You are more than the labels the world assigns you - Page 7

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Pearl ji hum positivity ke peak pe rehne waale hai so let’s just say apu ne Imlie ko pyaar se paani phek ke jagaya before anyone wakes up to ask her to shift into adityas bedroom 😛

Subko surprise dena chahti hai😆

Yay, jojo joined my optimism ki toli.😆

Originally posted by: abhita

Precap ne mujhe bahut hila diya. hamare wahan hum househelps ko bhi aap aap bolte hain. yeh.. aise sab imagine bhi nahi kar sakte. hamari el house help thi. woh aur meri Amma ka alag hi rishta hain. in fact ghar main sabse. woh Amma aur Appa ko Amma and Appa bulati hain, bhaiyya ko bhaiyya bhabhi ko didi.

sirf mujhe ghar pe naam se bulati hain aur hakk se bulati hain. she came last week to invite us to her housewarming with the first card for amma and appa and inka ashirwaad bhi liya... jab main aise dekhti hoon.. I understand tv show hain... but then it's too drastic. shuru main itna pyaar dikha ke abhi jhat se aise bartaav karna ? isse to acchi Anu thi.. woh jab leke gayi thi to pata tha aise hi bartav karne wali hain.. yeh log to Anu se bhi gaye guzre nikle.

Lovely to meet one more tamilian on the forum abhita😊. So glad to know that this show has such a wide pan indian and overseas following.

The reactions by aparna and radha are too vampy if anything. Househelp wo isliye bani kyunki use shaadi chupaani thi and in reality as you said people are never treated with this level of contempt anywhere regardless of social status. Is level of negativity dekhne ke liye dil pe patthar rakhna padega.

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Lovely write up APS ji 👍🏼

Today's episode was fikaa after Saturday'd black buster..only good thing inn epi is Sunder- Imlie convo👍🏼 Sumder ke liye respect badh gayaa 👏 man .. friend ho to aisa Varna na ho⭐️ Imaliya needed this boost from neutral person very much at that point where her self confidence ki , character ki, her upbringing ki dhajjiya udd gayi this by so called loving caring T family😕

Sunlie BFF🥳

T family seniors maintained their true colors .🤢

T family juniors too maintained there stand but couldn't do much

DC- DD as usual useless 😡

AC - plz Jo bola wo karna ..plz keep away your daughter from Adi and T's..

DD - two faced person😡 chit bhi Meri aur pat bhi meri🤢 me Devi/ Mahaan or get back Adi 😡 dono taraf iski to maze hi..

Adi Babusahib- bechara shaken by the reality/ true face of own family😕 couldn't do much to protect Imaliya😭 .. shattered and shocked.

Imlie- tried to tell them the reality but unsuccessful 😭

I liked it that she didn't try much because she knew its coming unlike Babusahib..

Precap -- horrible😲 The way they splashed water on her while she was sleeping is 🤬 no words for these ladies👎🏼 poor girl surrendered completely to these evil looking so called mothers 😡 who once claimed they love her like a " beti" 😕

Hope tomorrow we will get Adilie scene ..a heart to heart convo ..a proper one not just token plz ..

Thank you Panchhi ji.

Itna bada blockbuster ke baad, aaj toh phika hona tha. Luckily for me I went in with very low expectations and was presently surprised with the Sundar and Imlie scene, jine mera din bana diya.

+1 on Bold - While uske motivations aur tareke aside, AC needs to keep Malini away for her and our sanity.

Adi thak gaya. He really expected so much from his family and they really let him down with their thoughts and reactions.

Imlie was just resigned and a bit worried, which got solved to some extent with her conversation with Sundar.

I am reserving my judgement on the precap till I see what actually happens.

