Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 86

Originally posted by: RUDY575

I think she will die👍🏼

Y she s introduced in stry and now fr wat purpose she gonna die.... i didnt found any relativeness to Azad nation motive vth ths character... killing one general vl lead to azad nation ah?????

Originally posted by: RUDY575

I think she will die👍🏼

Mujhe lagta hai wo EK serial ki tarha bach jayagi aur future main badi bon khud Mano ani ki shadi karayegi aur jab wo phoot ke royega ke mujhe nahin karni 🤣

Originally posted by: faja

@Bold 1 : you are right completely on Ani's side

What I mentioned was on the Bon's emotional plight after Ani abandoned her.

She was quick in forgiving him (He earned it that time).But the matured Bon in HM was quickly back to her innocent self on reaching RC mansion. We might have named it she is back to herself on back to her nest, with Ani she can fearlessly be child again (Her scars were never shown although she is too young for the concept of Hira Mandi).

I meant this time that back to all fine scenario would be difficult to justify with a growing up Bon in the light of shifting emotions

@ul : I have a mixed feeling here.

Bon's feeling was initially an induced one..clearly visible on cheek turning red and dhadkan scenes in the hut. But how she perceived it later with day dreaming him all time (really awkward for me that I even thought how awkward it would have been for Aurisht), his name on her hand ,'har jagah pati babu dikhta hai'..writing pages with their name together, her shyness on telling KSJ pati babu gifted watch .I got confused about this.It seems she got consumed by what induced on her and she started living it .Kids do learn from surrounding and exposure. Remember how in mind she recreated Mano Jayadeep scene .But she became hysteric after Ani's epic revelation and denial mode.

Yes her crushing was not based on attraction (unlike Ani's) , it is on the concept of she being rightful in the frame work of marriage. But I am not sure if the feelings were all an illusion although she still is unaware of actual romantic feeling. She only asked Ani whether his marriage was fixed with Mini, not actually whether you loved her. So only I was telling , I was confused of what more Bon can perceive , if Ani feeling for Mano get revealed too. For her its all in the framework of marriage.

@bold 2

Yes Bondita wanted to reciprocate now that the people around constantly says how much pati babu loves her , which is a new experience to her. So she made luchis and fed him etc as per the advice of her friends.There is a flip side to it as well.Bon told Sampoorna how they are caring and considerate for each other as pati-patni. and is that not enough .But what she induced on her thoughts of the missing dots in marriage and the whole SR fiasco, made her wanting their marriage to be like others. Doing and feeling the things the other married girls of her age do, which she got exposed to after moving out of RC mansion

@Bold - You maybe right. Kids do learning from surroundings and exposure. Now that I read it, even I feel the same. How to actually name it? Cause crush do makes you think about the person daylong. But the time-age of a crush develops around 13-15 years where teens may/may not be aware of the romantic part. Is it? I don't know. Mai jab uss umar ki thi, tab aisa kuch bhi nahi hua 🤪so I am not aware. But I am not generalizing it. It varies from person to person. Did she really started living the illusion and got confused between 'patni-dharm' and actual feelings? Or was she really crushing upon Ani? Why did makers made it like that? 😡 Either show Bon naturally crushing over Ani or just show an induced one. Why show both and create so much confusion?

Might be if someone makes her understand that Ani felt the exact same way for Mini/Mano as she felt for Ani? Would that work? Yaar, she is so into 'mere patibabu mere hi hai', 'mai hi hu unki patni' that even this won't work I guess. Sometimes I want to shake that girl out her dreamland and make her see the reality. Her character is not dwelled upon I feel because they are busy in dwelling on Ani's one. Cause that's why , as I said, if going by this way she is having growth mentally, but on Ani's actions she acts as the previous old Bon which is not possible. Why can't they have a balance?

It did became awkward for Aurrisht, especially Aurra. Instead of showing this beautiful phase as a really beautiful one, all they focused on making it appear like a sin and made a mess difficult to escape from.

