Originally posted by: IFLove
As such, even I don't have an issue with them being married. All I am saying is no matter how strong you are, no matter how willing you are for marriage, there is a weak moment when you do feel the peer pressure. Of course, if the marriage is happening with your consent, you don't get bothered about it much and you forget about it after some point.
Let's talk in different light. All this while, it was only about her love and her career for her and she is fighting with herself so that she gets both of these. She has not given any thought to family life yet. She has not yet realised how her life will change once this marriage is publicly known, because they were planning to keep it a secret until her education is completed. But now that its coming out in public, someday the marriage will be accepted by Sabherwal family...willingly or not, she will have to enter that house. She didn't wish to stay there even for one night, she preferred to be on the streets than that house. She's ought to worry how her life will be changing as a bahu of that house. Ghar k tensions sambhalne ki umr nahi hai abhi uski, she has her studies to focus on! And in this situation, if the peers keep talking about her being married, she can have that complex at least for a while...k yeh main kya kar rahi hu apni zindagi mein abhi! Isn't it very natural? Loving someone and getting married to that person are two different things for anyone, be it a girl or a boy. You might be loving that person so much that you plan a lifetime of togetherness, but that doesn't mean you get married to them at any given point, no? You take your time! Now this is a serial and dramatically the marriage has already happened and both of them are happy in it, so I don't have any issues with it. All I want to see is her getting confused about taking this decision of being married too early in her life...at least for a day. I don't expect her to change her decision, but thodasa mann dagmaga jaana! This is pretty natural and real for today's modern girls who are not looking only for marriage in their life!