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Is procreation the only reason for marriage ?

They can always adopt as many other medical possiblity are not possible since she does not have a uterus. It's best to marry someone u are emo and culturally compatible.

I know many couples who believe they don't want children since they are not emo and financially ready to do so . Some don't want to the responsibility and enjoy their life. It's a choice and we must not judge.

Ultimately it is Samar choice as a adult

Originally posted by: kooki07

Neo and Kosha its nothing to do with profession its your mind set ,dont go and think so deeply in life some of things you have to brush it off ,everyone have thier own way of thinking so let them .and you were saying some thing about the dhamakedaar episode anything special happened ?

Ya ya we know it is nothing to do with profession. Its just that Vanraj always taunted Anu that she is less educated and does not have modern look and is not upto his level. Whereas in reality Anupamaa has more modern outlook and thoughts than anyone in the house. So I just commented that Vanraj is like "Padhe likhe Jaahil". So Kosha just happened to share an example of her cousin who happens to be CA, basically she wanted to say that is how well educated he is but still his thoughts are backward. And so I just said in sarcastic manner since I am also a CA. We know its not related to any profession. Also your thoughts and outlook does not come from your education, thats what we were discussing.

Dhamaakedar bcoz, first of all, amazing dance sequences and secondly Nandini's past is out that she cannot concieve bcoz due to accident, her uterus had to be removed and as usual its only Anu in their support. And tomorrow confrontation will happen between Anu and Vanraj and Baa. Baa and Vanraj now do not want to go ahead with this relation.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Is procreation the only reason for marriage ?

They can always adopt as many other medical possiblity are not possible since she does not have a uterus. It's best to marry someone u are emo and culturally compatible.

I know many couples who believe they don't want children since they are not emo and financially ready to do so . Some don't want to the responsibility and enjoy their life. It's a choice and we must not judge.

Ultimately it is Samar choice as a adult

Exactly and what if Samar had medical issues and couldn't become a father, tab koi kuch nahi bolta??

Its always female who are at the receiving end.

Obviously they can adopt, that's what Anu is telling Vanraj and Baa, but we know how their thoughts are patriarchal. Baa to phir bhi purane zamaane ki hai and expected to have such thoughts, but Vanraj also is with Baa on this.

TBH it's very rare that men get tested due to ego hassles. Women are easily tagged baanj and even if tested very rare that the fact that the man is impotent comes out.

Conversations on adoption are tough due to extended fam. Peeps are worried about how the society will make the child feel. I know quite a few who want to adopt but are scared of society 😔

I know of a cousin who was associated with a NGO came across a widow who had 2 children below 3 on her last breath. He though was middle class adopted both since he did not want to seperate the siblings. One boy and one girl and has given them love and a good living. He used the Krishna katha to explain to his children how God gave him a chance to be a father thru them

i know a family who could not have the children after 20 years they adopted a girl and without and treatment they were blessed with a son as well ,now they are at universities .why dont people think that they are giving a loving home to a child ,even when i found out about my son and d i were running to the doctors just after an year passed to their marriage why so hurry and if not they can adopt the children .

Anu's poem was beautiful ❤️ Dance was beautiful too ❤️ Rupali Ganguly is so graceful 😍

Samar knew about this, and he is fine the way things are, these other closed mind thinking Vanraj and his chamchas shouldn't even interfere between them, it's the couple decision what they wish to do, if they want to go with adoption or surrogacy or no child.

I remember in previous episode, Samar used to teach dance to poor kids too, I think so Sanan will be shown working together for poor kids in future too.

The way things are going on, this will be a court marriage too, then Chamcha party with their leader will through tantrums that how even their other son did this, Vanraj didn't treat Samar nicely too, used to insult him so much, abh dekho ishe, kis muh se Samar ko bol raha hai, khud toh itni shameless rangeen zindagi hai inki, and he is pointing at the respectful legally allowed couples.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Sorry for being inactive, workload!

But this is total nuts. Why is Nandini so obsessed with telling about her infertility to everyone?

I was expecting the show to go on a track different from Sreemoyee because Leela got all pally with Anupamaa and Paritosh suddenly became nice, but turns out all the groupism will fall in place exactly like it.

Leela and Paritosh siding Kavya to support Vanraj, who is already jealous of AnuVait. Pakhi, Samar, Kinjal and Hasmukh supporting Anupamaa.

I don't think there will be a new parallel lead entry anymore cz looks like Apurva may get an extended track here. He is doing most stuff Rohit did in Sreemoyee.

Pretty sure this will escalate now with Hasmukh making a will with condition of forbidding Anupamaa to sign the house over to Vanraj like he did in Sreemoyee. Note that all Anupamaa gave him was a blank stamp paper, she didn't sign the house off yet.

So no, Anupamaa will live with VanYa under the same roof!!

Hi Niharika... After a long time heard from you

I think Nandini took the right decision to tell everyone. They could have told after the marriage but didn't want any problems further. So I am with Nandini.

Your mention regarding the groupism was perfect...

Regarding the house thing and will thing I am much excited to know how they handle the track.

Anupama won't stay in that house ever

Originally posted by: kooki07

Neo and Kosha its nothing to do with profession its your mind set ,dont go and think so deeply in life some of things you have to brush it off ,everyone have thier own way of thinking so let them .and you were saying some thing about the dhamakedaar episode anything special happened ?

No no kooki. We mentioned CA and all that stuff because education brings change to perceptions. I was not pointing on professions. CA thing just came out. I was pointing on education. The profession thing just came out as I wanted to take an example

As far as Vanraj is concerned he is a hypocrite

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Is procreation the only reason for marriage ?

They can always adopt as many other medical possiblity are not possible since she does not have a uterus. It's best to marry someone u are emo and culturally compatible.

I know many couples who believe they don't want children since they are not emo and financially ready to do so . Some don't want to the responsibility and enjoy their life. It's a choice and we must not judge.

Ultimately it is Samar choice as a adult

Exactly it should be a couples choice not Par Dadi's choice.

Originally posted by: neo7

Exactly and what if Samar had medical issues and couldn't become a father, tab koi kuch nahi bolta??

Its always female who are at the receiving end.

Obviously they can adopt, that's what Anu is telling Vanraj and Baa, but we know how their thoughts are patriarchal. Baa to phir bhi purane zamaane ki hai and expected to have such thoughts, but Vanraj also is with Baa on this.

Old people are reluctant to change.

Vanraj can have EMA, such a modern thinking (sarcasm intended)

Now he has problem with Samar not being a father... Can they not use medical sciences.

Maharaj believes in modern thinking, so why not in this 😡