Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #11 - Page 102

Originally posted by: Mirage_OfStars

Those comments under AK & KD's posts are downright cringe!🤡 This is such a second hand embarrassment😳 I think I just had an eye sore. Those people are literally asking these two to get married and tagging them!🤪🤪 Matlab.. kaun hai ye log?? Kahaan se aatey hai?? 🤪

Lmao totally with you there. It gives me such intense second-hand embarrassment... these comments are persistent and intolerably cringey in recent posts, they used to be okayish earlier. I'm guessing those users would be young and impressionable fans who'd prolly look back in 5 years and feel like smacking their younger selves. If they're adults, well, they need therapy 🤪

Actors would know to expect such responses but I still hope it doesn't reach a point where they feel uncomfortable and reluctant to express themselves on social media. I do wonder how they feel seeing them tho, you're bound to read atleast the top comments on your posts even with a huge following, it makes me wanna gag.

Like, really, Kanwar ki Alice? Brb I'll be puking rainbows 🤡

Originally posted by: ReginaPhalange1

Hi everyone. I just recovered my account after 1 year after watching todays episode and swiftly reading the 40-50 page discussion of todays episode because I WAS SO FRUSTRATED!!! First of all Dhara has been ALL kinds if wrong this past 2 weeks. She needs to realise that she is a motherly figure abd not an actual mother to the boys! I dont think she has the capability to be a mother to boys who are 20 somethings when she herself is a 20 something. She doesnt have enough life experience to handle bahus and tricky husband wife relationships which are not hers. The reason we se so much difference in the way suman treats shivi and dhara treats shivi is because suman has a life experience which enables her to understand that these things move at their own pace and you need to do all this woth patience. The only legit relationship dhara has witnessed is her own! Even her brother is hnmarried and she is basing off what is wrong and right purely in what worked for her and gaumbi which is just stupid. If i can understand this im sure someone like her should understand this too!As for what shiva did today. This entire family is so codependent. These boys didnt have a mom lost their father so they latched in to whatever love they were given and still probably think it will be taken away! If Dhara wants them to be independent she needs to establish that she will never abandon them! And what is she foing? Exactly opposite! She literally dropped them all like hot potatoes sending them back to become those scared little children they were when she married gaumbi. Shiva is so blinded by his fear of abandonment and devotion for dgara that he doesnt even realise Raavi is actually everything he thinks Dhara is!And lastly if i was Suman i would lose my patience on Dhara. She is alive and is the head if the family. She gets to decide ghar ka batwara hoga ke nahi! Dhara can ask for the batwara but actually foing it and how its done is upto suman as she is the mother and still alive! How dare dhara just make this decision without even consulting the actual mother of the house! And comeone auman isnt a fragile frail womam whose feelings need to be protected! Shes a strong woman and no way would have broken if she got to know all this. Dhara is just scared ki uske wajah se shadi kaand hua and abb ghar mein bhi ashaanti sab mujhpe aayega so lets abuse everyones attachments for me! Which is ok because she also isnt as old! But she needs to be called out for this nonsense because she is ruining married lives of the 2 newlyweds! Ok rant over. Sorry.

I completely agree with your analysis. Maa jaisi hona and actually maa hone me farak hai. And yes, who gave Dhara to take all the decisions on behalf of Suman? Suman may not be able to walk, but her mind runs faster than the speed of light. She is capable of making decisions for the welfare of her kids and the family. And as you correctly pointed out, Dhara lacks the experience that comes with age. She is still immature and is not the perfectionist that everyone around her claims she is.

Dhara took a decision on behalf of Suman and now she has the audacity to even hide that from her. And yes that is not because Suman wont be able to handle it , its more because Dhara will have to bear the brunt of Suman's anger when she reveals it to her. Dhara is more worried about herself and her future in the Pandya family rather than Suman's greater good.

Originally posted by: Mirage_OfStars

Those comments under AK & KD's posts are downright cringe!🤡 This is such a second hand embarrassment😳 I think I just had an eye sore. Those people are literally asking these two to get married and tagging them!🤪🤪 Matlab.. kaun hai ye log?? Kahaan se aatey hai?? 🤪

Tell me about it. I myself want to go hide when I see that. I am really curious about the age of the people commenting like that. They have to be immature teens and hope under 20.

Because anyone older than mid 20s+ would not do that (I hope). We all have our relatives who indirectly keep asking us when will we get married and that annoys the crap out of me. So hopefully, they will empathize and not comment on their accounts. Here they're not only telling them, but also telling them to whom to get married with. Haha marriage is lot more than chemistry. Let the two individuals decide what they want. You can wish and hope for it and discuss it elsewhere, but no need to nag them in their face.

What if they were in relationship with someone else that's not known? I used to watch a show years ago and some fans of that show went crazy wanting leads to divorce/break up with their spouses and get together not realizing implications of a heartbreak. Hypothetically, if that happens, it would never last. IRL, it's a rebound relationship and usually (from what I've seen around me) relationship with someone who's just out of a long relationship, never works out because of the bitterness and baggage of the previous relationship.

