I will break every rule out there to find my husband, DT Note pg 49 - Page 28

Originally posted by: S_n_t

in reaction KC should fight case from Aadilie side😆

I have this feeling KC is a potential DEV in the making😂😂

Originally posted by: S_n_t

Exactly.

Everyone on the show writers n characters seem to have forgotten that completely, Aadi once called M very sensible😕, Imlie called her samajhdar 😕 and rest of the characters toh 24/7 pooja karate hai M ki.

Everybody is delusional

LHS=RHS

Hence proved! 😂😂😂😂

When Adi is found like to see Satyakam say (info from his network contacts😆) to Daku, AC and Malu when they show attitude…in front of srTs too.

shehari babu Daku Dev your beti knew your wife kidnapped Adi and covered it up. Now who are the real criminals?

Sr Ts will get whiplash.

Okay, with the set of episodes we are getting this week and the ones we will be tortured with this week, I would like to write something about Malini. I usually am very careful about writing things about her, as my first full fledged review thread was attacked by trollers as I had focused on her in my entire review. It bothered me enough to stay away from sharing a lot of what I really think about that character, but today something is just pushing me to share.

The show has always whitewashed a lot of Malini's actions under the umbrella that she lost out on her 7 years ka rishta. People who felt that Imlie and Adi cheated her by falling in love, have conveniently forgotton what she has done, under the guise that it was expected as she felt wronged. Everything she did, including calling Imlie names, fighting with Adi, doubting his intentions, leaving her sasural in the drop of a hat, allowing her mother to insult everyone who lived in her marital home, giving her father a free pass, despite knowing he wronged Meethi and promising her justice, telling a lie to Adi to get the truth from him and then using that lie as a shield to continue to be in his life as a "friend", trying to kill herself over a suspicion, rather than confront the people about the truth, tell Adi's mother that Adi loved her once, but fell out of love with her (due to Imlie in subtext), despite Adi telling her multiple times that he never loved her, telling the truth to her mother, knowing what she is capable of, telling the truth to the T's, knowing the effect it will have in the current scenario, has been whitewashed by the fact that she did not send Adi to jail on knowing the truth.

Malini has always been that privileged brat who can never accept that someone of a lower strata than her has got something that she felt she had sole ownership of. She never loved Adi, just wanted to be in a relationship where she called the shots and the other person accepted it because she was saccharine sweet and had a gentle disposition. She assumed that because Adi loved his job so much, so her not complaining will show how mature she is. She assumed that if anything happens to Adi, she will show her support by calling people and showing her power, rather than actually getting down and dirty to solve the issue. Malini is like those girls who look pretty, but do not have substance, but them being nice & pretty like a doll, has people around wanting to be associated with them. Malini preens everytime she is praised, even for those things she had no direct contribution for. She is willing to take credit for things if it suits her purpose, but at the same time is willing to berate someone even if they are not at fault. While I agree that she is human and has flaws, but her flaws being whitewashed under the garb of her being a "goddess" does not allow me to connect with her in any way.

Malini lovers often bash us that we are being unnecessarily harsh on her. She is so fragile, that just the thought of losing someone made her want to take her life. This is a thought I cannot wrap my head around. Call me old fashioned, but I cannot seem to understand the need to justify her act. How is her being fragile Adi or Imlie's fault. How is her inability to face the facts and get out of her delusions Adilie or our problem. If she is supposed to be shown in an organic show that prides itself to show realistic situations, then why is her character so hard to root for. Even now, despite everything the T's have done, I know there will be a point where the makers will allow me to feel some kind of connect with them (not the way we used to, that bridge has been broken), but with Malini's character, I can assure you that will never happen. I understand the current situation where the world is slowly understanding the significance of mental health, and how we should not blame anyone who tries to take such a step. I also to a large extent agree that mental health is often overlooked and can lead to disastrous circumstances if not identified at the right time. But what I do not get is why someone else is being blamed for a choice that an individual took. If she was so unstable, either she should have spoken to someone, faced her fears or atleast accused Adi of putting her in a situation that is consuming her. If he was supposed to be her best friend, did she not owe him that much.

I understand that depression is something that when it takes over you cannot think, that sometimes when such an urge comes over, you cannot stop yourself or think logically. But what I do not understand is that how anyone can take their life as something they can play with and utilize it as a weapon to emotionally manipulate another person, which is what Malini did. She used her advantage to guilt Adi into forever being under her ehsaan, also then by accepting the truth that he never loved her.