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Haanji pyaar se daayan waali looks de rahi thi dono auntiyaan😆

Are tabhi toh surprise ka mazaa aayega na.😆

Originally posted by: Pearl21

bahi Tripathi's ke izat ka sawal ha gharr ke bahu asa kone mein pare ache lage g😆 Kea 😆pata shadi ke baad meetha bunwae imlie se ritual you know es liay pani phenk k uthaia ho y bhi unka payar ha na akhir dil ke buri thori na ha aparna 😆

Yaar Pearlji aap toh bahut aage pahunch gaye. Thoda sabar rakhiye, yeh bhi aayega, lekin itni jaldi bhi nahi😆

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Please yaar rant kar do twitter pe. Today i tagged atif on how upset i was with the epi bas depressed waale gifs add karna bhool gayi. Sach me bardhaast nahi hoti hai itni negativity.😭

Tensionaiye mat. Hum hai na. Jojo, main and the others itna mazaak banayenge episode ka, that you will feel much better.

Jojo, really need some positivity dear. Help

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

"You are more than the labels the world assigns you and have a long way to go to achieve your dreams" Sundar's words to Imlie struck my heart today & made me cry. These words will forever be the bastion for Imlie, to deal with the current situation and forge ahead with her dreams.

Yess, I cried too.😭

From the get go, I was able to see the actual emotions behind each character's reactions to the truth, and their motivations for that reaction. Be it the Tripathis or even AC, today everyone was just dealing with the aftermath of the truth and Adi's choices.

Saturday's statement to Adi by PT was answered by Rupi, who reminded everyone that Malini loves someone else. Now how long that excuse is going to keep the T's from trying to get AM back together, we will have to see. Malini expecting decency from her mother made me laugh. This woman has never given anybody a reason to expect any level of decency in her behavior in the last 200+ episodes, why does her daughter even try, I will never understand.

Today AC's motivations made sense to me from her perspective. She is a vindictive woman who wants to take revenge for her and her daughter's betrayal from the easiest target - Imlie. Is she right? Of course not. But her thought process and stand have always been very clear and consistent, unlike the other people in her family, who still flip flop so much, that it gets my head spinning. AC today asked very pointed questions to Malini, who was trying her best to convince both her mother & herself that everything leading upto this moment were own choices and she was happy with it. While I know she will flip the next second (which she did, I knew I could count on that) she did try to convince her parents (mainly her mom, coz she also has lost all hopes from her father to do anything. Dev just keeps proving that no one should keep any expectations from him, absolutely no one) to allow Adi & Imlie to live their lives peacefully.

At the T house, Radhaji started her "Samaj kya kahega jaap" and Adi was just done. He made it clear that we fall in love with a person and not the samaj. He is the least bothered what other people think of his marriage with Imlie and will not allow anything wrong to happen with her. Aparna tried to start her Malini jaap, which rebutted very well by Adi, who mentioned that he had apologized to Malini multiple times and finally Pallavi who correctly mentioned that just because Malini is wronged, they cannot do the same to Imlie when she is not at fault.

Today I finally understood why Radhaji & BK have had such a successful marriage, as both tend to think the exact same way. When BK tried to go all moral police and tag Imlie's actions as her "gande neeyat", his son came back to remind him of exactly all the actions that Imlie has done and try to understand exactly which one of them have "gande neeyat" attached to them. I am glad that here it was Nishant who tried to make BK understand that he did not misjudge Imlie then and this feeling of betrayal is what is causing them to unsee everything that Imlie has done for this family over this entire period of time. Everything that she has done, was now colored by the fact that she was doing this to phasao Adi in her jaal, just because she hid the truth from them. Radhaji went one step ahead to involve her parents in this as well, which got such a violent reaction from Adi, that even Imlie was surprised.

Aparna started to blame Imlie for doing everything to capture Adi & his family in her web of lies and tried to blame her other for teaching her all of this. Like we all expected, that statement finally broke Imlie's silence. She finally said that coming to the city was never her choice but she had to come out of majboori. How her mother shed tears of blood and how her dadda was ready to shed blood when they sent her away. How she never wanted to stay, but their love and support just made it difficult to go away. She never wanted to hurt anybody, be it Malini or the T family.

