PS|EDT #35|The Curious Case of Shiva's Adbhut Plan and Missing Rishita - Page 15

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese


Kitna achcha lag raha hai yeh dekhkar, it will be a while before we can see them like this again 💔

We'll get to see soon ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: bhavna101


But then he contradicts his own statements! If he was so affected that why, why did he do that? Why did he say that he shouldn't have saved her on the stairs and let her break some bones? He shouldn't have used her as a bargaining chip! He's acting like a pendulum, never stable at a particular statement.


Whatever he said, he did because of those bangles, it just makes all the previous things look meaningless.

He doesn't need to be vocal, the way he treats her, holds her aggressively, just shows how much he cares.


First of all, Bhavna, I am totally against any form of manhandling/womanhandling in real life. I am against violence in any form-verbal, emotional or physical.


Coming to your points which I believe are valid. Both Shiva and Raavi need to stop hurling abuses, verbal or physical, at each other.


Shiva did it more clearly and did it absolutely without any rhyme or reason before marriage too.

We have seen multiple instances where Raavi disrespected him too and tried to hit him with a stick.

They both share a problematic relationship and Shiva is at fault here. Grave mistakes made. He has to apologize and realise her worth as well as give her the respect she deserves! There are no two thoughts about it.


Let's talk a bit about real life. People do make grave mistakes and learn in real life. That's called journey, catharsis and progress.

Shiva isn't a Saint or a hero and has been constantly reprimanded for his abusive behaviour by everyone. Not even a single person supports him, including the ones whom he loves. Isn't that proof enough that no one likes his behaviour.


No matter how much we deny:

Is Raavi important to him? Yes

Does Raavi Deserve a man like Shiva? No

Does Shiva deserve to be called a good husband after today? No

Does Raavi need to walk out? Yes and she clearly did today!

That's all I wanted to say.

Edited by Transference - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Fir kya pata chala?

Abhi tak kuch bhi nai😂😂

Main sirf gif post kar rahi thi toh zyada dhyaan nahi de payi

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Shivi are so stuck in their messed up families 😞

I also don't want maami to get new kangans, but what can shiva do if she doesn't give her the Kangans?

He can't not take raavi forever, I think if this happens they will show shiva doing it for raavi's sake.to get her out of the mess that he has created.

I hope we get a maami and raavi confrontation scene tomorrow, like we got a shivi scene today.she seemed disgusted by maami when she was cursing dhara.

Personally I don't want the money to be for maami's new bangles, but it seems that it will happen .hope I am wrong 😣

Trust me we won't like it. Because mami will once again get away with everything as usual. But for now Shiva has to just think about Raavi and how to fix this. I don't think Raavi will confront mami anytime soon, I reckon she will once she's abit more emotionally attached to Shiva, way down the line.

It's like we might also have to swallow our pride and hate, only for our Raavi, and for our ShiVi to prosper.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kooki07

Shiva is a lot better than his elder brothers who have not got a back bone and can not even work hard yes yes Gombi and his wife are always ready to hit him with a stick so shameful i want Summan to take a strong stand for him and back of those bullies brothers and bhabies .


I wouldn't want someone like Shiva who manhandles his wife and uses her as a bargaining chip! No woman is a commodity to be used like that.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: bhavna101

I think this post of mine is going to get ignored like some other ones but still, I wanted to say this. Sometimes I think that everybody likes Shiva just because of KD. I recall someone saying that Shiva and KD are the same and all. It may be just me, but yeah, that's how I feel.


What if this was some normal random guy and not KD? Will everybody still favor him? I have doubts.

To answer your question, in real life, I would prefer a man like Shiva, minus his anger and physical aggression. Of course his bargaining. I love some of his qualities and HATE a lot of things

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Miss_SR

With any normal person it should make them shameful but it won't for her. There's no hope for mami, she won't change. Giving her kangans isn't going to resolve anything but it might reduce Raavi's pain...it'll give them a stepping stone once again. Mami and Anita will continue causing trouble for her by trying to mess with Dhara, we know that.

I don't want her to have them. She's disgusting. If Shiva has wrongfully put Raavi up against the kangans, then she has also put kangans above her daughter. But the main thing is if Shiva's going to get those kangans back for his mother, he also now has to do something for his wife. And if he manages to swallow his pride and hate for mami to do this for Raavi, it'll speak volumes. He has to do something ❤.

I want it to happen for their sake.

Mami is going to be a constant hurdle in Shivi's life.

Like you said maybe giving the kangans may help Raavi see Shiva as a person who took the initiative to bridge the gap between him and Mami.

@BOLD That would make Raavi mellow down a lot. ❤️

But right now I see his zidd taking over him fully. But he knows he has wronged Raavi. The introspection in the tree gives it away. But him giving new kangans might be the immediate resolve he would take.

This will be only for Raavi but right now I dont know if Raavi holds the same priority as his mother

Omg...this is so heartbreaking for both of them😭

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: bhavna101

I think this post of mine is going to get ignored like some other ones but still, I wanted to say this. Sometimes I think that everybody likes Shiva just because of KD. I recall someone saying that Shiva and KD are the same and all. It may be just me, but yeah, that's how I feel.


What if this was some normal random guy and not KD? Will everybody still favor him? I have doubts.

I LOVE KD... I think the whole forum knows it.. lol🤣

But I don't advocates Shiva's mehods of what he's doing for the kangans.. and I don't know about what the whole baap of surprise thing is but.. I have a feeling it might turn out to something stupid and if it does, I will again NOT support it. Period.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Women are NOT commodities

Women are not equated to dowry cases

No woman or man deserves physical violence.

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