Such a person cannot and should not be hailed. Such a person cannot be rooted for, no matter how long a redemption journey they show. Such a person cannot be someone's role model - at least not someone I would suggest as a role model. For me, even if Imlie was not in the picture, Malini could not have been someone I could identify with, but since Imlie is very much there in the picture, it just highlights the stark differences even more.

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Everybody is delusional

LHS=RHS

Hence proved! 😂😂😂😂

THS=CHS actually 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Haye, love that song myself.

Malini has a lot of audacity to call people a lot of things that she herself does not follow. She called out Imlie on hiding the truth and khud is hiding KC, and more recently her mom's antics ka sach. She called Imlie mannerless to enter someone's room, while bin bulaye she comes and goes in the T house as if she still lives there, and entered Adi's room also w/o knocking. Malini gave Oscar worthy performance of giving sinddor ka haq to her shishter, but now wants to wear the same sindoor & MS, while justifying by saying that she is apparently "saving" Adi. She has faced rejection once, but aise ghumti hai jaise itna bada pahad toot pada hai. Matlab I don't get it. I am just done. I do not care anymore what she does. I am just waiting to see how Imlie gets BS out, baaki ke BS's I am the least bothered what they do and why - right now I am upto here with this stuff, so going to keep quiet, else I may say stuff that may get me reported.

Malini has crossed all the limits of hypocrisy. She has created so much delusion around herself that she has forgotten what is real n what is not How does such PPL face themself is beyond me.

Bold.🙊🙊🤣

Originally posted by: S_n_t

When she was blabbering ‘get real’ I🤣 and then ‘tum bahar ki duniya ke baare me kya janti ho’

I was like look who’s talking 😔😔😔 Imlie has seen the real world a lot darker and 100 times more up close than this shame for educated woman; and Imlie has rescued Aaditya many many times which none of these self proclaimed rescuers know about.

And then she spilled her tiny, never used, completely washed out, self obsessed brain, ‘duniya se kuch chinna ho toh usake rules follow karane padate hai’, how ironic is that, anyway that’s what this puppet daughter/DIL is doing, Imlie se uska pati chinane ke liye T’s ke rules pe chal rahi hai😡 don’t know when Aadilie will see this.😔

Kya pata baato baato mein khud ke scheme bata di ho🤣🤣

Jisko jo sunna hi hota hai wohi bolti hai brownie points kamane ke liye..🤣..

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

For me, even if Imlie was not in the picture, Malini could not have been someone I could identify with, but since Imlie is very much there in the picture, it just highlights the stark differences even more.

Agree to everything Aps ji! Especially this!! When we have Imlie who's faced all hardships in her life, who is not as educated as Malini, coming from a very different social set up, etc..acting like an adult, it is very hard to root for a character like Malini.

Its a good thing we have such a stark difference shown by the makers. It reinforces the idea that money, fortune, class etc..has got nothing to do with ones character.

As you said, nobody is flawless but what makes you better is the choices you make, the things you say and practice, and more than anything TRYING to grow to be a better person than you were yesterday. Malini has not grown a single bit as a person and she is reluctant to try for it as well. She just keeps pretending!

Kya aisa ho Sakta hai ki adi ko bachate time Imlie too fall in the hand of terrorist and both Adilie together escape from there😳 in this process Imlie will get injured badly and we might get 11 kisses from Babusahib this time😳 😆

And here Ts and DD bas nautanki karte reh jaaye ..😡

Then grand entry of Babusahib godi me uthate huwe to Imaliya 😳😆 😆 rota huwa , gidgidaata huwa for his jhalli " ye humari patni hai" bolta huwa🤣

Originally posted by: shalu79

Thank you, Nim❤️🤗

Today I may skip watching the epi. Insta pe hi clip dekh lungi...

Just before getting kidnapped BBSB told his jhalli to remind his mother who has conveniently forgotten what all you have done for this family, how much u have sacrificed... This is giving me hope that may be her fight, her determination may open their eyes at last. N atleast they stop being so vile.

BBSB bahar aane tak ek Adilie dream/flashback scene dedo... Mein bhi kitni expectations rakhti hu insee😆

tum BBSB ke kidnap ke baad baura gayi hoo jo Adilie ka scene mang raahi ho atif jaan de dega par scene nahi dega 😂