Taking Baby Steps to become Anupama

Everyone enters the Shah house, Leela is reluctant to change as usual. Wont elaborate it. Happy that Dolly is on a right side for this time. I think she understands that how difficult was it with Meenu. She hasn't raised Menu. It was Anupama who raised Meenu. Dolly siding Anupama was much logical.Kavya is forcing others to accept her and that's why Dolly is not able to call her Bhabhi. Leela this lady selfish, forgot all the service of Anupama and blamed her.

Now Vanraj saw Advait in the place of him. He made Anupama and Sanan happy. That Maharaj grew jealous. He said one day that Advait tum sabke dost ho. Now he will badmouth Advait. He is getting angry and expected Anupama to act sane when she saw Vanya together. Anupama crying alone for sometime. I appreciated her when she cried. Crying doesn't makes you weak, it says you were strong for enough time. It's ok to break and get emotional. But she wiped the tears for the family, especially that Leela and Vanraj who addressed her as Baharwali. Baharwali might be acceptable, but they forgot her service of 25 years in just a minute.

Now they had an art talk. I as a person love to have artistic talk. If there would have been no art, then Kosha would have been a handicapped girl. My life is incomplete without any art. I score good academically, but I dont get much happy when I score good. It's the art that brings the smile on my face. When I paint, I look nowhere else. When I sing, I forget the entire world. When I cook, I forget that Garmi bahut Zyada hai. When I write, I feel ralexed. What Anupama talked regarding art, was very relatable to me. Because of Music I get closer to divine and sometimes I also cry. Advait asked her to teach dance to his patients. Art can cure patients, its the healing process. It cures depression.

Anupama calculating the expenses, made much sense to me. The question is that how will she handle all the expenses. At the age what Anupama is starting is very difficult to create her own identity. But in a way, it is very easy also to create her own identity. Saying this because, many woman entrepreneurs prefer that they start at the age when children grow up and they dont have to hold themselves back. So it is interesting to see her journey.

Vanya scene, Aniruddha is giving divorce to Kavya and I am disappointed, are thoda to use pareshaan karo. He is getting jealous of Advait. And that makes me happy. Vanraj, Advait is a ton better than you. The line that made me laugh he said "Teen Bachho ka Baap hu main, ek bete ne shaadi karli hai, ek shaadi karne jaa raha hai, aur meri shaadi ki baat mein uchhdu" Vanya scene gave me this 😈 vibe. Vanraj feeling that its impossible for Anupama to survive without him, but atleast she is taking small small steps. Small efforts is better than no efforts. Small efforts leads to big efforts, big efforts give big results.

Today AnuRaj scene, Anupama gave a tight slap with her reply. Kavya ki soch hai aur Banduk Vanraj maar raha hai. Everytime I have seen that a husband says I am earning, I buy food and question the home maker What do you do?. This is the thing I hate. My heart wanna reply to every husband, "Aapke kharide hue khane ko dekhti hai, nihaarti hai, bas aur kya karti hai, khana to aapki jaadui kala se hi ban jaata hai". If the food is bought by the husband, then the wife also cares for the food. All the husbands think, that they show money and show that the homemaker is inferior. But in my case, money is the third class measure to measure superiority, my respect for the homemaker will be on the top, even if she doesn't earns. Its even more than a working woman

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Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Everyone enters the Shah house, Leela is reluctant to change as usual. Wont elaborate it. Happy that Dolly is on a right side for this time. I think she understands that how difficult was it with Meenu. She hasn't raised Menu. It was Anupama who raised Meenu. Dolly siding Anupama was much logical.Kavya is forcing others to accept her and that's why Dolly is not able to call her Bhabhi. Leela this lady selfish, forgot all the service of Anupama and blamed her.

Now Vanraj saw Advait in the place of him. He made Anupama and Sanan happy. That Maharaj grew jealous. He said one day that Advait tum sabke dost ho. Now he will badmouth Advait. He is getting angry and expected Anupama to act sane when she saw Vanya together. Anupama crying alone for sometime. I appreciated her when she cried. Crying doesn't makes you weak, it says you were strong for enough time. It's ok to break and get emotional. But she wiped the tears for the family, especially that Leela and Vanraj who addressed her as Baharwali. Baharwali might be acceptable, but they forgot her service of 25 years in just a minute.

