Hi all,
I have been wanting to write this post for a long long time. Like many of you, I started to watch this show for Sairat, the promo pulled me towards the show and I was looking forward to watch Sairat's journey.
Some like Virat and some Sai. We all analyse their feelings, their behavior, their actions and so many other things.
I have tried to be as much neutral as possible while trying to understand a character. Have tried to look at every situation, good or bad from both the angles. I support when they are right and express my disappontment when they go wrong.
They are a couple and many couples face this or even worst. What I don't understand is that when we all knew that it is a journey of Sairat, time and again, there are questions as to whether they deserve each other or not. Some feel Sai doesn't deserve Virat and some feel Virat doesn't deserve Sai. This puts off almost many people's mood in the forum. Creates an imbalance in the forum.
I understand we get disappointed and we might say that, but telling it repeatedly, I am not sure what is the purpose of it especially when we know we are going to watch this couple's journey. Whatever they have or been facing is just the beginning, they have a long way to go.
How does the imbalance affect the forum members??
We all are not just watching their journey, but enjoying many of their scenes together and discussing about it gives a lot of happiness to us. If we cannot and do not keep the bitter feelings aside for any character, we would not be able to look forward for upcoming good scenes.
Some create posts to ask what would you like to see after separation,
some create posts as what romantic moments do you want the couple to share,
some create posts as what song do you think they can play during the separation,
some create posts trying to predict a particular scene based on the other versions
some create posts adding humour to the most horrible/sad episode
some creat posts to observe things in an episode.
These posts are made to distract us bring some fun and entertainment for the audience, when there is negative track in the show due to which audience are upset. Such posts makes our day entertaining.
Such posts would never get inputs if he have hard feelings for a character and if we keep questioning if we should ship the couple or not. Because almost all of these posts revolve around this same couple.
And not just these, many people write fan fictions, write OS and I have recently heard that there are not many who writes stories these days, myself included. The track already is quite disappointing even though it was an expected one. I am not saying we should all act happy when we are upset with a track or a character, but somewhere hold on to it and expect or hope for good things in the future.
I will stay back now, but in future, if I am unhappy, and if I cannot tolerate anything, I will quit. It makes no sense to watch, when we are already having many things to deal with in real life and when we are all coming here for entertainment from our busy lives. We come here for entertainment, so I usually take it if I can, if I can't would just leave.
Though I might miss a few members, I really respect their decision to quit watching the show. They take it because they find it too negative or because it doesn't match with the morals that they support, and they don't think it is right for them to watch. Some also quit because they want to leave with good memories of Sairat and don't want to witness the bitterness in them. Some feel the characters are no more what they showed them to be.
All we can do is only that, take it only as much as we can. At the end of the day, it is just a show anyway. But the interaction that we have with each other is much more valuable and memorable.
We all just do not watch the show, and where else do things revolve around SaiRat :
We also read other forum members FF or OS
We interact with them in a thread where BTS is shared, where news are shared, interviews are shared.
We interact with them in threads that talks about offscreen activities.
We interact them when one tries to put forward the collective views of the FD, the forum members.
We interact in many fun posts that are created.
About SaiRat
They are a couple who have feelings for each other and who want each other. We can have varying views about them as individuals, we can keep telling that they don't deserve each other, but the story is already in place and I have been under an impression that we all wanted to watch this story.
We can say how a character can or must improve, what they should or should not have done, but I am getting lost when everyone keep analysing on their worthiness for one another.
What is funny is, there used to be a time when many were worried if they would change the storyline, if they makers were looking at reconsidering who the couple should be due to a few factors, as we all know. And many were saying that they won't watch if they don't give Sairat.
And now, we have it and we still have issues. Please do think about it. We can expect that a character be introduced to make Sai or Virat jealous, not a character who is going to break them apart or not think they never deserved each other in first place.
If we start to think they never deserved each other in first place, we are in a wrong show, and this is not the time they should be feeling because, whatever they feel doesn't matter when the couple themselves have moved past their own dislike or past and actually want to live with each other.
I do understand and respect people who think they are toxic couple and shouldn't be living with each other. I would agree, if it was real life, no one would encourage them to do certain things.
But even in real life, people would be asked to give a chance to each other, they would give a chance to each other if they feel like, looking at their good deeds and many other factors. Those who still cannot live with each other, has fallen out of love, finds it worthless to spend life together, will split ways.
What I see in SaiRat after 10 years especially because we know the storyline is :
SaiRat are together, looking back at their good memories, getting reminded of their past behavior and regretting, and supporting each other when one is regretting.
Do you know what they would be talking
I am sorry, I didn't mean to insult you.
I am sorry, I shouldn't have married you setting up conditions.
I am sorry, I shouldn't have misunderstood your feelings.
I am sorry, I shouldn't havs misunderstood your intentions.
I am sorry, I shouldn't have taken such a big step as ousting you from the house even if I was mad at you.
I am sorry, I shouldn't have hid the truth from you and gone behind your back and got your sister married.
Don't worry what others say, what matters the most is that you understand me, I understand you and we both have forgiven each other. This is our life, doesn't matter what Kaku thinks of you or a neighbour or people from work. We know where we stand in our life now and what we did to make this happen.
And on and on and on
I am sorry, i am sorry, I love you, i need you, cant live without you, stay with me forever, let's stay with each other forever, try to understand each other better day by day, learn from the mistakes from our past and try to never do them again, make our future beautiful.
Finally
Let's not let our past affect our future because those doesnt matter, what matters is that we both need each other, and we both love each other.
This is how I see SaiRat or any couple facing issues if they are able to move past their indifferences and try to sort things amongst them.
The reason I say I might quit the show is because of the storyline they might adopt could be unbearable for me to watch. I might skip such track and again be back to where the couple are working on their journey together.
So let's continue to analyse characters, share our views and understandings, have fun, hope for a good script in the future, look forward to their journey, hope for past of many people to be revealed, look forward to Sairat scenes and most importantly watch out, how the story is going to unfold.
Such a beautiful post and 100% correct. The actors are a fantastic group of people who are working to entertain us.. But at the end of the day they are fictional characters.
It is a sad day when people are talking about a fictional characters self- respect whilst being vile and disrespectful in posts to actual people. I joined and have continued to stay on this site because I like to read other people’s opinion - I might agree sometimes, others not and vice versus.
I have seen some fantastic pieces of art in write ups and sketches etc. I like coming onto this site to confer with others who have the same connection to the show as me.
The real world is hard - yes we all have beautiful moments but we also all have difficult moments. In real life you can have lots of people around you who care - but you can still be lonely.
Sometimes it’s nice to communicate with strangers about things that don’t really matter but give you piece of mind - even for a short time.
I truly appreciate reading yours and other members posts - it takes ones mind off real problems - which can’t be as easily solved as a shows...
I hope I haven’t offended you or anyone and that wasn’t my intention- your post was so heartfelt it made me think...about why I’m here.
Seher Hone Ko Hai
