Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
Nanana this is not my philosophy.
Whenever she has suffered it was for Dev. Shiva and her got and gave to each other equally. And what he did has never been as heartbreaking as dev has. But he has been held accountable for several tracks straight for a mistake he has not even done. Dev? Raavi forgave him in an instant. U will say its because of Dev’s record of always being good to her. Yet al that goodness got destroyed the moment she tries to end her life for him. Shiva? He has just stood by her since then. She held his accusations over him and behaved so rudely with him for a misunderstanding. And Dev? She absolved him of guilt. I dont say Raavi haven’t suffered. I say Shiva has suffered because of her many times. And this will continue. I love Raavi for her innocence. But I love Shiva’s character for the selflessness. Except the rudeness he sometimes display towards her, I do not see him in much fault
that’s quite true, shiva has never hurt her as much as dev has and I won’t excuse dev’s actions at all neither should she (which she did 🤪)
the biggest thing I see him at fault for is regarding her the same he does with maami - she didn’t deserve that at all nor does she deserve it now
he couldn’t see past his anger and now he is beginning to which is wonderful but it doesn’t erase the fact that he did treat her poorly
that being said after they got married, she treated him very poorly as well with calling him gawar and all that - I wasn’t a fan of that either
I see the flaws in both of them as both of them project their anger into each other but still he has been rude to her a lot longer than she ever has. She only treated him with kindness and love before they got married. Of course throwing marriage into the equation is going to throw both of them in for a loop 😆
which is why I seriously don’t want her breaking shiva’s heart either but it will hurt more if he does the same to her
she’s been in love once and suffered - she doesn’t need to go through that again and I hope he never has to go through that 😆
Edited by SlytherInMe. - 4 years ago