Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 55 - Page 25

Originally posted by: JayashreeR

yeah they are savage I love all the parody account farhad krishna

Sometimes I miss their tweet as but will go back and check it 🤣

Twitter parody account of Farhad is behind Krishna 🤣🤣

Yes he is in love with parody krishna

Jabse amruta ke saath track chalu kiya hain tab se woh dono gayab hain 🤣

Parody Himanshu is in shock

Originally posted by: inlieu

Disclaimer - I am not here to take sides with Raghav or Pallavi in this post. I'm just trying to sum up what I see as the current state of the story.

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I wish people would cut Pallavi some slack.

Let her process things, it's all new for her. She's dealing with the ghosts of her past, now literally in the flesh. She once wondered what life might have been like had she married Mandaar but now her circumstances have changed and she's emotionally bound to Raghav forever. Seeing Mandaar back is making her feel like her past is dragging her back. She was barely married to Mandar for a few hours I guess, so since her wedding night she'd largely been like a single woman living with the Ds, more their beti than bahu. Now the fact that she's being referred to as Mandar's wife, implying she's their bahu, makes her feel awkward because she never really took that role on in her 2 years there.

She has only truly been a wife to Raghav and a bahu at the Raos now gradually and as she said legal documents or a piece of paper do not build a relationship. The experiences she's had with Raghav and the rest of the Raos has helped her grow as a person and see other facets of life, beyond just breaking free of the D-fam prison. However, that has happened more in a physical sense. Psychologically she has managed to remove some of her shackles but I believe through this track she's going to feel empowered to remove the remaining ones when everyone's true colors are seen. No matter how much Raghav may protect her or defend her, at some point she has to speak up for herself. As she did in the past, she will this time too but only when she's had time to figure out what exactly she wants to do next.

On top of that, the number of villains in her life has increased with Mansi and Keerti wishing her ill at every step. Amma's still supporting her and I hope this continues forever, but the fact is that the only one who can really stand with her is Raghav, since this new development has the potential to destroy his life as much as hers. Their relationship is/will be going through a trial by fire and only then will a stronger bond be forged. I think they started off on the right foot with trying to present a united front and work towards the same goal but Mandaar's real plan is still a mystery so we'll have to brace ourselves for some unexpected situations as will Raghav and Pallavi. They may not know how to respond or may not always make the right decisions, but as long as they are on the same page about supporting each other and defeating their enemies together, things will work out eventually.

The writers always draw parallels. If the previous track was about Raghav's past hurting his present, this one is about hers. Ultimately they will both be affected because their fates are intertwined. They say spouses complete one another/complement one another in areas where the other person may not be as strong. This is what I expect this track to explore. The best part is that they are talking about things upfront more and sharing their concerns right away rather than letting it fester. I really like seeing this on a show for a change instead of letting things drag and misunderstandings pile up. They've had their share of it and learned the hard way that being open with each other is the best way to protect their relationship and show respect to one another's feelings. So let the writers craft this tale the way they intended and see where it takes us. So far Raghav and Pallavi have been acting true to their character for the most part. I don't see a deviation there, give or take some scenes that have gone off on a tangent, but that is to be expected to some degree on ITV so I let it go.

Thank you so much for this post. This was much needed. People do need to cut Pallavi slack.

I read too many posts bashing Pallavi ki feed kyu Kara rahi thi etc etc and tbh even I hated that she agreed but she was being guilt tripped by the Deshmukhs. First the doctor did it by saying she will stay with you and she will feed you and then Sulochana did it haan haan Pallavi khilao na khana yeh lo Mandar tera pati hai khila usko khana and in that particular moment even baba was looking at her expectantly even though he himself ousted her and then again Sulochana calling mujhe sheera banana nhi aata and Pooja hai please bana de Ghar aake etc etc.

She is a naive kind hearted person who the Deshmukhs are guilt tripping over and over again because they know she is vulnerable to their manipulation. Also even though she has extremely good moral values and has knowledge of how to manage relationships well usko duniyadaari ki bilkul samajh nahi hai and we have seen this time and again kaam keliye without informing raat ko chale jaana and then kisi known (Raghav) ko chhod kr unknown ko trust krke unse lift Lena just to spite Raghav(because she knew deep down Raghav Kuch bhi karega but limits cross nahi karega like molesting sort type she knew she would be safe), not realising that repeatedly Raghav ko kaam se milna is also making people doubt her and not understanding Raghav tricked her into signing the shop papers etc and the most recent she didn’t realise that her going to D house now without her husband will cast suspicion on her character and that it’s what Sulochana wants.

So do cut her slack.

In fact in today’s episode also Sulochana’s intention was wrong as she said Raghav kyun aa Gaya but Raghav and Amma both must have realised post sunny incident and Sulochana being too sweet over the call and I am glad that Raghav explained this to Pallavi ki ab tum akele waha jayega toh people will gossip about you and I don’t want that tumare character pe koi Kuch bole. And he didn’t say it but implied that try as much as possible to not come to D house without me.

Moreover almost everyone has a blind spot when it comes to their families and some past wounds.

