Originally posted by: SexyPotato
We're alien in this society.😆
It's actually 'normal' for our society to think like that. Hai hai ladki hai bad mein kaun dekhega paisa kaun kamayga. My brother's fiance earns more than my bhai & people used to mock him for this. & Thank god my brother has talent to do hawa mein filter & he can be quite badtameez to badtameez people. So now it's all okay. Oh aunties used to say do behen hai kaun kis ko dekhgy(for his fiance) aise ladki ko kyu date kiya blah blah to my parents. & they used to roll their eyes.
You know what you need to adjust little bit in any relationship but our generation doesn't get it. We still don't talk about real issues. Main issue is this whole adjusting shouldn't be one sided. Balance should be there. My parents did lot of sacrifices for each other & it was okay because they knew how to balance it. But unfortunately Society has normalised this one-sided business.