing wifely duties or coming in his room coz he did started fearing of his own feelings , he just used mano thing to divert himself from bon he never fell 4 mano.

Right now also it very complex for him which bon care a damn, das family & sumati truly never cared for bon she don't feel hesitant to abonden then coz her emotions lies with ani but not d same case with ani , be it TRC , binoy , som every do love ani did supported him preleap they suffered Coz ani's fitoor of making bon independent currently he is living in that guilt this time he can't put them on risk for bon infact ab poore TP ki responsibility is on him.

Bon has to understand this which she is not willing too.

If you're not denying that he loves her then what do you mean he doesn't love her in the way she's expecting? What way is she expecting? From where I see it, she's not actually expecting anything but only wants him to be true to himself and his feelings.😆

@Bold - This paragraph I agree with. He had realized it preleap itself. Manorama was a diversion, because he was too afraid and guilty over this child marriage thing... and I had posted about this topic before as well.

Last paragraph is what I don't agree with. It's complicated for him yes, but Bondita is also right in her place. She isn't blackmailing him or forcing him to do anything. Whether Bon understands this or not, her actions won't change.

For her Anirudh is above this dushmani. No matter how deep this dushmani is, she will do everything to see him happy. Nothing is worth it for her Sakha Babu to live with this depression and burden all his life. And this is why her love is pure and true.👍🏼

Many others have explained it here already, so I won't go into it any more than this.

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

If you're not denying that he loves her then what do you mean he doesn't love her in the way she's expecting? What way is she expecting? From where I see it, she's not actually expecting anything but only wants him to be true to himself and his feelings.😆

@Bold - This paragraph I agree with. He had realized it preleap itself. Manorama was a diversion, because he was too afraid and guilty over this child marriage thing... and I had posted about this topic before as well.

Last paragraph is what I don't agree with. It's complicated for him yes, but Bondita is also right in her place. She isn't blackmailing him or forcing him to do anything. Whether Bon understands this or not, her actions won't change.

For her Anirudh is above this dushmani. No matter how deep this dushmani is, she will do everything to see him happy. Nothing is worth it for her Sakha Babu to live with this depression and burden all his life. And this is why her love is pure and true.👍🏼

Many others have explained it here already, so I won't go into it any more than this.

Bon's love is as selfless as Ani's in her own way of course... My only issue, and the reason why Bon isn't completely succeeding is that she is trying to treat Ani's symptoms i.e. his depression rather than trying to treat the disease, i.e. the dushmani!

And this is what comes to bite her in the behind as well... She had succeeded in getting Ani to semi-admit that there is someone in his life whose place is irreplacable, but that attack on his competitors reminded him of the dushmani, and he agreed to marriage...

Later he admitted his feelings but the events at the competition again lead to a reminder of the dushmani and his place in the ecosystem, leading to his silence in the Panchayat.

Something has to happen for Bon to realize that the dushmani and burden is causing Ani's depression and hence she should focus on ending the dushmani as that will automatically reduce Ani's depression by a lot and stop him from regressing back into the emotionless Don Babu persona.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Bon's love is as selfless as Ani's in her own way of course... My only issue, and the reason why Bon isn't completely succeeding is that she is trying to treat Ani's symptoms i.e. his depression rather than trying to treat the disease, i.e. the dushmani!

And this is what comes to bite her in the behind as well... She had succeeded in getting Ani to semi-admit that there is someone in his life whose place is irreplacable, but that attack on his competitors reminded him of the dushmani, and he agreed to marriage...

Later he admitted his feelings but the events at the competition again lead to a reminder of the dushmani and his place in the ecosystem, leading to his silence in the Panchayat.

Something has to happen for Bon to realize that the dushmani and burden is causing Ani's depression and hence she should focus on ending the dushmani as that will automatically reduce Ani's depression by a lot.

I agree with you fully, but I do think she is trying to eradicate the dushmani. The easiest way for her to do this is for him to be on her side. How else can she get rid of this enmity? If he's with her then half of the job is done -- in fact, most of it will be, because you need two hands to clap. All she needs is him on her side, and then the dushmani will actually end.

I feel it's all looped together. His depression is linked to dushmani. There's no way to get rid of one without getting rid of the other. So if she treats his depression, she ends the dushmani. If she ends the dushmani, she treats his depression.

The only thing is, if it was in her hands, I'm sure she would have just ended it already... the problem is that nobody will listen to her except her Sakha Babu. He's her only hope to even end this war.