Now they had an art talk. I as a person love to have artistic talk. If there would have been no art, then Kosha would have been a handicapped girl. My life is incomplete without any art. I score good academically, but I dont get much happy when I score good. It's the art that brings the smile on my face. When I paint, I look nowhere else. When I sing, I forget the entire world. When I cook, I forget that Garmi bahut Zyada hai. When I write, I feel ralexed. What Anupama talked regarding art, was very relatable to me. Because of Music I get closer to divine and sometimes I also cry. Advait asked her to teach dance to his patients. Art can cure patients, its the healing process. It cures depression.

Anupama calculating the expenses, made much sense to me. The question is that how will she handle all the expenses. At the age what Anupama is starting is very difficult to create her own identity. But in a way, it is very easy also to create her own identity. Saying this because, many woman entrepreneurs prefer that they start at the age when children grow up and they dont have to hold themselves back. So it is interesting to see her journey.

Vanya scene, Aniruddha is giving divorce to Kavya and I am disappointed, are thoda to use pareshaan karo. He is getting jealous of Advait. And that makes me happy. Vanraj, Advait is a ton better than you. The line that made me laugh he said "Teen Bachho ka Baap hu main, ek bete ne shaadi karli hai, ek shaadi karne jaa raha hai, aur meri shaadi ki baat mein uchhdu" Vanya scene gave me this 😈 vibe. Vanraj feeling that its impossible for Anupama to survive without him, but atleast she is taking small small steps. Small efforts is better than no efforts. Small efforts leads to big efforts, big efforts give big results.

Today AnuRaj scene, Anupama gave a tight slap with her reply. Kavya ki soch hai aur Banduk Vanraj maar raha hai. Everytime I have seen that a husband says I am earning, I buy food and question the home maker What do you do?. This is the thing I hate. My heart wanna reply to every husband, "Aapke kharide hue khane ko dekhti hai, nihaarti hai, bas aur kya karti hai, khana to aapki jaadui kala se hi ban jaata hai". If the food is bought by the husband, then the wife also cares for the food. All the husbands think, that they show money and show that the homemaker is inferior. But in my case, money is the third class measure to measure superiority, my respect for the homemaker will be on the top, even if she doesn't earns. Its even more than a working woman

@bold - When Anu spoke about art, mujhe tu hi yaad aayi, bcoz u would relate to it the most. i knew would very beautifully describe it in your post.

Waise Kavya ne aaj ek acha kaam kiya, jo Vanraj ko job ke liye taunt maara🤣 "Saat mahine se ye hi sun rahi hun" Vanraj ko pata hai ki 1 phone karega usko 4 job milega, bas bichare ko ye nahi pata phone karna kisko hai, isliye time lag raha hai job dhundhne ke liye🤣🤣

But uske baad bolti hai Anu ko dikhane ke liye job dhundho, matlab bas ye hi reason reh gaya hai job dhundhne ke liye🤣

Good Dolly spoke for Anu. ANd she rightly said jahan Kavya hogi wahan shaanti kasie ho sakti hai. But Toshu as usual is a statue.

When Baa said ki hum jaate hai I was like "kaale jaata hou, ena badle aaje niklo, krupa tamhari" I had loved Baa's character progression, but she back to being her old self.

Last scene as usual got to see savage Anu. Oh how I missed these face offs of Anu and Vanraj. Vanraj is so self obsessed, bhai duniya har koi sab kuch tere liye nahi karta.

Aaj nandini ne bhi acha kaam kiya, kavya ko sunaake 😆

Vanraj ne Anu ko 25 saal main itna bhi nahi jaana kya, ki woh uske character pe bol raha hai, kyunki Kavya ne uske kaan bhare hai, matlab kuch bhi. acha jawab de rahi hai Anu.

Kavya is such thankless person and also selfish. Nandini ko engagement main to stand nahi liya and then usse puch rahi hai ki apni shaadi ki tayyariyon ke liye.

Also why can nandini stay with Anu but not Samar, why Anu hell bent on keeping Samar at shah house where no one cares for him.

And as usual best Advait and Anu scenes were a treat to watch.

Van is j about Anu standing on her feet ..he thought he will still show his hak by standing by her during sickness and eventually she will be nice and friendly and listen to him

I like what nandu said just coz she is not crying does not mean she is not sad .

