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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Faithaboveall

Manifesting it strongly😆

Candle romance 2.0 milega hi milega 🤣

candle ka to maloom nahin

Koi scene to milegi👍

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Detachment mode on

No expectations to waise bhi on rehta hai

But I think kuch to milega🤷🏻‍♀️

Maybe just me being silly

Detach mat ho itni jaldi

Mai toh ho bhi jaau fir se KD aur uski aankhen kheech leti hain.. magnetic effect hai kuch🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Detach mat ho itni jaldi

Mai toh ho bhi jaau fir se KD aur uski aankhen kheech leti hain.. magnetic effect hai kuch🤣

Magnetic effect uski aankhon mein nahin tere dil mein hai Sakhi... isliye baar baar khichi chali jaati hai.

Jab tak they do not give beautiful scenes na, yeh mode on hi rehna hai as a safety catch🤣

The plus point of the mode is I am never disappointed 😝 its always fleeting

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakmen

So generally, I'm very lazy about doing homework here, but after Prema and Nivi's posts I went to read the previous EDT's Last night's conversations. And I'm very emotional right now.

Thank you all beautiful and strong ladies for pouring your hearts out🤗❤️

I can't even imagine what you all have gone through or are going through. I'm much younger to you all and haven't even experienced things as much as you all. But whatever little I've seen, I've come to know that relatives have got noses just to poke in other people's businesses. They can neither see you happy nor unhappy. You do them all good or all bad, they'll still find problems in you. So never give a damn about them. YOUR LIFE YOUR RULES.

I know fertility is a very sensitive issue, being suffering from PCOD myself for years now, I do get told by a lot of people around me to lose weight so that you don't have problems conceiving in the future.. no care about my health but for the conceiving part only, as if I'm just born to do that.

I can't even imagine what you must be going through Nups and Piu🤗 Big hug and a lot of strength to you ❤️

Prema, your story is so inspiring and beautiful.. I know it is so now, but at that time it must have been a lot to go through. And I'm so glad that you came out of it as a warrior. God bless your family.❤️

My own parents got married very late. My mother was 38 and father 40, when they got married. It was my mother's first marriage and my father's second. He had a "son" from his first marriage, but due to some strained issues in the marriage, they divorced. He never met them, including his son, after getting divorced. He started his new life with my mother with all his heart. Conceiving at 38, was obviously an issue for my mother, but 2 years later they had me. And due to some complications, the doctor told her that she won't be able to conceive again. My father had no problems with it, but some people did and till date have, as I was a "girl".

My father never discriminated or thought of me any less, for not being a particular gender. He always let me have my way and fulfil all my desires. He never ever even mentioned to me about his son or past life, until few months before he passed away... when that son appeared out of nowhere after 30 years to demand a share in his property. And, my father just couldn't help but hate for it afterwards.

My grandmother loved me a lot too, but she sometimes used to have a taunting undertone for my mother that she's given birth only to one child and that too a daughter.

My father was terminally ill for about past 7 years, underwent 3 major surgeries during this time. My mother and I single handedly have took care of him all this while.. all my relatives including his real brothers and sister used to come as guests and go, just for formality sake, nobody was of any real help if I may say so! Having done all of that alone, from the age of 18, my relatives still have the audacity to say "ladki hai, kya kya karegi" and still be of no help at all.

when my dad passed away, and it was time to decide that who'd do the cremation, yeah they had to decide that, I was asked by a cousin of my father as whom do I want to do it.. I without any single thought said that I want to do it. When he has brought me up without any thought that whether I'm a girl or boy, then at this point also I have the whole right to do it.

My "so called family members" still had problems with it as some sin would ensue on them if a girl did it. But I did it anyway.

Since then, most of them have not even come to ur house after all the rituals got over, it's been 4 months. Just some formality phone calls every now and then to check up on mom n me. And even some complaints that we don't call them.. I told you, whatever you do or not do they will find problems.

It's not easy but we are doing fine while dealing with a lot of issues... So lead your lives the way you want to because people will have issues anyway.

I think I wrote too much while crying in between.😆

Maahi I'm all up for the alternate YKB platform 🤗🤗

Lots of love and strength to you all❤❤❤

Sakshi❤️

Lots of love and strength to you❤️🤗

You have undergone a lot in life and you have bounced back more stronger...You are one strong girl❤️

You are an amazing daughter and you will always make your mom proud❤️ Your dad will be happily blessing you always❤️

Big YKB to you🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakmen

So generally, I'm very lazy about doing homework here, but after Prema and Nivi's posts I went to read the previous EDT's Last night's conversations. And I'm very emotional right now.