@bold - Exactly, just thinking about Krishna Rao caused Raghav to have a panic attack then just imagine Pallavi keliye bhi yeh situation kitni khrb hai upar se the added fear and insecurity. Just because she is emotionally strong enough that all of this didn’t cause a panic attack or a fainting spell yet does not mean she isn’t emotionally disturbed and the only reason the stress fainting thing has not happened yet is because she has Raghav in her corner who is standing by her side and Amma who is guiding Raghvi and helping them navigate this extremely difficult situation.

Originally posted by: jakkula.sirisha

Tashan kaha se hoga ye bandar ne tho drama shuru karke ladies ka sympathi gain karli

Anna ne moh kola nahi dono mahan aurate lecture shuru kardi

Annna has inherent filter for their over action n emotional atyachar. Don worry he ll filter their advice about his behaviour in hawa.

It s impossible to expect hint o be nice n friendly with his wife's so called ex who has come to take his wife back home with him.🤷🤷🤷 Only in alternate universe will it happen.🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 With anna no chance. 😂🤣😂🤣

Originally posted by: Medha0609

Thank you so much for this post. This was much needed. People do need to cut Pallavi slack.

I read too many posts bashing Pallavi ki feed kyu Kara rahi thi etc etc and tbh even I hated that she agreed but she was being guilt tripped by the Deshmukhs. First the doctor did it by saying she will stay with you and she will feed you and then Sulochana did it haan haan Pallavi khilao na khana yeh lo Mandar tera pati hai khila usko khana and in that particular moment even baba was looking at her expectantly even though he himself ousted her and then again Sulochana calling mujhe sheera banana nhi aata and Pooja hai please bana de Ghar aake etc etc.

She is a naive kind hearted person who the Deshmukhs are guilt tripping over and over again because they know she is vulnerable to their manipulation. Also even though she has extremely good moral values and has knowledge of how to manage relationships well usko duniyadaari ki bilkul samajh nahi hai and we have seen this time and again kaam keliye without informing raat ko chale jaana and then kisi known (Raghav) ko chhod kr unknown ko trust krke unse lift Lena just to spite Raghav(because she knew deep down Raghav Kuch bhi karega but limits cross nahi karega like molesting sort type she knew she would be safe), not realising that repeatedly Raghav ko kaam se milna is also making people doubt her and not understanding Raghav tricked her into signing the shop papers etc and the most recent she didn’t realise that her going to D house now without her husband will cast suspicion on her character and that it’s what Sulochana wants.

So do cut her slack.

In fact in today’s episode also Sulochana’s intention was wrong as she said Raghav kyun aa Gaya but Raghav and Amma both must have realised post sunny incident and Sulochana being too sweet over the call and I am glad that Raghav explained this to Pallavi ki ab tum akele waha jayega toh people will gossip about you and I don’t want that tumare character pe koi Kuch bole. And he didn’t say it but implied that try as much as possible to not come to D house without me.

Moreover almost everyone has a blind spot when it comes to their families and some past wounds.

@bold - Exactly, just thinking about Krishna Rao caused Raghav to have a panic attack then just imagine Pallavi keliye bhi yeh situation kitni khrb hai upar se the added fear and insecurity. Just because she is emotionally strong enough that all of this didn’t cause a panic attack or a fainting spell yet does not mean she isn’t emotionally disturbed and the only reason the stress fainting thing has not happened yet is because she has Raghav in her corner who is standing by her side and Amma who is guiding Raghvi and helping them navigate this extremely difficult situation.

Sab se bada jhatka to pallavi k life ko laga hai. 🤣😂

Due to Anna's life being attached to pallavi he s also getting effected.

It s like heart fail hogaya hai aur pair mr Sujan hai.

Sujan dikhti hai kyu ki wo surface pe hai but Sujan is due to heart failure.

To pehle we need to think of heart .

Here heart s pallu. N Sujan s anna.

Hope it ll make some sense. 🤗🤗🤗

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Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Sab se bada jhatka to pallavi k life ko laga hai. 🤣😂

Due to Anna's life being attached to pallavi he s also getting effected.

It s like heart fail hogaya hai aur pair mr Sujan hai.

Sujan dikhti hai kyu ki wo surface pe hai but Sujan is due to heart failure.

To pehle we need to think of heart .

Here heart s pallu. N Sujan s anna.

Hope it ll make some sense. 🤗🤗🤗

It makes perfect sense 👏🏻👏🏻 at least to me as I am a med student 😂

Anna Ka six sense sach mein kaam krta hai ...now legal grounds pr to ragvi marriage is valid to ab Mandu ki pallvi kyo Chahiye bus yaho se Anna Ka sixth sense alert ho Gaya hai and Anna ki wo smirk in precap.

Anna k liye aise Kai Mandu Aaye aur gaye😆

I do agree with what you've said. Raghav has got good dialogues and a bigger platform to create an impact but at the end of the day how much can he do unless his partner gives him her hand

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

U still on to pairing, poor girl. Find some good girl for farhad anna 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

I don't mind this track but pallavi with D family I don't have that level patience 😆

D jhap Mandar jhap se me pak gayi hoon

and Pallu Jhap is will end only if she reach the breaking saturation point and see the reality of D family till then we have to bare it as u say