When my relationship failed due to my physically and emo abusive ex husband many relatives accused me of being heartless since I did not cry not did I come back to my parents. I continued working since I wanted to pay all my friends physiotherapy and legal expenses

Except my bro and bff I don't think I have cried before anyone. It's just now me. But in this trauma my connection with my art went off I cannot paint ever .but yes reading stayed and helped me

I pulled through and met an old friend who convinced me to give him a chance and now I am.married with a 4 year old.

Jab baa ne kaha abhi bacche nahi chahiye par bacche dono ko jode rakhte hai like seriously baa? 3 baccho ka baap hote hue bhi tumhare bete ne kya kiya 🤪 baa Zara face udhar to gumana 😆 I really like Dr. Advait 👏 bonding between Anu and Advait

I totally understand Anupama here when she was crying totally related jab jivansathi ka sath chute aur beta sirf 7 saal ka ho anjaan desh mai 0 dollar ke sath life shuru karni pade wo bhi akele tab aankho se ansu bhi nahi nikal pate sirf aur sirf apki hansi aur hosla hi apka aur apke bete ka Sahara ho to kya hota hai kaisa lagta hai shayad wo hi samje jo iss dard se nikla hai 🤗🙏

so true dipali no one can understand it even your own relatives real face comes out at that time ,may God help and make strong everyone who ever is or been through it Ameen

Ajj ke episode mai jab Anupama ne apni bimari ke bare mai sab ko bataya mai almost futfut ke royi 😭😭

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See Rupali is ruling now. She is the best

Originally posted by: neo7

@bold - When Anu spoke about art, mujhe tu hi yaad aayi, bcoz u would relate to it the most. i knew would very beautifully describe it in your post.

Waise Kavya ne aaj ek acha kaam kiya, jo Vanraj ko job ke liye taunt maara🤣 "Saat mahine se ye hi sun rahi hun" Vanraj ko pata hai ki 1 phone karega usko 4 job milega, bas bichare ko ye nahi pata phone karna kisko hai, isliye time lag raha hai job dhundhne ke liye🤣🤣

But uske baad bolti hai Anu ko dikhane ke liye job dhundho, matlab bas ye hi reason reh gaya hai job dhundhne ke liye🤣

Good Dolly spoke for Anu. ANd she rightly said jahan Kavya hogi wahan shaanti kasie ho sakti hai. But Toshu as usual is a statue.

When Baa said ki hum jaate hai I was like "kaale jaata hou, ena badle aaje niklo, krupa tamhari" I had loved Baa's character progression, but she back to being her old self.

Last scene as usual got to see savage Anu. Oh how I missed these face offs of Anu and Vanraj. Vanraj is so self obsessed, bhai duniya har koi sab kuch tere liye nahi karta.

Aaj nandini ne bhi acha kaam kiya, kavya ko sunaake 😆

Vanraj ne Anu ko 25 saal main itna bhi nahi jaana kya, ki woh uske character pe bol raha hai, kyunki Kavya ne uske kaan bhare hai, matlab kuch bhi. acha jawab de rahi hai Anu.

Kavya is such thankless person and also selfish. Nandini ko engagement main to stand nahi liya and then usse puch rahi hai ki apni shaadi ki tayyariyon ke liye.

Also why can nandini stay with Anu but not Samar, why Anu hell bent on keeping Samar at shah house where no one cares for him.

And as usual best Advait and Anu scenes were a treat to watch.

Bold : Thanks for remembering me 🤗 Now you know me well

Sorry for late reply was stuck up with my performances

Purple lines: No Leela doesn't makes me angry this much...But this lines I will say to Kavyadi

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Van is j about Anu standing on her feet ..he thought he will still show his hak by standing by her during sickness and eventually she will be nice and friendly and listen to him

I like what nandu said just coz she is not crying does not mean she is not sad .

When my relationship failed due to my physically and emo abusive ex husband many relatives accused me of being heartless since I did not cry not did I come back to my parents. I continued working since I wanted to pay all my friends physiotherapy and legal expenses

Except my bro and bff I don't think I have cried before anyone. It's just now me. But in this trauma my connection with my art went off I cannot paint ever .but yes reading stayed and helped me

I pulled through and met an old friend who convinced me to give him a chance and now I am.married with a 4 year old.

Hi Anju read your story...I am sure you needed very much strength to bear the abuse and now glad that you came out.

And you being not able to paint anymore that's more painful. Because a single day without art is very painful when the circumstances surrounding you are very traumatic.

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