guys i would like to talk about bondita as for ani i have given many psots
for bon let us yalk about the girl,her nature,her past and how she is shaped in her life
we all have seen bondita from day one so we know how what and whyshe haa sbecome what she is today? the girl who was a widow daughter,always faced discrimination yet had endless questions but despite of suhc questions which came from her courage and her emphathetic feelings for others,there was innocence curbed by her relations in form of seeing her helpless mom,social evils be it her being married at tender age but she faced hardships in initia; days,bedwettiong trauma and jo humein supersititionees ,kaka expected at that age to become her kishal grhaini jo humein tab accha lagabtha guys lekin it was curbing her and making her feel burdened ,so she knows eveyrhting what she ahs gone through how much she has gone through and it reflcets in her actions
guys bon dreams,bon realisation pf love and all refclecrs she is trying way too garder to live a normal life
bachpan mein she always never bothered uske saath life meinkya hoga as she was a kid and she faced a lot but after ani left her in london and she was alone growing up and lived a normal life,she realsied what she was losing in her life and how every mushkil in her life she faced bravely she got the urge why her life cant be normal-why she ahs to be grateful in her life,she realsied her nature is to live life freely but she got everything from ani only-and she is extremely grateful but she knows her life was neevr normal and it would neevr be
she knows no matter how mcuh she was gpood ,people took advantage of her innocence when she ws kid and expected a lopt be kaka,sampoo isliye jabse aayi hai she is trying ki uski life normal ho,aisa nhai hai she does not care for anyone ulta she feels she has become empwoered she would sav e others like u see her beliefs in ecen taking stand for tupur as uske liye one point of time she was believing the same things-vrat,patnidharm,aurat dharm,kartavya but she realsied how disgsuting was that-if u see bon has disgust and pain on it
now coming back to whole vj fiascvo-she became vj she tried to keep ani happy for her sefless care and love for him,she even remembred till now the best hopeful moments of her life-why? she does not want to remid herself she ahs lived a revolutionary life or lifr full of thorns,she dreams ki uski life as per her age normal ho but circumstances and situation every time tell her bondita how can u dream this ur life is not notmal
it is not bon is naive yeh jaankar ki how was sampoo,sampoo tormented bondita in her childhood,she sued her love for her in periods track,she made her life hell tabhi when day one she talked to shaswati-the first thing she said sampoorna maa mere bare mein itni acchi bat kar sakti hai-kyin kaha bon neyheh
now society se bon ladhlegi she knows samajah kaise hai she ahs fogut her life,court mein barristers se ladhlegi
kaha nahi ladh paaygei
she has seen wporst in her life ki she does not even want to see ounce of sadness around her in anyone life so she tries to make everyone live smilingly as she knows kis cost pe breath,life and smiles milti hai
she knows dushmani khoon kharaaba kya hai even ani knows tabhi usne bon ko letters likhe
we say bon does not ssee relaity,bon ahs even foreseen the future ki dheere dheere kn and tp ki nemity badhegi -jisne jo khoya khoya aage kya kya hoga-jab tak ani hai usool rakhenge tulsipur se lkin somnath ku cruelty dekhi hai,she even saw when she came first day ,some children welcomed her with stones,she knows enmity isnaan ko andha kar degi
and she is tryig to stop first her sakha babu from going on path of destruction not for current generario but innoncent children for coming genereations
so she wants to finish once anf for all
her dreams show she wnats to live a normal life and ani is only person she can live,bondita heart is very sensitive and oure-kaka said many times bondita ka man sone ka hai use duniya apni jaise lagti haiu-she still has not accpoeted life and people can be cruel-phir voh 8 saal baad dushmani ho,logon ka uske actions and nature pe allegiations and all.