Aparna's reaction to her pleas instantly made me connect to Imlie's dialogue to Adi, when in jealousy he asked her to marry Prakash. She tells him that everytime he feels his heart melting for her, he feels guilty of cheating Malini and then lashes out at her to insult her and make her feel bad, so that she steps back & leaves him. Today Aparna did the exact same thing. While Imlie was making her case, Aparna was visibly melting and you could see that she was able to somewhat understand that Imlie was just a little girl stuck in a situation not of her choice. But because she felt that by melting she will do injustice to Mali's memory, she immediately shut down her feelings and insulted Imlie in the worst way she knew, just to push her away. Her anger was her defense mechanism to deal with this unexpected situation that both Adi & Imlie have put her in, just like her son.

I was just trying to remember where all Aaditya had insulted Imlie like Apu today, your reference is to the point. Aaditya is the spitting image of his mother (so Apu definitely is going to regret every single word that she said today big time😊, bus usase pehale kitna low jayenge yahi dekhana padega patience ke sath😔)

Imlie just walks out of there to deal with everything on her own, leaving Adi to contemplate if what happened was a bad dream he could not wake out of. Nishant comes there and reminds Adi that life does not change in an instant and he needs to give the family time to come out of this shock.

Finally we get to see KC after a long time. While DC is not so keen on him, AC is willing to use him to keep Malini away from the T's and Adilie. This one scene showed me just how big of an Adilie shipper AC actually is. Just imagine how all of us were so worried that Malini will get herself involved in this situation to make her presence felt, but looks like AC is doing the heavy lifting to keep Malini away and let Imlie patao her in-laws on her own. Thank you lord for giving us AC😆.

Agree totally 🤣

KC & Malini's conversation is again a rinse and repeat of him trying to understand if she wants to move on and singing praises of how big a sacrifice she has made by giving up her pyaar for them. But he said one good thing - finish this naam ka rishta also & all of you move on with your lives. then he finally asked teh million dollar question - "Do you want to move on?" Made me laugh at how he put Malini in a delicate situation with this question, where either answer is going to take her down a path she does not want to go on.😆

Finally we get the best scene of the day. I am glad that out of everyone, Imlie chose to speak to Sundar. While I understand her motivation behind sharing her feelings with Sundar as he will be a neutral third person who can tell her what has been gnawing at her this entire time. Has she tried to go above her aukat by falling in love with and holding on to her relationship with Adi? Is she trying to see dreams beyond her "pay grade"? Sundar so beautifully explains that his advice to her was always mired in what he had learnt from childhood about his own position in society. How while he is happy with his place that society has defined for him, she is not like him in anyway. Meeting her made him understand how a person's status in society is defined by them, their thinking and their choices to make something of themselves. How her being state second and student of the month shows that despite what anyone says, her dreams and ambitions define her, not the labels that everyone wants to assign her to fit her in a box in their mind. He makes her realize now it may seem that she cannot match up to them now, but she will go very ahead in life to go much beyond what anybody expected and that he has full faith on her.

This scene was just what Imlie and viewers both needed after the tufaan. This is what your karma gets you, neki karo toh neki mil hi jati hai. Such a simple scene with no flashy set up, no heavy dialogues yet power packed impact, just loved it.🤗

After a very long time Imlie has shown me a scene that really made me emotional. While it may look cliche to people and others may feel ke usne aisa kya kaha that we all already do not know. But what his words did then was apply balm on a very hurt soul. It reminded Imlie that her dreams and ambitions are what define her, not the words and insults that the T family hurled at her today. That no matter what anyone says, she is much more that what she was called today by people she trusted and loved. Reminds me of when a child who goes against their parents to follow their dreams and are constantly put down for following something that may seem trivial to them. How that propels them to stick their guns and do their best to succeed, just to show that their choice to follow through on their dreams was not wrong. Today Imlie is in that situation, and Sundar's words confirmed to her that fighting for Adi & her dreams are not wrong, no matter what anybody says.

The precap shows Aparna & Radhaji asking Imlie to pack up her potli. While it can go either way, my feeling is that they may ask her to move from the kona to a guest room maybe? Let the speculations begin.

About time Imlie gets a room but I don’t think so, there tone was very rigid and hateful. May be they try to make Imlie leave only but mahaan M will not let that happen now. Something like will stay if Imlie stays, is that too pessimistic a guess 😔 didi patti joh bandh gayi hai senior T’s ke dimag pe.