Originally posted by: faja

When Bon is all forgiving, its an easy ride for Ani. For the conversation to be felt awkward for Ani, or to put effort in mending their relation, Bon had to be shown distancing and indifferent to him. Here she is trying to get glued. I hate this thing in Bon, how she forgive her own people when they ill treat her, Mami, Sampoorna and Ani too.. She need not be angelic.. she can be human atleast in this context with learning boundaries.

For Ani to actually fall into the pit of polygamy, Mano has to be alive and still tagged in real fake marriage, but him knowing her real intensions. Mano 's mission failed and Ani' s sorted with Bon Dalhousey.Now no more Muhim tie to connect them. What will he feel about his once felt feelings then and the shadi and Bon's place too. How with the imposing of Shadi effect by society, Ani will handle it and make his stand and give clarity to his relations for himself and for the public

This is never gonna happen.. The easy route is to get rid off Mano and white wash white wash..

Honestly, I might accept her exit too in whatever ways shown by suppressing my second thoughts and reality checks. So done with this polygamy track. Just give some convincing monologue after that.

Yes, she does that. But whenever it's involves her. The moment those ill-treatment is meted out to her Maa or Ani, or when it is the question of Ani, she doesn't. She forgets everything else and refuses to forgive them. Mini, Sampoo and Mama-Mami, she was okay with all of their ill-treatments as long as it is with her, but when the prey was Ani or Sumati, she becomes Kali-Maa, leaving behind that angelic aspect of hers. 🤪

But Ani didn't even do that. He literally allowed the people who tried to sell his wife stay in his house, around Bon. Yes, he had the guilt of Saurabh dying, hence tried making Sampoorna happy, and later expressed his discontent when Binoy asked Mama to be the munshi, but had it been Bon she would not allowed that too (that was quite visible during Sampoo exposition, Bon refused to forgive Sampoo and asked for justice from Ani and KSJ and that was partly a reason why Ani took the decision of leaving home). Yes, I do get his feelings but I can't support him because Bon was his priority and therefore he should not have allowed Mama-Mami around her. Even now, Thakur's name has been mentioned 3-4 times in the haveli, Ani did not shushed them nor did he have a thought as to how Bon must be feeling on hearing his name. He even allowed the Queen in his house, went to the invitation despite knowing that Thakur is involved with the Queen. I understand he had to repay Mano and all, but he could atleast showed some resistance and displeasure. But no, nothing like that was showed. This makes me question their bond, I could have forget the Mama-Mami one, but I can't forget this Thakur one, it makes me think he overlooked this part because of his feelings for Mano, that is why he is so focused on her mission cause feelings do meddle at times, and he literally forgot about the effect it must have on Bon. My Rudi heart breaks again 🥺

Originally posted by: Indira12

@Bold - You maybe right. Kids do learning from surroundings and exposure. Now that I read it, even I feel the same. How to actually name it? Cause crush do makes you think about the person daylong. But the time-age of a crush develops around 13-15 years where teens may/may not be aware of the romantic part. Is it? I don't know. Mai jab uss umar ki thi, tab aisa kuch bhi nahi hua 🤪so I am not aware. But I am not generalizing it. It varies from person to person. Did she really started living the illusion and got confused between 'patni-dharm' and actual feelings? Or was she really crushing upon Ani? Why did makers made it like that? 😡 Either show Bon naturally crushing over Ani or just show an induced one. Why show both and create so much confusion?

Might be if someone makes her understand that Ani felt the exact same way for Mini/Mano as she felt for Ani? Would that work? Yaar, she is so into 'mere patibabu mere hi hai', 'mai hi hu unki patni' that even this won't work I guess. Sometimes I want to shake that girl out her dreamland and make her see the reality. Her character is not dwelled upon I feel because they are busy in dwelling on Ani's one. Cause that's why , as I said, if going by this way she is having growth mentally, but on Ani's actions she acts as the previous old Bon which is not possible. Why can't they have a balance?

It did became awkward for Aurrisht, especially Aurra. Instead of showing this beautiful phase as a really beautiful one, all they focused on making it appear like a sin and made a mess difficult to escape from.

