Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 32 - Page 13

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold red - absolutely! That's Pallavi in nutshell. She doesn't know half measures when it comes to reciprocating love and affection. Sometimes too forgiving for her own good.. She could have doubted Raghav for planting that necklace intentionally or unintentionally in Baba's bag but that thought didn't even cross her mind.. its not just about the immense trust she has started to have on Raghav which he has very much earned but its also because she is so uncomplicated that way.. One cannot help but fall in love with her.. cake and flowers to convey thank you! I mean ...could she be anymore adorable?

So disappointed in Jaya and Keerthi.. its not about Keerthi's hurtful words... its about them not giving a chance to THEIR own family.. how can you be "khush" away from your own brother/son knowing he craves to be with you,would die for you? What does one have to do to redeem oneself in their eyes? Isn't 10 years enough to punish him? I mean if they lost their husband/brother, he lost his father and brother too.. and no matter what he did he couldn't have brought harm upon them on purpose right? What's done can not be undone, but the family that remains, can be together for each other and it shouldn't be Raghav's responsibility or his desire alone to see that happening.. it should be Amma and Keerthi's responsibility too unless they don't consider him family anymore which Im sure is not the case... I guess Pallavi will be the one to drill some sense into these two women in Raghav's life..teach them a lesson or two about forgiveness and giving a second chance to people especially the ones who are willing to do anything to redeem themselves..

Though I agree with your points I think the resentment Jaya and Kirti have towards Raghav is not only because of what happened in their life but also because of his way of living. They have highly misunderstood him. Today kirti said that he is always running behind money and relationships don't mean anything to him but how wrong she was? If he had been like that then he wouldn't have gone out of his way to reconcile Pallavi with her family. Jaya and kirti never tried to understand Raghav. They always blamed him and never tried to see the goodness in him.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Pallavi was the light of today's episode. She's just so goddamn adorable, and today she was everything that made me fall in love with her character in the first place. Usko koi thoda sa bhi pyaar de, she'll give it back tenfold, irrespective of how strained and messed up the dynamics have been in the past. How cutely she was bantering with Farhad and complaining about Raghav, his strange one-liners, neem juice and karela cake.

What a contrast to Jaya and Kirti- the girl who has legitimate cause to be wary or Raghav, and have trust issues due to the very massive and extremely recent siyaapa he caused in her life, is 100% on his side, because she sees his heartfelt efforts now. Usne ek baar bhi shaq nahi kiya, even after finding out about the Jayati Jewels connection. We could see how scared Raghav was of her jumping to conclusions, but instead she went after his stupidity for not filing an FIR. She is happily going out of her way to thank him. And Jaya and Kirti, jinpe woh jaan chidakta hai, zara bhi bharosa nahi kar rahe. Both Raghav and Pallavi have chosen such undeserving people to shower their unconditional, endless love on. Can't wait to see them showering this love on each other, and having it actually reciprocated.

Farhad looked so happy to see Bhabhi softening towards Anna. He is probably the only one in the show right now who truly, deeply loves Raghav, and he has seen how hard he is trying to make up for his mistakes, he's genuinely overjoyed to see it paying off. Aur shipper #1 toh woh pehle se tha hi.

I thought Pallavi and Farhad had amazing chemistry in that scene, I want more Bhabhi-Devar bonding now! Raghav has already accused them of wanting to gossip all night, let's make it happen! Also, I loved when Raghav had started calling Pallavi 'tera bhabhi' and 'tumhara didi' while talking to Farhad and Krishna. It's so domestic and cute. So I loved Pallavi's 'tumhare anna' to Farhad. I don't know if it's the first time she said it, but it was the first time I noticed, and it made me feel all warm and fuzzy.

I totally agree with you 👍🏼

Agar mai pallu ki jagah hoti toh mai sabse pehle raghav pe shaq karti but that girl is so innocent and lovely ❤️she never forgets the good deeds of people and easily forgets what bad they did with her.

Only Raghav deserves such a beautiful human being 😍 kyunki dono bahar se jitna khoobsurat hai usse kahi jyada andar se hai

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I mean if they lost their husband/brother, he lost his father and brother too.. and no matter what he did he couldn't have brought harm upon them on purpose right?

Raghav did not only lose his father and brother but also lost his sister and Amma--his whole family

even though he didn't do anything he still blames himself for the incident

Mujhe pata tha when raghav and pallu will start living with rao's we will be irritated with them 🤣 because they are tiring too

But better than deshmukh's who are hopeless 🤢

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

True episode was different but it showed what we guessed all along, how alone and empty Raghav is really.

