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Irony yeh bhi hai ki Adi keeps doing dosti ke vaade par Didi ko Adi ki dosti nahin, uska pyar chahiye 😆….and woh toh nahin milega ise kabhi. Woh pyar sirf Imlie ke liye jaaga hai and humesha uske liye hi rahega.

Didi can only get pity, guilt, sympathy and dosti ke vaade from Adi. Pyar toh nahin milega kabhi 🤷‍♀️😂. Still she insists on hanging around his life for these scraps, that’s her choice 😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Irony yeh bhi hai ki Adi keeps doing dosti ke vaade par Didi ko Adi ki dosti nahin, uska pyar chahiye 😆….and woh toh nahin milega ise kabhi. Woh pyar sirf Imlie ke liye jaaga hai and humesha uske liye hi rahega.

Didi can only get pity, guilt, sympathy and dosti ke vaade from Adi. Pyar toh nahin milega kabhi 🤷‍♀️😂. Still she insists on hanging around his life for these scraps, that’s her choice 😆.

Jab 7 saal main pyar nahi jeet paayi toh yeh bakwaas nautankiyon se kaise jeete gi 7 saal main kaunsa adi ko apna bana paayi ke ab bana legi.. the most she can get is sympathy or actually more like his pity on her his "DAYA" jo woh abhi bhi daya main hi overcompensate karne ki koshish karta hai

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Jab 7 saal main pyar nahi jeet paayi toh yeh bakwaas nautankiyon se kaise jeete gi 7 saal main kaunsa adi ko apna bana paayi ke ab bana legi.. the most she can get is sympathy or actually more like his pity on her his "DAYA" jo woh abhi bhi daya main hi overcompensate karne ki koshish karta hai

Yes, he's mainly giving her PITY only right now😆....jab dosti genuine na ho, woh pity, taras, DAYA hi lagti hai......that's what it comes off as and then yeah sorry to say it is Didi that comes off looking more pathetic ki usko aisi scraps mein mili PITY acceptable hai just cuz she can't help herself from always hanging around his life🤔😆.

Adi can cry in guilt, cry in sympathy....but jo pyar uske andar hai hi nahin Malini ke liye, woh zabardasti kahaan se nikaal ke de de?😆......that is what his stance will continue to be no matter how much emotional atyachaar Didi does on him in the future also.....marr marr ke dosti waali sympathy de dega....nothing more than that.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I don't think that any trigger will make Adi react the same way in case of Didi that he has reacted in case of Imlie.

All triggers that he reacted strongly to in case of Imlie have been reacted to in a different way by Adi in case of Didi already.

Guilt of marrying her when already married to Imlie- check.

Risk of losing her to death- bridge rescue incident- check.

Risk of losing her in general- separation/divorce- check.

Risk of losing her to someone else- KC love story- check.

I can't think of anyother triggers that are left.

I don't know how KC's truth being revealed will trigger him & make him feel more guilt with regards to leaving Didi. He was anyways leaving her when he believed that she truly loved him.

Also because of Imlie's doubt regarding Didi not really being in love with KC, both Imlie & Adi have taken the effort to confirm that she really is with KC.

Now even if the truth is revealed I don't think that Adi will feel some new guilt because she only loved him. That is not news for him. Imlie may feel guilt but that is because she cares more for Didi. But I don't think the guilt will be as overwhelming that she would back off from her relationship with Adi.

So I don't believe that anything will ever trigger Adi into reacting to Didi in the same way as he does for Imlie. The simple truth is that he never had that emotional connect with Didi in the first place for him to ever develop such feelings towards her. That emotional connect is exclusive to Imlie only.

Wohi toh how is their fault that she chose to lie and kept lying for so long and making more and more lies.. e.g today the sukoon and mann ki Shanti part did anyone ask her no.. it is like she has to keep throwing crumbs it is not like adi is curious but she wants attention.. he legit told her he has no intrest in her life usko dhakhal nahi dena yet she went onto giving this info. It is not adi or imlie's burden then she is responsible for her own doom and her own beizzati. Why should they be upset over a liar even if she initially lied for them which she didn't and we all know that. It is her lie to herself that she is doing this to bring adi imlie together. Nobody needs her to bring thm together they are and were together regardless of her jhoot and would have found a way to each other with the truth being told and divorce being thrown in her face. So really how canyon guilt trip over a lie that a person has been telling herself more then anyone else that she is doing it for them uhh if not the lie then what? She planned to stick in the shaadi regardless of knowing the truth then? What crap

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, he's mainly giving her PITY only right now😆....jab dosti genuine na ho, woh pity, taras, DAYA hi lagti hai......that's what it comes off as and then yeah sorry to say it is Didi that comes off looking more pathetic ki usko aisi scraps mein mili PITY acceptable hai just cuz she can't help herself from always hanging around his life🤔😆.

Adi can cry in guilt, cry in sympathy....but jo pyar uske andar hai hi nahin Malini ke liye, woh zabardasti kahaan se nikaal ke de de?😆......that is what his stance will continue to be no matter how much emotional atyachaar Didi does on him in the future also.....marr marr ke dosti waali sympathy de dega....nothing more than that.