Indu I felt the crushing bit was inspired by those village ladies initially but later on she actually started thinking of him. Maybe there was no romance involved like if you remember even in her day dreaming (Mano Joydeep) she wanted to play Langdri tang with him. Just the way maybe we suddenly start liking actors at the age of 13,14. I don’t think she would still understand what Ani felt for Mini or Mano, that would take some more time. The only thing that could possibly shake her out of this mere patibabu mode is the marriage annulment which is actually the doing of her own pati babu. I just hope makers don’t forget that it was Anirudh only who filed the petition against child marriage so that he could separate his name from hers.

Originally posted by: PRIME1

So they r going to shoot in Bikaner, kuch bhi kare bas bon ki self respect or human emotion dikhaye.

https://twitter.com/Aanshi52140870/status/1383001033962520577?s=20

in next track due to marriage annulment ,bon ke marriage se bahar aakar realisation hoga she has a pure bon with ani because he is her support system,caring person and most importantly a person who saved her from troubles not because he is her husband but u know ani had only plans to send bon to dalhousie but annuling their marriage was not in his mind for that time when he thoguht ill effects of child marriage but it would make him realise bon never had attraction or husband expectattion ,a girl who is so innoncent ,do u think she would have such feelings for anyone right now, she loves him platonically as a system support after her mom ,bon would realise anokha rishta now and whatever care ani showed it would help her make her own name and idendity

human emtions makers alag level pe le jaate hau

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Indu I felt the crushing bit was inspired by those village ladies initially but later on she actually started thinking of him. Maybe there was no romance involved like if you remember even in her day dreaming (Mano Joydeep) she wanted to play Langdri tang with him. Just the way maybe we suddenly start liking actors at the age of 13,14. I don’t think she would still understand what Ani felt for Mini or Mano, that would take some more time. The only thing that could possibly shake her out of this mere patibabu mode is the marriage annulment which is actually the doing of her own pati babu. I just hope makers don’t forget that it was Anirudh only who filed the petition against child marriage so that he could separate his name from hers.

look the cursh feeling played out was something very awkward and was just for ani mano track, it was induced by society only,bon taught by her mom and kaka sasur belived in intution of marriage and thought why wife is expected same way anirudh is expected to care for her because she is her husband but due t our backlash ,they changed the script

Originally posted by: Indira12

@Bold - You maybe right. Kids do learning from surroundings and exposure. Now that I read it, even I feel the same. How to actually name it? Cause crush do makes you think about the person daylong. But the time-age of a crush develops around 13-15 years where teens may/may not be aware of the romantic part. Is it? I don't know. Mai jab uss umar ki thi, tab aisa kuch bhi nahi hua 🤪so I am not aware. But I am not generalizing it. It varies from person to person. Did she really started living the illusion and got confused between 'patni-dharm' and actual feelings? Or was she really crushing upon Ani? Why did makers made it like that? 😡 Either show Bon naturally crushing over Ani or just show an induced one. Why show both and create so much confusion?

Might be if someone makes her understand that Ani felt the exact same way for Mini/Mano as she felt for Ani? Would that work? Yaar, she is so into 'mere patibabu mere hi hai', 'mai hi hu unki patni' that even this won't work I guess. Sometimes I want to shake that girl out her dreamland and make her see the reality. Her character is not dwelled upon I feel because they are busy in dwelling on Ani's one. Cause that's why , as I said, if going by this way she is having growth mentally, but on Ani's actions she acts as the previous old Bon which is not possible. Why can't they have a balance?

It did became awkward for Aurrisht, especially Aurra. Instead of showing this beautiful phase as a really beautiful one, all they focused on making it appear like a sin and made a mess difficult to escape from.

@bold 1: I do resonate what you said, even I never felt, instead I was discussing with friends about children comics around that age. The same reason why I always felt confused when in movies pre teen classmates are shown as childhood lovers. Here, we cant even say generation gap, Bon lived a century ago. But yes the mental development and the stages are strictly different with individuals.