Keerti over did today...but shecwas triggered by the fact that Raghav was trying to appease her with expensive jewelery and party...thats not what she needs from her brother. For all Raghav was going on about being her elder bro, he has not even looked into her face when she came back and realized she was upset. Actually I didn't see Raghav bother with Keerti after the jail incident .

He should not have slapped Keerthi. No matter what she is a lady. And what she said..that Raghav has purchased this marriage with Pallavi is bitter truth . Its undeniable. What she wanted to point out is, Raghav can use his power in Pallavi and others but as his sister she won't accept it.

I know a lot of people are upset with Keerti but Raghav has never been a caring brother to her really. He will change now, for the better, and Pallavi will help him change and express. But the RR who calls his Sasur Sanki and can go pick a fight with him in thier house cannot expect anything else than battameezi from his sister. Its both gene pool and common upbringing issue. We cannot love a angry battameez RR and dislike his a angry battameez sister. 😎

@bold, i really can't agree with that as he has been taking care of her from afar and never revealed that he is helping them in back.. he was providing her with education in name of scholarship and he even trying to protect her from gundas which got him the wrath of Pallavi also..Like from old man and and some gundas.. he also made Harish to follow them daily for their safety. He wanted the best for her and that's why he us protective of his sister and manhandled Electric bulb. He went to extreme lengths to punish the culprits of his sister though ge chose a wrong person and let the actual culprits free.. we even saw him searching for grooms who are well educated and settled in one of the episodes.. he tried to do all the duties of an elder brother even though at times his methods are different.. i am not sure what else could he do..

In fact in this case there is no need for Pallavi to straighten him up as he is a very protective and good brother than a good sister Pallavi can be to her brother..

Ps : i am not against pallavi but somehow i felt that Raghav did all the things a brother can do

Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic

Though I agree with your points I think the resentment Jaya and Kirti have towards Raghav is not only because of what happened in their life but also because of his way of living. They have highly misunderstood him. Today kirti said that he is always running behind money and relationships don't mean anything to him but how wrong she was? If he had been like that then he wouldn't have gone out of his way to reconcile Pallavi with her family. Jaya and kirti never tried to understand Raghav. They always blamed him and never tried to see the goodness in him.

Im not taking Keerthi's outburst very seriously because her anger was misdirected.. she was pissed at what happened with Sunny and since he blamed her for changing her overall attitude towards him because now she was with her "rich" brother and didnt need him etc so she took it out on Raghav and his money/lifestyle etc.. and that extended to the part where she blamed him for buying off everything including his alliance with Pallavi.. and that is where be lost it.. But I was more disappointed in Amma and Keerthi's conversation in the bedroom.. it implied that they don't want to be with him and are only there for Pallavi which is funny coz Amma wanted Raghav to marry Pallavi because she saw hope for Raghav through this alliance.. she does care about him obviously but she has a strange way of showing it sometimes.. and Keerthi is forever disgusted with her brother no matter what he does.. I wish they show Keerthi and Pallavi talk sometimes..maybe that could help Keerthi understand her brother bit better..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold red - absolutely! That's Pallavi in nutshell. She doesn't know half measures when it comes to reciprocating love and affection. Sometimes too forgiving for her own good.. She could have doubted Raghav for planting that necklace intentionally or unintentionally in Baba's bag but that thought didn't even cross her mind.. its not just about the immense trust she has started to have on Raghav which he has very much earned but its also because she is so uncomplicated that way.. One cannot help but fall in love with her.. cake and flowers to convey thank you! I mean ...could she be anymore adorable?

So disappointed in Jaya and Keerthi.. its not about Keerthi's hurtful words... its about them not giving a chance to THEIR own family.. how can you be "khush" away from your own brother/son knowing he craves to be with you,would die for you? What does one have to do to redeem oneself in their eyes? Isn't 10 years enough to punish him? I mean if they lost their husband/brother, he lost his father and brother too.. and no matter what he did he couldn't have brought harm upon them on purpose right? What's done can not be undone, but the family that remains, can be together for each other and it shouldn't be Raghav's responsibility or his desire alone to see that happening.. it should be Amma and Keerthi's responsibility too unless they don't consider him family anymore which Im sure is not the case... I guess Pallavi will be the one to drill some sense into these two women in Raghav's life..teach them a lesson or two about forgiveness and giving a second chance to people especially the ones who are willing to do anything to redeem themselves..

