Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood
I totally agree about her being a horrible mother to Adi, Aps! May be she is hurting Imlie to hurt him too. Its very scary how she has justified her stance by doing the exact "dhoka" to her son. Just to make a point. Parents need to understand that even if its her child, she cant be possessive about them or treat them as a puppet or their toy. She cannot impose her choices on him. There are lot of ways she could get her son to understand her, but locking him in his room and stuff..thats horrifying.
A parent becomes a good parent when he/she starts to respect their children and their individuality. This is not at all done.
One thing that hit me now is that Aps, may be she has had such archaic traits in her and thats being shown in the show subtly? Like take her regressive classist mindset, the group of people she socialises with, their refusal to agree for Rupi's divorce, remember the day Radha slapped Imlie? That day Rupi gave us an idea how children are treated in their homes as well. I think those scenes were not randomly kept there. Looks like there was a lot of thought process. Tripathis were always like that I feel.
Coming to Imlie Aps, you know what I would say😅😅..I believe in fair treatment Aps! I have written that many times. I have always felt that ones actions and words dictate what they are. Not their mindset. Even if we say that she has a beautiful heart she still chose to vent her frustrations on that 19 year old girl without any care or concern and that too HOW! Malini's character was tolerable to me until she decided to torture Imlie because of her insecurities. While that was insecurity, this is far worse..classism. If Aparna has issues thats her problem, she could also stay indifferent to Imlie, but she decided to torture her instead, which was totally what she chose to be. Her inner turmoil will not EVER justify her action and words to people. I respect Adi because he never seemed to torture Imlie for her status. He was in denial for whole another reason..thats why I believe Adi's redemption is far easier than Aparna's.
Just my POV
But yes #95%Match 😂✌🏼