Originally posted by: Indira12
@Bold - Phir to makers unka serial khud dekhe. I feel angry Faja. After all of this, why now a total different thing? No need of a tag, true. But not always. This tag was the reason why we got Rudhita. If this tag isn't there, you know what is going to happen. There will be a liberty for makers to do what we are scared of.
Yes, he did. But it was very toned down. Oh God, I can't wait to see him in pain right now. Why was he constantly saying 'mann ka rishta'? He was the one who refused to accept it. Why now resorting to it only?
"...Bon has to go through this, its painful..."
My question is why? Why always her? Whatever the panch told was bitter, but true. Why has to Bon pay for Ani's actions. Binoy said it correct only. Why does Bon has to sacrifice her marriage in order for her husband's impulsiveness? She was married forcefully, sent to a completely unknown place at such a young age, still she accepted everything whole-heartedly. The family which was against her, she changed them through her love. She made a family out of strangers. She turned every lime life threw at her into lemonade. She did not wanted to believe in all these, she was made to. And now after so much faith, after she considered her family, her universe, she is asked to leave all of it and go. This too forcefully. Jab chaha tab shaadi karva di, par ladki ne usse apna liya. Aur jab apna liya, tab usse cheen liya gaya. Why?
@UL - No Faja. It's not for a marriage. It's true for every relationship that exists out there. It always takes two to hold a thread.
@old 3: This is what we wanted on the marriage revelation , right..to own their relation is from heart..I was more affected by that, man se nahi bana hai..mah ka rishta nahi hai..That time he was blinded by society and custom, and he was outraged .He said many things of no meaning in anger (not defending, but actions contradicted).Now the custom, society tag is taken off, the bond evident to public is taken of, he sees the actual bond.Or he desperately hold on to that. Can we not interpret it that way.
Howm uch ever I despise the act of Ani, I never overlook the fact that bon is so much to him (Last track I had my doubts, but I moved on )
@ bold2: Only what I can say is, what she had as hers was also a pay of Ani's action..Its the truth..its a two way sword, which can kill you or protect you.
What you said totally completely makes sense, if Bon is a child bride and child marriage as a social evil is out of picture..But that is what BB deals with na, rishta and society clash..Are we not in track Indu, even though its a tight slap on our faces, I dont think they will dare to touch Rudhita, this might turn out to be something else
@ bold3: true else it wont sustain
Indu, kuch zyada hi gusse mein lag rahi ho tum...
** I wont force my ideas Indu, I feel your angst