Episode Spoiler - 17 May 2021 - Page 4

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Yh i didnt wanna mention that slap 🤣

The slap was not justified. But its clearly showing how adamant and protective she is about her family. Its still not olay though wasnt happy with it. But im hoping it was the last one 😳 and raghvi can finally move forward.

Yes pallu is totally flawed with her ignoring of her actual brothrr and family. Her charavter needs MAJOR growth.

Im hoping raghavs changed behavior towards her and continued observance of DECENCY and non toxic relationships can help her grow herself.

@bold, yes she really needs this. Also, I think seeing someone like Raghav, who she believes is set in his ways, actually change for the better will make her reflect on her own thoughts and actions, that perhaps she needs to open up her mind to her surroundings more.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I do think deep deep deep down she knows that Raghav is right, but that truth is so bitter that she doesn't want to even acknowledge it, let alone think about it. This is why she was so defensive today and right now isn't the appropriate time to make her see sense. She's still hurting.

Raghav needs to find other 'less harsh' ways to tell her about realities and it may take a longer time to get there, as his alter ego said. The only way Raghav stays the course is if he is invested enough to put that time and effort in. The damage he cause was quick to execute but reparations will take a long time, maybe forever. Also, even though he knows how useless and selfish D-fam are, and that Pallavi is better off without them, he cannot play puppeteer in their lives and make this happen. I have said this a few times, he needs to learn to accept that there are some situations and outcomes which he cannot control, as well as the duration it takes to achieve those outcomes. At the end of the day, only Pallavi can make that decision as to whether she wants the D-fam in her life or not. If he goes about this with a savior complex they are both doomed.

At this point, I wish she'd go to Kolhapur for a bit. She could do with the break and her actual family might be able to provide some comfort without judging her. I can just imagine Siddesh remembering his warning to his wife that something like this would happen. He won't be too pleased being in a position now where he feels like 'I told you so'.

110% agree with you..

pallu got defensive today. And slapped raghav out of defensiveness of her good memories too. She knows hes right but she is still hanging on to the goodness she saw in them and doesnt want to loose that. Raghav was innocent thinking he can just tell her just like that which i dont blame him because hes never had to deal with complicated issues like this. He believes in straightforwadness and today he said what he said thinking this but it came off careless.

I dmt think writers will bring siddesh back. Maybe wayy later but i think hes on permanent break cause of covid. Maybe thry can show pallu packing bags to go to kohlapur ..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Brother, who?

I felt the same as you. It can't have been easy to raise her, a newborn, after having lost his parents and becoming orphaned himself. He must have just been a kid.

I hated the slap so much. It was uncalled for. I know she's hurting and so does he, so he let it pass. I don't want this becoming a habit between them. The real reason she hit him was because he told her tough things that she didn't want to accept and he touched a nerve.

same thing she spoke to her aai, during marriage...that time nothing happened.now he told her, she goest to hit him🤔

Originally posted by: xxStrangerxx

Makers should now give alone time to RaghVi

... leaving their toxic family aside..

I would love to see RaghVi together alone without any crap thoughts in future

I would like to pitch in that even I agree the slap thing is getting irritating now.

Remember in the court scene Raghu was about to raise his hand on pallu but stopped. If he would have done it then the whole forum would have been how did he slap a girl

But when the FL slaps ML I see no one blinking an eye also

ITV in general needs to stop glorifying slaps really 🤔

Originally posted by: christobelle

I would love to see RaghVi together alone without any crap thoughts in future

We never know when will it happen???

I am seriously missing the lion's track

No one was there....only RaghVi❤️

Originally posted by: christobelle

I m sorry to disagree with you

If going by writers logic. I can say oh writers slipped and made raghav behave like a jerk

Its the whole thing we r seeing for both Raghav and Pallavi

The violence thing is getting overboard now. She should have shouted at him , its fine.

He talked to her in a gentle tone too not a domineering tone to receive a slap at that time

Its high time makers stop this violence. It is distasteful to see onscreen

I get you!

🤗

Listen i personally would Love if they never show a slap again.. but if we are honest.. we cant hate 1 slap and cheer anothrr 😆.. sulo ko slaps mile toh its okay. Raghav ko mile toh ts not. 😆 we just have to be consistant as a fandom if we are for them or against them also. Thats why i always say i filter them. I usually wont bother unless its really depicted violentely. I try understanding the situation. Ony because its ITV. That being said id LOVE if we never got anothrr slap again! But indian tv has a habit of using these things to grab eyeballs and i know its not gonna change 😆

Originally posted by: christobelle

But still she will remain flawed for me after what she did to her brother

I have new respect for Siddesh. Till the end, he wanted the best for his sister. He was like a real parent for Pallavi.

Pallavi in her selfish wish for a person to call aai n baba forgot that her bhai took care of her like aai and baba both throughout years, when ur folly trashmukhs didn't even know u

Siddesh feed u n brought u up unlike Trashmukhs who leeched on you.

I m sorry but i m too disappointed with Pallavi

Raghav has a brilliant character growth. Yeah, i agree what he did was wrong. But still he is the best.

@bold, hai na? I am really really hoping they bring him back for a massive track when things are better with the COVID situation.

2 toxic years with the D-fam outweighed 20+ years with her brother. Even Raghav was like, WTH?

But I am glad she spoke about all this because now he has a basis on which he can start to figure out how to help her come out this. I definitely can't imagine him sitting around doing nothing.

I am glad they showed her as flawed because her being too perfect and mahaan would have made her like any other FL on ITV. I must applaud the CVs for having the courage to show this particular type of flaw, though. FLs tend to almost worship their family members, especially a brother who brought her up all by himself. Normally, you'd expect the FL to go to any lengths for them, just like she did for Nikhil. Ugh... I suspect he didn't have kids yet because his wife and he were busy raising her. She doesn't consider them important enough to pine for them, as if she has no one else but the D-fam to call her family. The sad part is that the moment Siddhesh learns of what happened, he'd probably come running to check on her and help her out. 😕

Originally posted by: inlieu

Brother, who?

I felt the same as you. It can't have been easy to raise her, a newborn, after having lost his parents and becoming orphaned himself. He must have just been a kid.

I hated the slap so much. It was uncalled for. I know she's hurting and so does he, so he let it pass. I don't want this becoming a habit between them. The real reason she hit him was because he told her tough things that she didn't want to accept and he touched a nerve.

That's what bothered me a lot.

She is blind to the brother who was actually her baba n aai for years. She is just self pitying herself of not having parents. She is lucky that she atleast got her brother who provided her shelter and food for years.

So many ppl outside don't even have that.

I don't like slapfest to be genuine. And its too much when he was explaining things politely.

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

I would like to pitch in that even I agree the slap thing is getting irritating now.

Remember in the court scene Raghu was about to raise his hand on pallu but stopped. If he would have done it then the whole forum would have been how did he slap a girl

But when the FL slaps ML I see no one blinking an eye also

ITV in general needs to stop glorifying slaps really 🤔

#straightfacts

Again slaps need to go away ALL together. We cant pick and choose.