Originally posted by: Inese_20
Abi, such kind words đ€
thank you so much â€ïž
in my case, this person tried to guilt trip me that heâs undergoing clinical depression because of me, also indirectly indicated suicide. But I am glad, even at that age(it was the very first year of the college) I was very firm about it, I shut him off completely within a day or two only. I told him in his face that nobody else is responsible for his mistakes. Be a man and own upto it. Then again a friend of mine (a girl only) tried to blame me for âwhat I did to himâ. I told her off as well. I didnât realise the concept of victim blaming till then, but according to me at that point the joke was on her- I was literally like you would be stupid if you donât cut off someone like him! Well guess what, the joke is still on her đđ»ââïž
So all in all, nothing turned too serious and today I am quite proud of myself that I could handle it ache se