Sai's indifference towards Virat's feelings - Page 2

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Agree. There are multiple reasons for the MU. But i guess if Pakhi had not been there in CN as a permanent interference, things between these 2 would have different or would have sped up atleast. Well, thats how the shows run a vicious circle of MU, keeps them going🤦‍♀️🤣

I also would have preferred a Sai’s monologue. That’s the reason there is more speculation and analysis on Sai’s behaviour, because somewhere we have a better insight into Virat’s mind as far as his feelings for Sai are concerned. Tough luck i guess

See honestly, the kind of overbearing ex Pakhi is, I would not be able to move on with my husband even if he is love with me😆 when she is not even being called out by the family or by my husband much to NOT simple INTERFERE...Yaha toh khair beech mei vaada bhi hai..

I’m actually curious to know how she realises her feelings and also on how she figures out that Virat loves her. Does she finally read into his actions or he finally had to spell it out to her!! 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: sherry_24

I’m actually curious to know how she realises her feelings and also on how she figures out that Virat loves her. Does she finally read into his actions or he finally had to spell it out to her!! 🤷‍♀️

As per KD, she was the first one to confess.. So yeah she would need the fear of him going away to realise it.. She does not even know what love is honestly..

Waiting for the biggest bummer, when she realises Pakhi has conned her and she has lost out on a whole year of her married life 🤣🤣

It looks like they are more obsessed with each other than Virat🤣

True that !! Who wants so much of mental stress🤣

Agree. Its like both of them have their own set of insecurities and inhibitions. But with Pakhi around it just escalates the entire situation and Virat’s inability to intervene in the past has made a permanent dent in Sai’s mind

Originally posted by: sherry_24

This is not about who is right or wrong, but more about the situation playing catalyst.
Virat has not been vocal about his feelings with Sai and we have time and again wanted to bash him up for it at every opportunity lost😜 . But his actions have spoken louder than words, and lately he has expressed it in so many words as well. The whole world around him can see that he is head over heals in love with Sai except her🤦🏻‍♀️. Sai, on the other hand has either programmed her mind, to ignore it or simply not register any such indications.

This has been a topic of discussion numerous times. And we have come up with various reasons for her indifference, starting from Sai's insecurity, Virat's jalebi talks, his vaada, the MU etc. But here I wanted to address one particular reason. Will start with a question.

With all the other facts in place as it is except that Pakhi was not in living in CN (she was either living with her parents or at Samrat's father's house), all the other issues wrt to Virat's past still exist between Sairat. Would the situation be the same?

Maybe yes, because Sai is insecure and she will guard her heart. But maybe NO

Because Pakhi acts as a constant reminder. Even if Sai gets carried away, Pakhi's taunts bring her back. But coming to Sai's indifference. She is not immune to his charms.. nope, he is here "celebrity handsome"🤣 how much ever she may tease him otherwise. And he means the world to her. But she turns a blind eye to his feelings. Because instead of understanding the underlying meaning of Virat's gestures or words, she is more convinced by Pakhi's actions and words. Pakhi had been very transparent with respect to her stand, and openly shows her jealousy. She expresses her emotions very strongly. And Virat has been very subtle with his actions. Maybe thats how they are as individuals. But then with so much baggage already, and with the existence of a past and promise that Sai was well aware of, Pakhi's actions only strengthen her take on Virat and Pakhi's relationship. Hence, Pakhi's actions and words weigh over Virat's actions for her, and she refuses to see the true intentions behind Virat's gestures and words. Pakhi's existence in CN and her behaviour supercedes and overshadows Virat's feelings for Sai and she ends up categorising everything under his responsibility (how much ever she hates it). Sai is only reading into Pakhi, and wrt Virat she has already established a verdict and she blindly goes by it. Like she has those blinkers on, which are used on racing horses for restricted view. Though she sees and appreciates everything, she fails to see through the true feelings behind it because she is clouded by Pakhi's overpowering existence in their lives.

Jo kuch bhi ho yaar today toh i just wanted to throw sai out of the taxi for giving clarification about their marrige even to a taxi driver😡

I mean what the hell? Wake up girl, the man next to you loves you like crazy how can you just talk like a repetitive record and what is the itch to explain their relationship to every passer by🤪

Sometimes she acts really dumb

Your post is perfect. Agree with everything you have mentioned. In today's episode Virat very clearly told her that Pakhi is at Nagpur and he's with her. So, she should understand who's more important for him? This was a clear indication that he loves her. How can he make her understand more clearly?

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Jo kuch bhi ho yaar today toh i just wanted to throw sai out of the taxi for giving clarification about their marrige even to a taxi driver😡

I mean what the hell? Wake up girl, the man next to you loves you like crazy how can you just talk like a repetitive record and what is the itch to explain their relationship to every passer by🤪

Sometimes she acts really dumb

Yes, I too felt the same. And, not only that why she has to clarify about their marriage to Pakhi and Karishma? Has she lost it? No educated person would behave like this 😡

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Its not past yaar...Just on her birthday , she was told by Pakhi how Virat is cheating on her, how he makes her cry..Since the time she saw the confrontation between Pakhi and Virat on Harini's birthday, she even stopped calling herself his wife..Today only she was being taunted and she knows she is being taunted because Pakhi is jealous.. She knows Pakhi hates her because she is jealous...She was concerned that Pakhi would be bothered and Pakhi proved her right by taunting her yet again and Virat as usual was in his own world!!

She also asked if their is no commitment from his side, because she feels bad and if she feels bad, she would try not to..He never said anything on that..She has the overbearing ex always questioning her , her character, her relationship even her calling Virat her husband...And going by how he wants this marriage to ber real, it looks more like an ehsaan , a guilt for his end than a marriage that is because of love..She wants a marriage out of love..and she believes that love would always be their for Pakhi..She in clear words, has to be told that there is no love, no commitment for Pakhi because of his own will and not because of anyone else.. He need not even confess his love and she would be in this relationship...She does not want to be the third person in Pakhi-Virat's love.

I agree with you that's also something that's stopping her but in a relationship you look first what your partner wants not the third wheel. Virat has not accepted about their past, didn't tell her the vaada is off and didn't confess his love for her but he proved way more than that and still she doesn't want to see it. When they are alone they act like husband wife. She will even let him kisss her and hug her. But then she will go back to her we are in deal marriage. She doesn't want to see his actions, doesn't want to listen to his words. The thing is that even if Virat will tell her that he has fallen in love she will take it in a wrong way. Can he even fall for me ? If her guilt is not allowing her to see that he has fallen for her then it's a huge problem. She will never accept him till Pakhi actually moves on. Both are making things so complicated. Now Samrat will also bring more complication.