I don't want to think/imagine if adults are actually commenting like that. 😬

Originally posted by: Felicie

Lmao totally with you there. It gives me such intense second-hand embarrassment... these comments are persistent and intolerably cringey in recent posts, they used to be okayish earlier. I'm guessing those users would be young and impressionable fans who'd prolly look back in 5 years and feel like smacking their younger selves. If they're adults, well, they need therapy 🤪

Actors would know to expect such responses but I still hope it doesn't reach a point where they feel uncomfortable and reluctant to express themselves on social media. I do wonder how they feel seeing them tho, you're bound to read atleast the top comments on your posts even with a huge following, it makes me wanna gag.

Like, really, Kanwar ki Alice? Brb I'll be puking rainbows 🤡

Word!!!😬🤮🤮🤮

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I always felt like Instagram is hard to sift through when it comes to criticism. Most fans only post positive things in pages/actor accounts to get likes or recognition from the actors. On Twitter, it’s much easier to post your thoughts and engage with the rest. I’m sure people on Instagram are also tired, it’s probably just that they are bogged down from all the comments that are like “Wow! Best bhabi -devar relationship ever!!!”

Just checked #pandyastore on twitter and the few tweets that I saw loved that scene. Gosh it's so unhealthy.

I hope we don't get more TRP drama because of it.

@your comment on followers, I did too and I hope there are more viewers. But Shiny's fan following is increasing steadily (happy for the actress), but not happy if it's because people are actually enjoying this Dhara mahanta crap. What was our show and what has it become.

If things turn normal because Raavi takes a step back without Shiva realizing to give equal importance to Raavi, I fear what will happen in future when they have kids.

I'm sure Dhara will be "badima" of their kids. And what if Dhara and Raavi have difference in opinion about what/how she wants to raise ShiVi's child. Hope Shiva doesn't side with Dhara and say that Dhara has more right on their child. That would be the Ultimate breaking point for me. Raavi as a mother has right to raise her kid the way she wants, and hope that Shiva comes out of his Dhara worship mode before that!

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Tell me about it. I myself want to go hide when I see that. I am really curious about the age of the people commenting like that. They have to be immature teens and hope under 20.

Because anyone older than mid 20s+ would not do that (I hope). We all have our relatives who indirectly keep asking us when will we get married and that annoys the crap out of me. So hopefully, they will empathize and not comment on their accounts. Here they're not only telling them, but also telling them to whom to get married with. Haha marriage is lot more than chemistry. Let the two individuals decide what they want. You can wish and hope for it and discuss it elsewhere, but no need to nag them in their face.

What if they were in relationship with someone else that's not known? I used to watch a show years ago and some fans of that show went crazy wanting leads to divorce/break up with their spouses and get together not realizing implications of a heartbreak. Hypothetically, if that happens, it would never last. IRL, it's a rebound relationship and usually (from what I've seen around me) relationship with someone who's just out of a long relationship, never works out because of the bitterness and baggage of the previous relationship.

I don't want to think/imagine if adults are actually commenting like that. 😬

As someone who's been a part of various fandoms and on twitter since 5 years, let me tell you that stupidity and cringey interfering behaviour is not at all restricted by age. 🤡🤣

Certain fan audiences (even people who have 18+/20+ in their Twitter bios) often think or subconsciously seem to assume that they are entitled to an actor/creator's life if they are supporting them. 🤪

This is exactly why I tend to stay away from real life shipping, because shippers often disregard boundaries of the people involved. 🤔

Not to mention, that at the end of the day, I wouldn't personally like the idea of random unknowns I'm unaware of to tell me what I should do, so similar rule should apply to everyone right?

But yeah, as the show's and the actors following increases those instagram comments are likely to get worse, not better🥱.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ok, forget trending more ShiVi or getting the old PS back, we should be trending #NoPSDramaOnSaturdays or #GiveOurWeekendsBack 🤣

They always give terrible Saturday episodes, spoil our moods over the weekends and somehow make it ok by Monday-Tuesday

Lol not too long ago we were wishing this show came 7 days a week.

But if we have to take out andolan, I'd rather have it over #SPstopMeddlingWithPS, #BringBackOgPS, or #BringBackPreHaveliCharacters

Originally posted by: Shivikaishkara

As someone who's been a part of various fandoms and on twitter since 5 years, let me tell you that stupidity and cringey interfering behaviour is not at all restricted by age. 🤡🤣

Certain fan audiences (even people who have 18+/20+ in their Twitter bios) often think or subconsciously seem to assume that they are entitled to an actor/creator's life if they are supporting them. 🤪

This is exactly why I tend to stay away from real life shipping, because shippers often disregard boundaries of the people involved. 🤔

Not to mention, that at the end of the day, I wouldn't personally like the idea of random unknowns I'm unaware of to tell me what I should do, so similar rule should apply to everyone right?

But yeah, as the show's and the actors following increases those instagram comments are likely to get worse, not better🥱.

Gosh. I wish there was a way to mute or hide such comments from public. I.e. only the person who posts them can see it.

@Bold, yess!! It's sad truth. I consider 18 or 23 yos immature on those platforms. (Sincerely sorry for that age group here. People on this forum are mature enough and seem to know the boundries). But there are recent highschool grads/college kids who are this immature. I remember all the craze fandom had with Justin Bieber and the hatred his wife received when their marriage was announced. It was cringe. Haha a local radio had a segment where fans were calling in and I was shocked how passionate some fans were about a celeb's personal life and how entitled they felt on with whom they should be and all the I'll things they were wishing his wife.😬🤦🏾‍♀️