The very fact that itna ungli kar kar ke bhi she cannot extract anything out of him...yeh family bhi daya main di adi ne 🤣 rofl at his 7 saal se hissa thi 😆 sure adi sure. Jo adi iski almost death ka sunke bhi twice can manage normally and not being bothered to offer even a prayer for her will give her love woh bhi devdaas wala sure.🤣 isse zyada reaction to adi ne nish ke cancer reveal pe de dia blaming himself and crying alone in his room and woh bhi again not.like we saw koi itna deep bonding in itna time but you get it what I mean na

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol you’re trying to give a logical explanation, Lodestar but how can you reason here when there are still doubts about whether Adi loves Imlie and how he supposedly is just one “trigger” away from realizing some “suppressed Lowe” for Malini? 🤷‍♀️😂

Adi showing any guilt or regard for Malini is automatically twisted into presuming he has “latent feelings” for her. lol jab tak yeh presumptions chalte rahenge, aapke logical response ki bhi yahaan koi value nahin karega 😆.

In every phase of his relationship with Malini, Adi has only shown guilt. Lol so in that sense, he’s still consistent ki abhi bhi shades of guilt hi dikhata hai when she plays bechari. Difference is that now he has realized ki no matter how guilty he feels for Malini, Imlie will always be his biggest priority.


And I can only laugh at the presumption that he is with Imlie out of guilt and how this is supposedly some “inverse” of the time he he was with Malini and felt an “obligation” towards Imlie. Lol those who still think that clearly didn’t watch the first 100 epis dhang se if they don’t get why Adi’s equation with Imlie has always been distinct at every point even when he hadn’t realized his feelings for her.


It is in Malini’s case where he just doesn’t know how to be anything but polite and formal so that’s all he is able to give her even in guilt mode….assurances that she still has his friendship. Lol but on ground inki actual friendship is just hi hello or general bhaashan/promises. Koi real connect hai hi nahin as individuals.

Adi is with Imlie only because of guilt😲.

Yeh toh I am finding out today😆.

Again my question- are people actually watching the show?!🤓

Yeh kaisa guilt hai Adi ka Imlie ke liye that he is ready to leave not only Didi but his family & his secure job as well😆.

Itna hi guilt hota toh he would have tried to make a logical decision about leaving Didi after 2nd PD trip. Why only after Imlie actually left him & he realised his love for her?

Again I believe that people have the wrong assumption that Adi started developing feelings for Imlie during 3rd PD trip. They were taking all his PDA & kasme vaade with Didi on face value even when Adi used to behave contrary to what he was actually saying.

We can never make people understand this if they don't accept this simple fact.

Agree that Adi only has formal relationship with Didi. Yeh log friendship main bhi aap aap se aage nahi badh paye😆. Kya friendship hai bhai inki🤣. Adi kitna bhi guilty feel kare for Didi, woh sirf khokle dosti ke assurances hi de sakta hai. Nothing else. Aansoo bhi baha lega 2-4. I mean he didn't even feel guilty about her committing suicide & change his decision about leaving her.

So then what else is left?!😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Wohi toh how is their fault that she chose to lie and kept lying for so long and making more and more lies.. e.g today the sukoon and mann ki Shanti part did anyone ask her no.. it is like she has to keep throwing crumbs it is not like adi is curious but she wants attention.. he legit told her he has no intrest in her life usko dhakhal nahi dena yet she went onto giving this info. It is not adi or imlie's burden then she is responsible for her own doom and her own beizzati. Why should they be upset over a liar even if she initially lied for them which she didn't and we all know that. It is her lie to herself that she is doing this to bring adi imlie together. Nobody needs her to bring thm together they are and were together regardless of her jhoot and would have found a way to each other with the truth being told and divorce being thrown in her face. So really how canyon guilt trip over a lie that a person has been telling herself more then anyone else that she is doing it for them uhh if not the lie then what? She planned to stick in the shaadi regardless of knowing the truth then? What crap

Didi-KC ka fate can never be Adi & Imlie's fault.

First of all people need to remember that Didi invented KC out of thin air to guilt trip Adi into revealing his so called affair with Imlie. It was not out of her goodness of heart to do milan of Adi-Imlie😆.

As discussed in previous threads Didi is now just controlling the narrative to make herself feel that she is the one who is being the better person by giving Adi to Imlie. Adi was already Imlie's. Didi is only lying to herself🤣.

Also Imlie had so strongly called out on her face as jhooti about being in love with KC😆. She was insistent that Didi is in love with Adi only. It was Didi only who has going building onto this lie about her relationship with KC to save her own pride. Based on Imlie's insistence even Adi confirmed that Didi is indeed with KC. Now what more can they do from their side when they both have given Didi enough opportunities to come clean🤪. Whatever happens with KC is only & only Didi's fault😛.