All I feel is in the early teens there might be some consciousness about the existence of this feelings which is different from just friends type feeling, no matter they actually feel it or not. Instances: Bon was conscious when kaka taunted kya jodi hai? She was perplexed and looked Ani for assurance when the village women went gaga over his pyar for patni

Bold 2: This is what I was always confused about how will there dynamics be now? A shift in dynamics was shown post HM. But how will they show it or even revert to previous stage now. Is annulment carefully crafted to avoid this, because her emotion if true or inspired or induced was patni centric (Makers itna kyun sochega,only I am thinking).

@ UL: I doubt because in that era, where women was strictly confined to house hold, not just for Bon but for all women, 'love' would have been after marriage concept(like Surav-Sampoorna ).They will be forced to accept how her husband treat her is the expression of love (strictly my pov). Forget about love, even friendship btw opposite genders might be an alien concept. 'Mini was clearly having an advantage in this, and was mentioned in different occasions'.

Originally posted by: faja

@bold 1: I do resonate what you said, even I never felt, instead I was discussing with friends about children comics around that age. The same reason why I always felt confused when in movies pre teen classmates are shown as childhood lovers. Here, we cant even say generation gap, Bon lived a century ago. But yes the mental development and the stages are strictly different with individuals.

All I feel is in the early teens there might be some consciousness about the existence of this feelings which is different from just friends type feeling, no matter they actually feel it or not. Instances: Bon was conscious when kaka taunted kya jodi hai? She was perplexed and looked Ani for assurance when the village women went gaga over his pyar for patni

Bold 2: This is what I was always confused about how will there dynamics be now? A shift in dynamics was shown post HM. But how will they show it or even revert to previous stage now. Is annulment carefully crafted to avoid this, because her emotion if true or inspired or induced was patni centric (Makers itna kyun sochega,only I am thinking).

@ UL: I doubt because in that era, where women was strictly confined to house hold, not just for Bon but for all women, 'love' would have been after marriage concept(like Surav-Sampoorna ).They will be forced to accept how her husband treat her is the expression of love (strictly my pov). Forget about love, even friendship btw opposite genders might be an alien concept. 'Mini was clearly having an advantage in this, and was mentioned in different occasions'.

ofcourse mini and ani are different ,what bon in order to bring a change needs to learn later on love is something those other relationships dont have ,those village girls are not educated and given voice of theoir own to realise feelings of love, to even feel love for someone after being married when they are in youthful age, bon has to learn friendship and unconditonal care between opposite genders , even love came with expectations of marriage which society was inducing in a small girl to make her like other women ,it was wifely centric as after gettin educated,coming of age ,girls would try to embrace feeling of love and ask for their rights which was reason girls were neither educated and child marriage was done.one f the reason and men wereallowed to amrry another time bacause they have audacity to fall in love,get attracted and emotions which they wanted to show with ani forgetting his wife is a child bride in this situaton despite of being a feirece,sefless individual

bon if after annulment learns this in later stage and can only feel love for ani on growing up and choose him not right now,for her he is her uncondtional support,only person caring for her,supporting her,giving and embracing her happiness when seh faced injsutice and scolding from mama,mami but all if this is hidden under name of marriage

ofcourse mini and ani are different ,what bon in order to bring a change needs to learn later on love is something those other relationships dont have ,those village girls are not educated and given voice of theoir own to realise feelings of love, to even feel love for someone after being married when they are in youthful age, bon has to learn friendship and unconditonal care between opposite genders , even love came with expectations of marriage which society was inducing in a small girl to make her like other women ,it was wifely centric as after gettin educated,coming of age ,girls would try to embrace feeling of love and ask for their rights which was reason girls were neither educated and child marriage was done.one f the reason and men wereallowed to amrry another time bacause they have audacity to fall in love,get attracted and emotions which they wanted to show with ani forgetting his wife is a child bride in this situaton despite of being a feirece,sefless individual

bon if after annulment learns this in later stage and can only feel love for ani on growing up and choose him not right now,for her he is her uncondtional support,only person caring for her,supporting her,giving and embracing her happiness when seh faced injsutice and scolding from mama,mami but all if this is hidden under name of marriage

for mini , they were family friends and she was a rich girl given liberty and pamperedness, they were destined so this idea of love was instilled from childhood