Originally posted by: MistyDawn
Kuchh bhi ho, they always come up with the same solution to every problem - Raghav should leave her. Besides the fact that yesterday's hug was just so beautiful in showing the longing and passion..what came through so strongly is how much Raghav is tied to her emotionally now.. He was restless the whole time he was away from her.. he wanted to look his best FOR HER when they meet ''after 24 excruciatingly long hours'' and I loved that. I love that they showed a man put efforts into making himself look very presentable for his woman when the common theme is the girl dressing up for her guy.. his excitement to meet her was infectious.That's how much madly in love with her, he is.. staying away from her even for a day is unimaginably painful..
We were all discussing this yesterday also- they're going through a (very) rough patch. It happens in marriages. People eff up. People fall weak. People fall prey to their vulnerabilities. It happens. It happens in every relationship- it happens with your spouse, it happens with parents, it happens with children, it happens with siblings. We're seeing a far more mature relationship here than the chemistry fuelled foundation-less relationships ITV shows- two people who realize that their emotional attachment and investment to each other is far more valuable to them than their individual egos. They're willing to acknowledge but put aside the pain the other inadvertently causes and put in the work to support each other and make the marriage work, because whatever hurt they may be feeling is minuscule compared the the idea of separating. Nazar na lage inko!
Yes, Pallavi is falling weak, every single vulnerability of hers is being hit to manipulate her right now, and she can't see through it. Raghav can, he's lending her the support she needs. Just like Raghav's weakness was being struck when he thought Kirti was responsible for Mandaar's death, and he couldn't get perspective on how illogical he was being. Pallavi could, but she didn't divorce him na, she gave him strength. That's a partnership- not always meeting halfway, but being able to go the extra mile when the other person can't.
Forget divorce, I'm a 100% certain they're gonna come out stronger.