Adi should keep that beard he looks cool 😉

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

I agree and respect whatever you say👍🏼

But to me he has not reached that trigger in case of Malini👍🏼 once that trigger is there he will somehow react the same way as he did earlier with Imlie

For Imaliya his trigger was her easily going away from him after doing itna kuch and even after considering him as her husband and her determination that whatever happens he only will be considered by her as her husband whereas for Malini his trigger will whatever she is portraying in front of him coming out as a lie and the truth being that she always loved him.

His triggers have always been the things when he pictures something and it goes against his wish

Just my take.

I would definitely like to be proven wrong and seriously would love to change side one day but I seriously doubt it will happen😆

@bold: what trigger he have to reach for Malini.

1. She has an NDE twice

2. Said other person in life

3. Initiate divorce

4. Present other person and romantic gestures he given no difference

Now clearly saying 7 years of friendship not love

But for imlie he was very protective from initial days he didn’t admit it . He again can dump her in any other place or the same NGO after some time … he didn’t do that … when first time she came to his house imlie herself hide her identity in order to save his face … he blamed for everything happened but he also had genuine reason for it.

In his marriage day he reversed his decision to send her back to village by saying till date I have not think of you and how can you survive there.

2nd pd trip his family members booked her ticket and then he get idea to dump her …. There also his monologue shows a genuine care to her. And he performed rituals based on her word only.

2nd marriage rituals is reminiscent by him when Malini talk about imlie’s marital status. He conveniently some times forget 1st marriage. I think while saying the truth he reminds the 1st marriage.

His feelings towards imlie was not grown up in a moment we can clearly see the graduation of his development of feelings towards imlie .

I think it’s not in all circumstances he wants one think that goes beyond his wish … even he is ready to say truth of marriage with imlie on his wedding day… even in wedding altar he was worried about imlie….when she is not in front of his eyes.

Malini I don’t think the intimacy… best eg the bridge incident…. He went there to cover incident not for rescue…

Even today Malini’s attempt to made guilt trip didn’t work at least he must have replied I really wish don’t get you to involved in this marriage

He didn’t say sorry for marrying her only said that it was not in his control and take an insurance that I already said this thing … even in the confession episode …. Till that he doesn’t even asked the name of her friend…

Till now he has never feel guilt …then rest of the things with makers ….

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

The very fact that itna ungli kar kar ke bhi she cannot extract anything out of him...yeh family bhi daya main di adi ne 🤣 rofl at his 7 saal se hissa thi 😆 sure adi sure. Jo adi iski almost death ka sunke bhi twice can manage normally and not being bothered to offer even a prayer for her will give her love woh bhi devdaas wala sure.🤣 isse zyada reaction to adi ne nish ke cancer reveal pe de dia blaming himself and crying alone in his room and woh bhi again not.like we saw koi itna deep bonding in itna time but you get it what I mean na

I'm just left wondering ki kaisa hissa thi 7 saal se jab usko ghar ki chhoti chhoti baaton ka itna pata bhi nahin tha?😆......she just knew OF Adi's family in these 7 years....she didn't really KNOW them. So knowing OF someone doesn't make you a part of their family😆.

There is a clear dialogue from Malini in the days leading up to the AM shaadi that she was feeling anxious about how she will fit into T family and become part of that family😆.....toh phir kaise hua 7 SAAL ka rishta bhai?😆.....and jo 7 MONTHS ka bhi rishta tha, woh bhi mostly formality and coddling mein nikal gaya.....most of the time, the Ts were busy doing her ji huzoori, listening to insults from her Mom or being scared to say much to Malini.....toh yeh kaisa "rishta" tha bhai?😆

Bas bolne ke liye koi bhi dialogues bulvaa do aajkal Adi se😆.....when we all saw the clear formality in Malini's equations with everyone in the T family.....ghar bhi aati thi toh they all used to treat her like a Queen they all needed to bow before😆......jahaan itni formality hoti hai, wahaan kya rishta hota hai?

Point yeh hai ki Ts are showing ki unko Malini se bas tab tak matlab tha until they thought she would jhelo their khadoos beta 😆......otherwise unko koi khaas lagaav nahin tha Malini se....kyunki agar lagaav hona hota toh 7 saal nahin lag jaate.....lol. They instantly bonded with Imlie on a seperate level regardless of what her connection to Adi is.....while in Malini's case, they are only interested in her when she is connected to Adi.

*Edit: Like let's just take Nishant's example....how many times did Malini even seek him out to talk to him on his own about what's bothering him? Jab woh KHUD Malini se milne aata tha to console her about whatever bechaargi tantrum she was throwing over feeling neglected by Adi, then she asked him some stuff about Pallavi.....

lol toh kis basis pe they are all claiming she had very strong "interpersonal" equations with the whole family in 7 years? 😆

All we got to see was ki yeh Adi ke saath shopping mein same kapde/shoes choose kar leti thi and 10 type ki dishes banaake full T family ko maskaa maarne ke liye le aati thi😆.....this is 7 saal ka rishta?😆.....where aapas mein koi one on one level pe baat cheet, perception wagairah na ho?