ab she is extremely hurt ki supoose usne aaj tak kisi ke saath kuch bura nahi kiya yet people said usne ani ko khsh rakha uske irade bure,usne sampoo ke saath acha behave kiya 8 saal baad yet she had audacity to slap her-bon knows better than us poar voh ani ko sunaayegi log kahenge yeh bon 8 saal ki pehle ki baat ko lekar baithiu if u remember bon did not listen to sampoo self pity that she ahrrassed her small sister,she walked away as uska koi explnantion nahi even sampoo looked vj kyun chali gyu
she is seeing how poeple to prove themselesv right in enmity like kaka gave her ounsihment called her dhokebaaz,jhooti,chaalsaaz,ehsaan faramosh
tum batao ise compare karo us 11 saal ki bondits (imagine choti bon emotions kya usne imagine kiya uske apne use panchaayt tak ghaseetenge use yeh saare naam denge)isliye she asked ani ki prove me i am nto wrong
kyunki bon aagr bacchi hoti uske fark nahi padhta voh end tak kosish karti yeh kehne ki main sahi hoo lkein yeh bon badi hai voh keh rahi hai main kyun har baat khud ko sahi saabit karo aur aone cintegirty,apne thinking,apne relations apni snaskaaaro ka kya proof doin
bon is shown -understanding ki ab mujhe apne aap ko sahi saabti karvaana hai ani se-it is self respect only
she is saing why should i run taaki log maanle ki anirudh babu ne itn akuch kiy bon keliye bon unhe harrane ke luye niche gir gyi,voh chati nahi logon ka jhopot logon ka kaapt ab bade hoke usiki zindagi barbaad kare isliye voh defend nai kar rhai
bon is not mahaan gurl,she was in abchpan but elder one is a victor made out of vicitm of problems and pain
hope u all got my point
-she does not want to sacririce her life-koi lakdi nahi chahgegi but if u see bon life situtaitons-asi aajati hai hai that she has to accept evil in her life-as she went througb worst pahses and she knwos voh unse kabhi bahar nahi nikal sakti thi
phir chahe 8 sal bad aake duhsmani dekhna ho
she had to accept her life is not normal ,we feel angry even bon ke itne dreams dikhaaye ki uske sapne bahut hai but reality bahut different hai and she has to fight in her life all time
she siad meri life mein barrister banakr karoon kya agar log jinhone bachpam mein main barrister nahi thi yet peoole believed me bon aisa nai kar sakti par ab 8 saal baad kya hua ki logon ne dharna badal li mere liye
bon aisi aldmi thi jsine relations ka sahi mool samjha- bachpan mein but this elder girl who is barrister come on she knows kaun kaisa hai kis hadh tak girgea
she is trying hard to live a normal life she does not ant like her bachpan she faces troubles in her life-ani thinks bon aaj bhi bachpan vaali hai but elder one has many shades in her
uske dreams uske is sab cheezon ka asar hai
i have read some pshcology books
i know itv inta nahi sochti hai lkein we always decode charcaters-this is how idecoded
she is fearless,smart,.selfless,amazing but now being ag grown up she cares ki uske integrity pemek quetsion na aaye,she is trying to have a normal lif ebut durga ma made her life revolutionary
but she did not choose this-tabhi she said ami bhaag jaati ho barristeyr karlungi par kyafayda aagr mujhe log jhooti,ehsaan famramosh,dushmani,jasoos mananenge
she is syaing u have to accpet i am right and u need to accpet u want to end duhsmani it is for greater good giys
yeh hai bondita
she is not agreeeing to ani like childhood but forcing him to stand for what is right
ani abhi bon ko 8 saal se saj nahi pya
bon cruely of life accept karegi cc ki obsession jaanakr use sab samajab aayega world is niot rosy wolrd she tries way too harder kash aisa hi
voh apn life ki reality jaanti hai acche se tabhi she said sakha babu gave me brith amny times
she dreams of ani to beleive her life is normal but it is not in reality and bon knows thay-😭
bon is agirl who is now not scared of death or even anything ahppenign to her as uske saath ise bura ho chuka jo ek grown up elder bon imagine karna nahi chati kitni bar uski innocence daanv pe lagi,life daanv pe lagi ahi and all
i bw ani outburst made bon realsie she was guilty but here she kows being vj was necesaary and why didshe doo all this?
i repeart her dreasare an urge for her to live normal life any individual life even we dream but her life is not easy and we all know that
she said ani barrister banakr kya fayada jab aap logon ne mujhe dhokebaaz jasoos samajhkar meir life kahatm kar di jo maine imagine nahi kiya
bon is cofnlcicted in her heart one side she knows reality another side she ahs optimsicitc
kash makers meri aur aap sab ki tarah sochte and agar log bon ke charcater ko meri tarah samjhte samjhte bon kaise aur kya bani haiu
ani is now seeing elder bon dynamics ki is incident ke baad bhoolkar koi bhi bon ko blame nahi kerga bina baat jaane as bon un sab ko dikah rhai hai bachi nahi jo suna doge gaalt samjoge toh main jaan laga dungi sahi baane mein,ab main abdhi hoo puchungi kyun sahi sabit karu main
this is boldness and slef respect bon showeed
bon knows she needs one or 2 minutes to save herself from panchayat punsihemnt
bon rcs ko easily maaf nahikaregneg,ehr teras were falling silently when kaka accused she ahs forogteen her values and eveyrhtin and did wrong with bhgawan.uske kehne ka mol nahi raha uske saboot ka kya rhta
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Edited by Katy4566 - 4 years ago