Originally posted by Roop_P
It’s breaking my heart the way this world is so mean to people with pure intentions and soft hearts. Arnav is one of them. He is not what he seems.
Those are the ones who get hurt the most. I am seriously amazed at the mentality of people these days, They want the attention the way they feel like they deserve it without giving two cents to others. The language, the words they use is disgusting. They start conversation by calling names first and this is what they call it friendship or we love each other so much. What happened to manners in lives? The sensitive ones get hurt for their lives like Arnav. This is why Khushi successfully entered in his heart because she was full of softness, happiness, positivity, laughter, and silliness with pure innocence.
With time the cruelty towards people even some of them need to be cherished, He completely has lost that touch. He thinks he is being used.
This was his experience and I must say, he is not wrong. The way this world is, majority is out there to use you except a few good ones among them. It is hard to differentiate and trust people so easily.
Instead of being appreciated and valued, no doubt he was taken for granted and considered as an option or a backup plan in many cases. No one ever thinks of him as Khushi is doing. He knows he is on her mind, he knows every challenge he is making her go through, she is constantly thinking to get back at him. That attention he never got from anyone else. Most of the people got intimidated and that was the end.
Oh I love this thought here, indeed, he knew exactly after punched down by 2:0 🤣 he underestimated her but after knowing her nature he played his cards well.
Arnav is one of those who are the one if anyone is in need they gonna be there and their doors are always wide open. BUT
He never got that from anyone.So when he said on new years eve all those bitter words, he is right as there is no need to wonder why this world is only getting filthier and uglier. Since we have always been ruining everything beautiful left around even those rare, kind and loving souls in our life...
😭 so so touched my heart, we humans are so cruel. I have seen so much, heard so much since this pandemic started, being a front line worker, my heart aches.
Arnav was ruined by his parents and relatives.
No one is born with a hard heart. We are born with soft and tender hearts that, more often than not, are mishandled and consequently broken. The pain is always harsher than expected when each fragment turns to stone.
So we pile them high to form a wall of protection around ourselves, determined never to experience such terrible pain again. That is how hearts come to be hardened. Ironically, our refusal to dismantle the wall is how and why we continue to suffer. This is where Arnav is standing.
Ah, what a cruel realilty it is, we learn how to survive
Today Khushi is seeing a totally different ASR. The poor soul is getting confused every time he does something nice like saving her from the car, but he is the one who dropped her from his office.
Achoo
Bless you dono ko
Because they both are riding the same boat, she is confused and so is he. Howcome any middle-class girl be like this who doesn't care about appearance, does not get intimidated by him, has no fear to say or do what is on her mind. She was an enigma for him too.
Lovely posts
yeap, it seems he is harsh and no doubt he was but this was his way to deal with such a confused state of mind. How come one girl like her can turn his life upside down?
and she, she was like howcome this man be like this? watering...meaning nourishing, nurturing,
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Originally posted by _Charu_
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It took her a while to get used to his persona..why he does what he does and why is he like that ..she keeps wondering ..later , she didn't care 
She never tried to change him or even understand him..she could see through his tough exterior ..right through and she loved him...nothing else mattered..
It goes with both, her blabbering, her craziness and his gussa, his sudden outlashes, nothing mattered, they both loved each other the way they were
Although his parents and relatives Poisoned his.mind ,.I give full.credit to anjali for that soft heart which survived the tough times..n khushi was the only with whom.he had a relationship like that..he needed that tender care and a guiding light ..at the same time he needed to be strong, to fight the world, to protect his family .
She has the credit yet it was the good memories of his mother...Gardening, and the garden he created, don't forget that a mother's lap either it is there or not, but the moments, words, and everything attached to her is the key factor. In mother's absence a child's mind always acts and thinks and does the way she does. This is where Arnav was, his sister and her presence always reminded him his mother. and that is where he has shown possessiveness and extremeness.
There r all varieties of ppl who exist.. n they should be judged for who they are and not for their weaknesses....inside , all of us are the same and Inside , all our needs r similar..unconditional love .
I disagree. I am sorry if anyone carries good traits and a good person but the actions speak otherwise, and their treatment with all is not same then that person is not for me.That is hypocracy. Wekness but it causes hurt in other persons. And that is not acceptable.
All this while , skimming through so many forums, whenever the reference of "toxic males " come up, asr was mentioned , n I always wondered aisa hi tha ? Infact this made me watch ipk after so long why do girls fall in love with such men ? Why are they forgiven ? Why do girls put up with toxicity ? Why are they appreciated ? He did this this this that that that to khushi and everything was passed off as a romantic gesture..i believe He was wrong to do that to khushi..he was mean to her, he was arrogant, he was used to having his way, he hurts her ..but.. He was a lot more than this , n this is what matters to me....one of the best layered characters I have seen....
It's.upto us to take whatever , from the story..what I take is..love changes people ..only love holds that power to change someone ..
First of all, majority young or old love this character because of looks and the sexy appeal of him. Second, is the majority who actually understands the character and the person in him and that is where they are forgiven, Third is the majority who actually takes him as a raw, full of factual character and relate to them men as majority men are like that and they are forgiving his brutal actions.
Now if you talk in real life, it is way too difficult to live with such person, love is another story. Women in the past were different but now the patience, and forgiving nature is gone. This is fictional character and watching M&B we women like such things but only up to the characters but not in real life.
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Lovely thoughts both
Lots of red
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