Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #11 - Page 94

My day just started here. Saturday’s episode left a bitter taste in my mouth especially with Shiva’s behavior towards Raavi and his obsession with Bhabi. Raavi didn’t need to be treated like that, manhandling, how/why is it cool? I said this as soon as the episode was over. She was not even that harsh about Dhara. Shiva needs to understand that not everybody needs to worship Dhara like him, let him continue with his blind love😕

The makers are showing this stupid track to bring Shiva-Raavi together but not doing anything about Shiva’s blind love/obsession with Dhara.😕 His dialogues to Raavi for the most part left a lot to be desired. The only good thing was he acknowledged that she understood his pain, Raavi was such a sweetheart, even telling him to share his pain with her😃 but that idiot instead was rude to her. As many said, I would like Raavi to give him some silent treatment.

Another thing I liked was how Gautam told off Dhara, he is simply frustrated with her actions. He also said specifically, “tu kyun taanedar ban rahi hai” but Dhara like any other SP FL is stubborn, know it all Mahaan who needs to be worshipped. The makers need to tone her down, else they are going to lose the audience😕 I feel bad for Gautam, he doesn’t deserve a control freak crazy like Dhara. Dhara, post leap is unbearable to watch😡

Originally posted by: Felicie

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Even the cast trolling the trp game lmao

Dev is giving his first expression from the list😆

Dhara, overacting kar rahi hai, uski favorite SIL Rishita ki beizzati ho rahi, usse seh nahi jaata

Baaki sab reactions are just apt😃

Even the actors are not liking whatever nonsense they are showing for Trps sake, but they are at the mercy of the channel and the PH for their job security😔

Finally watched the episode. They all can join the circus, they all fit the bill! I'm glad I chose to sleep instead of waiting for it lol.

It crazy to think how I used to love Shiva's blind faith, loyalty and love for Dhara. And like a week later I realise how messed up it really is. The whole family are conditioned to think Dhara can never be wrong, she's more than human, everyone else must be wrong. What a shambles.

As dramatic as Shiva's actions were, it showcases how deep he can get with his feelings! There's so many layers to him, and when it comes to his family some of his vulnerable side always comes out. And what a fabulous actor KD is! Never fails to impress me! 👏❤

Raavi tending to Shiva's self-inflicted wounds was a sight to see. This girl has humanity - the best quality in a person! She deserves all the happiness in the world! ❤ Shiva despite being in pain wasn't showing it - but let's face it his hurt has always gone deeper. I hope they both open up one day!

While I don't expect Shiva to be loving towards Raavi, but atleast don't take out your anger on her for speaking her mind. She too has suffered at the hands of Dhara, her life has also been affected by this idiocy! Let the poor girl live. If there's someone who doesn't deserve this it's her! Shiva's guard went straight back up!

The pandya brothers! These ghaderas together have my heart! 😭😭 No matter how annoyed I get at some of them, I love them so much when they're like this! What took Gaumbi so long?! Finally speaking his mind with Dhara - he can see the damage she's doing. I wish he said all this earlier.

Get this version of Dhara off my screen! That is all.

Why do they always do this on a Saturday? Today's day has left such a bitter taste for me. I'm so pissed of at Dhara and especially Shiva for the manhandling 😡

I am copy-pasting what I wrote in another thread about the episode.

Well, I have been subtly pointing out to the mild Oedipal clinging of the men towards Dhara. That's where I have problems with the storytellings of ITV overall. The women are myopic, and are shown only catering to the family and not to individualist sentiments.

They are projected as ‘knowing-it-all’ and home-wise. The vision of their world is that of a perpetual purblind confined to the corridors of their house and their families. There are so many layers to women in normal lives, but ITV is obsessed with making them sacrificial lambs and scapegoats for any form of wrongdoings of others.

The case here is that of badly raised men by both Gambi and Dhara, and their unhealthy adult obsession with their Bhabhi.

I had time and again reiterated that they are so attached to Dhara that every form of their emotional need is catered by her. They barely have space for other men or women in their lives.

Marriages, though initially started as business alliances and sexual Transactions, have evolved in the modern day to seek fulfilment physically and emotionally.

The problem with these man-children is that they have no value for a relationship like marriage. They see it as an extension of their family but not as a life-changing moment for them.

No woman adores a man who is that obsessed with his maternal figure. Dhara should let it go naturally rather than making it an emotional burden on anyone of them.

It's juvenile on Dhara’s part to expect the new women to fit perfectly like pieces of puzzles in their daily life without an iota of empathy about what the other women would probably want from their marriage and lives.

Someone is reprimanded for wanting ‘me time’ with her husband; someone is forced to play wife to an already complex relationship. It's hugely suffocating in the name of the greater good.

It's insane even to think about the mental, emotional and physical trauma everyone is going through in this process.

Arey marriages are not to be disciplined. They are nurtured with care, love and compassion!

Effing madness Dhara; cooking food separately is not going to bring people closer.

It's like telling people, “listen, you better start playing husband -wife to each other or else, I will cut you off.”

This is plain annoying and uncalled for. The relationship between Shiva-Dhara was so warm and charming once, but now it appears toxic and suffocating.

Glass Half Full:

Krish wanting to enroll Shiva in a circus because he pulled out a stunt 😆

Raavi is calling Shiva Superman. (This girl truly understands his strength . 🤣 Chattan, Bhoot, Superman, Salmon Khan., Sapno is Ranveer Singh) 😆

Raavi is so cute .

Originally posted by: _charu_

Is paglait dhara ko kaun samjhaye ke Shiva raavi can come close otherwise also , without her nautanki. She need not dictate them what to do . She is not shiva's ex lover jisko raavi ko accept karna hai😆

True! The entire obsession looked do couple rift like! It was so bad

The problem I am having now is not being able to enjoy ShiVi sequences even singularly. All thanks to the stupid track that CVs pulled out to keep up with the COVID restrictions. There is no other reason why they stretched the chudail track to such an extent. Added to it is the batwaara and then the most silliest of all..."Maa should not know of this / Hide it all from Maa" track which keeps popping up in every new Pandya trouble.

What Shiva did in today's episode was totally off-tangent and just too uncalled for. They could have rather shown him sitting in a corner and mull / cry. But no, they needed to showcase the 'Bhabhi Bhakti'! 🤢 With today's sequence, I fear I would end up with a disconnect from ShiVi as well.

StarPlus is the ultimate Bhabhi Bhakt! 🤢😵

Dhara is acting like an adamant child crashing her dolls' faces together and screaming "KISSS!"

Sigh. Someone tell her how humans work.

Imma register an FIR with Somnath police to recover Dhara's lost brain and Shiva's missing forehead.