Having agreed that this reaction of T’s is out of shock and betrayal, the whole senior T clan stooped very low today and lost some respect there. Times like this test your core, which was revealed to be very orthodox inside a shining package of sulzhe respected shehari. The amount of consideration Mithi gave Aaditya being mother to the girl he mistreated is so much more compared to what his own mother refused him on account of lying. Though Aadi and her nature is the same her being a mother and having experienced life more should have made some difference in how she reacts. Apu today was just a little above AC and proved herself far far below Mithi as a person. It really irked me when she questioned Mithi’s sikh.

The episode was owned by Sundar-Imlie, still in teary aww for them🙂

Originally posted by: abhita

Precap ne mujhe bahut hila diya. hamare wahan hum househelps ko bhi aap aap bolte hain. yeh.. aise sab imagine bhi nahi kar sakte. hamari el house help thi. woh aur meri Amma ka alag hi rishta hain. in fact ghar main sabse. woh Amma aur Appa ko Amma and Appa bulati hain, bhaiyya ko bhaiyya bhabhi ko didi.

sirf mujhe ghar pe naam se bulati hain aur hakk se bulati hain. she came last week to invite us to her housewarming with the first card for amma and appa and inka ashirwaad bhi liya... jab main aise dekhti hoon.. I understand tv show hain... but then it's too drastic. shuru main itna pyaar dikha ke abhi jhat se aise bartaav karna ? isse to acchi Anu thi.. woh jab leke gayi thi to pata tha aise hi bartav karne wali hain.. yeh log to Anu se bhi gaye guzre nikle.

Because insaan insaan hota hain. I really hope in ITV they show some really pressing issues like these. These stigmas and all..they need to be uprooted yaar..like big time! It is very toxic to show such tracks.

But as I said in another thread, may be the makers didnt really want to promote such regressive stuffs, and thats why they are showing a shift in opinion about these matters among the Jr. Ts as with the Sr. Ts

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Yaar Pearlji aap toh bahut aage pahunch gaye. Thoda sabar rakhiye, yeh bhi aayega, lekin itni jaldi bhi nahi😆

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I dont think it was just sympathy. Because if it was just sympathy, she would not have had such a violent reaction to everything. It was more betrayal she was feeling. See, with Malini, Aparna was always more formal, so even her emotions towards Malini were much more subdues, even when she thought Malini betrayed her son.

With Imlie she has a deeper relationship, so the btrayal hurt even more. Like they say that you lash out only at people you consider your own. Out of all the T's reactions, Aparna's was the worst, because her relationship with Adi & Imlie were the deepest. With deeper emotions there are always extreme reactions. That is what I saw in Aparna today. That brief moment when Imlie explained about how it was a majboori for her and not a choice, Aparna's heart melted and she could connect with what Imlie said. But to steel herself from further pain and to deal with her betrayal, she lashed out again at Imlie to push her away.

This process will continue till Aparna realizes that neither of them were at fault and that Adi & Imlie chose each other because they were meant to be. Only then will they be bale to come out of this shock.

actually no. Aparna thinks she loves Adi the most but that's not true. Adi himself taunted her about this during the salary for Imlie episode where he says Sab se pehle hamari jaan ki keemat lagayiye and then says im sorry sab se pehle Malini ki jaan ki keemat lagayiye phir hamari jaan ki keemat lagayiye.

Appu has always put Malini above everyone else disregarding Adi also. Adi painfully asking her aapne hum se pehle kyun nahi poocha ki Adi tum teek ho? hum bahut pehle aapko sacch bata dete. comes to mind.

usko yeh dikha ki Malini suffer kar rahi thi... par yeh nahi ki Adi bhi suffer kar raha tha. Adi ke yeh bolna ki Hume us kamre main damm ghut tha hain, kisine sawal nahi ki na samajhne ki koshish.

Aparna thode confused lagi mujhe... during the staying angry with Imlie phase. phir jinhone kaha ki pyaar se sunana bhi sikhaongi... for her to use such harsh words make me question her base values.

Adi rude hota tha... par usne language main Nagin wagaira kabhi use nahi ki.

the precap was really the pits.

kisine yeh tak nahi socha ki uske upar already kitna stress tha.