Thank you all beautiful and strong ladies for pouring your hearts out🤗❤️

I can't even imagine what you all have gone through or are going through. I'm much younger to you all and haven't even experienced things as much as you all. But whatever little I've seen, I've come to know that relatives have got noses just to poke in other people's businesses. They can neither see you happy nor unhappy. You do them all good or all bad, they'll still find problems in you. So never give a damn about them. YOUR LIFE YOUR RULES.

I know fertility is a very sensitive issue, being suffering from PCOD myself for years now, I do get told by a lot of people around me to lose weight so that you don't have problems conceiving in the future.. no care about my health but for the conceiving part only, as if I'm just born to do that.

I can't even imagine what you must be going through Nups and Piu🤗 Big hug and a lot of strength to you ❤️

Prema, your story is so inspiring and beautiful.. I know it is so now, but at that time it must have been a lot to go through. And I'm so glad that you came out of it as a warrior. God bless your family.❤️

My own parents got married very late. My mother was 38 and father 40, when they got married. It was my mother's first marriage and my father's second. He had a "son" from his first marriage, but due to some strained issues in the marriage, they divorced. He never met them, including his son, after getting divorced. He started his new life with my mother with all his heart. Conceiving at 38, was obviously an issue for my mother, but 2 years later they had me. And due to some complications, the doctor told her that she won't be able to conceive again. My father had no problems with it, but some people did and till date have, as I was a "girl".

My father never discriminated or thought of me any less, for not being a particular gender. He always let me have my way and fulfil all my desires. He never ever even mentioned to me about his son or past life, until few months before he passed away... when that son appeared out of nowhere after 30 years to demand a share in his property. And, my father just couldn't help but hate for it afterwards.

My grandmother loved me a lot too, but she sometimes used to have a taunting undertone for my mother that she's given birth only to one child and that too a daughter.

My father was terminally ill for about past 7 years, underwent 3 major surgeries during this time. My mother and I single handedly have took care of him all this while.. all my relatives including his real brothers and sister used to come as guests and go, just for formality sake, nobody was of any real help if I may say so! Having done all of that alone, from the age of 18, my relatives still have the audacity to say "ladki hai, kya kya karegi" and still be of no help at all.

when my dad passed away, and it was time to decide that who'd do the cremation, yeah they had to decide that, I was asked by a cousin of my father as whom do I want to do it.. I without any single thought said that I want to do it. When he has brought me up without any thought that whether I'm a girl or boy, then at this point also I have the whole right to do it.

My "so called family members" still had problems with it as some sin would ensue on them if a girl did it. But I did it anyway.

Since then, most of them have not even come to ur house after all the rituals got over, it's been 4 months. Just some formality phone calls every now and then to check up on mom n me. And even some complaints that we don't call them.. I told you, whatever you do or not do they will find problems.

It's not easy but we are doing fine while dealing with a lot of issues... So lead your lives the way you want to because people will have issues anyway.

I think I wrote too much while crying in between.😆

Maahi I'm all up for the alternate YKB platform 🤗🤗

Lots of love and strength to you all❤❤❤


Sakshi, I'm so sorry you & your mum had to go through so much

more power to both you & your mom 🥺❤️

both of you, deserve all the love & happiness in this world & don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

also, I LOVE YOU, OKIE? REMEMBER THAT.


I live by one rule w.r.t. my relatives in order to maintain my sanity, that is ✨people disappoint

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Magnetic effect uski aankhon mein nahin tere dil mein hai Sakhi... isliye baar baar khichi chali jaati hai.

Jab tak they do not give beautiful scenes na, yeh mode on hi rehna hai as a safety catch🤣

The plus point of the mode is I am never disappointed 😝 its always fleeting

Good be fleeting in your detachment mode🤣

Haan saara magnet aur iron mere hi dil mein hai.. isliye koi aur attract hi ni hota🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Hellooo guyss❤️

Pixie on full no expectations mode😎

Prepared for a shiviless week💪

Thinking of starting my Back up show from tomorrow, the promo the cast shared.looks.promising 😎

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Pri!!! Welcome back❤️🤗 missed you! Pri doing her homework phast phast🤣😆

Nups...I read you posts and I am so happy you shared it here❤️

You are an inspiration❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

candle ka to maloom nahin

Koi scene to milegi👍

Candle nahi hogi but andere mein crash and burn hogi 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Faithaboveall

Manifesting it strongly😆

Candle romance 2.0 milega hi milega 🤣

Manifesting is the word ❤️

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