If I distance myself from my love for Raghav, and put myself in Pallavi's shoes, I definitely would have doubted him. Whoever pulled this off, executed it so well. A necklace which Raghav had exceptionally easy access to went missing, and was found in a bag that Raghav had had his hands on- remember, it was in his room? TBH, I can't hold it against Vijay completely if he does blame Raghav, it's just that Vijay is so irredeemable for me, I'll never be able to support him.

Jaya and Kirti should have had more faith though. Pallavi se seekhein kuch. You're completely right. Jaya lost a husband and son. Keerti lost her father and brother. But Raghav not only lost his father and brother, but also his mother and sister, despite them being alive. And he's so young, he's 27- he would have been a child when all this went down, and he hasn't allowed anyone in his heart since then. Atleast they had each other to hold as they recovered from the loss, he would have been so lonely, and has stayed in self-imposed isolation since then. I remember the first or second episode, when he came home bleeding, and wasn't even willing to hear the concern from his staff. He didn't allow emotional attachments for so long. How long is he supposed to punish himself? What does he have to do to get just a little affection from them?

I found Jaya's, "I also want to leave but can't leave Pallavi alone here" today really strange- she has shown no displeasure living here? And didn't she tell Raghav she'll stick around even if Pallavi leaves? Where did that come from? I spoke earlier about my disappointment in Sharda as a mom, and tbh I still kind of feel that, but she's infinitely better than Jaya. I can't get over Jaya telling Raghav in that one episode that he should have died in the womb. Is there anything worse a mother could say to her child? Toh uske mirchi khaane aur bimaar padhne pe itni fikar kis baat ki ho rahi thi?

Originally posted by: inlieu

Can you translate the Telegu dialogues please? He said quite a few today. I loved that they showed him defaulting to Telegu when he was emotional.

Yeah i will ...let me wtch out the epi again ..will be back in a while 😉..lunch karke aati hu 😆

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Raghav did not only lose his father and brother but also lost his sister and Amma--his whole family

even though he didn't do anything he still blames himself for the incident

We still don't know about their past.... It is about to be revealed....

I think in the past he had done something like Keerthi mms thing to Pallavi and it somehow backfired on him....

But still abandoning him at tender age, never try to understand him is not the way to deal things...

Keerthi said today that - you alway run behind money and don't know how to maintain relationships...

This itself shows how much they know about him, or how much they care to know...

Its about time jaya and Keerti look at him by removing their biased spectacles and Pallavi is def going to show them how......

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

If I distance myself from my love for Raghav, and put myself in Pallavi's shoes, I definitely would have doubted him. Whoever pulled this off, executed it so well. A necklace which Raghav had exceptionally easy access to went missing, and was found in a bag that Raghav had had his hands on- remember, it was in his room? TBH, I can't hold it against Vijay completely if he does blame Raghav, it's just that Vijay is so irredeemable for me, I'll never be able to support him.

Jaya and Kirti should have had more faith though. Pallavi se seekhein kuch. You're completely right. Jaya lost a husband and son. Keerti lost her father and brother. But Raghav not only lost his father and brother, but also his mother and sister, despite them being alive. And he's so young, he's 27- he would have been a child when all this went down, and he hasn't allowed anyone in his heart since then. Atleast they had each other to hold as they recovered from the loss, he would have been so lonely, and has stayed in self-imposed isolation since then. I remember the first or second episode, when he came home bleeding, and wasn't even willing to hear the concern from his staff. He didn't allow emotional attachments for so long. How long is he supposed to punish himself? What does he have to do to get just a little affection from them?

I found Jaya's, "I also want to leave but can't leave Pallavi alone here" today really strange- she has shown no displeasure living here? And didn't she tell Raghav she'll stick around even if Pallavi leaves? Where did that come from? I spoke earlier about my disappointment in Sharda as a mom, and tbh I still kinda of feel that, but she's infinitely better than Jaya. I can't get over Jaya telling Raghav in that one episode that he should have died in the womb. Is there anything worse a mother could say to her child? Toh uske mirchi khaane aur bimaar padhne pe itni fikar kis baat ki ho rahi thi?

Sharda is way better than Jaya as a mother and as an overall character... She has every reason to despise Raghav after what he did and what that led to..literally broke her family, her son went to jail, husband got heart attack.. despite of all that, she saw something good in Raghav and she appreciated it..the fact that he stood up for Pallavi..She may not be vocal, but Raghav's efforts to win them over for Pallavi, is not going unnoticed in her eyes. She is also making small efforts to accept him, understand him which will lead to her eventually forgiving him.. Something I doubt Jaya would be able to do with Sunny.. eventhough Sunny has done nothing compared to what Raghav did.. it was just a freakin tattoo.. 🤔