Ab jo hoga, woh saath mein hoga - Page 9

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Heck +1 to all of this.. malini has never done anything for adi or any adjustments it has always been a pander to my needs exercise make me feel special.. she likes to beleive she has done a lot when in reality ghanta kuch kia hai isne. It is made in her head ke she made adjustments caz room chota hain she gets to live with a family etc etc all the things her mom repeats when wasn't she the one who said she craved those things and heck agar adi ka room chota hai toh phir hum jaise am log toh shayad chuhe ke bill main hi reh rahe hain.. I mean by any middle class standards the avg normal room size is quite smaller than adi ka grand room but that's not the point here.

The point is she has never actually done things for adi caz he wanted or expected them too she did them for the attention to make sure everyone claps for her and she gets the best bahu best beti/wife title that is whatever little she does like kuch special paka dia imlie se sweet ban gaye. Nothing comes without a motive of garnering praise by all and esp adi

Yeah, she has twisted up the reality in her head in many ways in her need to feel attached to someone she thought can pamper her. Again, it's odd cuz I don't think Adi ne kuch khaas apni marzi se itna pamper kiya isko. Seeing her current tendencies, I am now more inclined to believe ki every date, every gift, every "romantic" gesture Malini ne maang maang ke liye hain Adi se😆.....and then they both just fell into a pattern/cycle that they repeated on auto-pilot😆.

I just find it hard to believe ki Adi khud se itna soch sakta hai dates plan karna wagairah for Malini😆....she wanted to feel pampered so she probably had her ways of jataaoing to him directly/indirectly ki mujhe special feel karaao😆....toh yeh dhakke se kar leta tha jo bhi manage karke.....lol agar apni khushi/marzi se kar raha hota toh he wouldn't need to be pressed/guilted into doing it....but to me now it feels more than ever that Malini had to guilt trip him even into PAMPERING her😆....aur jo pampering guilt trip se mile, uska koi matlab nahin hota, Malini didi.

This is part of why Imlie ko ummeed se bahut zyada mil raha hai....cuz usne kabhi koi demand, kabhi koi guilt trip nahin rakhi ki mujhe special feel karvaao, mujhe pamper karo....yet Adi goes the extra mile to do special things for her....cuz she is special to him like no one else ever was....her specialness is inherent....dikhaane ke liye nahin hai ki dekho main khaas hoon, ab mujhe dikhaao ki main kitni khaas hoon😆.....which is what seems to be Malini's way of doing things. This is why Adi is doing grand gestures for Imlie, not Malini....and btw those gestures are basically simple only but they feel grand/intense with Imlie cuz they come from a more genuine place....unlike with Malini where they were extracted in guilt, so they felt superficial.

Mujhe yeh bhi funny lagta hai ki itne time tak Adi kept saying that he feels there is zabardasti for him in the case of Imlie, ki Imlie ke case mein things are forced out of him.....lol but all this while it's turned out it was actually in Malini's case that gestures were being forced out of him that he didn't even realize cuz Malini had such an effective way of coating it all in pouting and guilt trips😆. While with Imlie, ab pehli baar zindagi mein woh khul ke apni ACTUAL marzi se sab kar raha hai.....so what he thought was zabardasti has actually turned out to be his true marzi. 😊

Originally posted by: sunnygrin

Nice and fun analysis AY. Lots of nice moments but compared to the week before the Adilie romance seems a bit toned down and Adi seems toooo serious. What happened? And Doesn’t anyone think the whole thing with her results, him gifting sindoor and her wearing it so boldly is happening tooooooo fast? There was so much potential to pull it along for longer. I personally would have loved to see the hidden romance keenchofied a bit more and him to be in a spot for a bit longer. Why is it happening so fast? Am worried if they have plans to wind up early. If anyone has seen the original Bengali version - is this on pace with that? Then it’s okay because that ran on for 1000 episodes 😄

I hope we are not having every thing out in the open and now a flood of unhappiness following that declaration so soon😐

I actually don't watch the show to gauge how much Adilie "romance" will happen in any given week, so I guess it's all working out nicely for me😆.

Adi has always been a very serious and intense guy. To expect typical romance from him like other ITV MLs would be a folly to begin with😆.....so if that's the expectation with which folks are tuning into this, what can I say *shrugs*😆

Nothing feels fast to me....I'm enjoying whatever we are getting so far.

Originally posted by: Krantikari

That was an act of charity...a habit of upper class log.😆

Eggjactly😆....Didi is showing ki upper class log "benevolence" mein kaise charity karte hain for poor village people....especially those jinko "ummeed se zyada mil jaata hai"😆.....

Ab apni "muh boli behen" ke liye charity nahin karegi toh kiske liye karegi, Malini didi? 😛

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Haye...Itne saare posts ho bhi gaye? Mera number to bahut picche aayega😆

Some brilliant takes have been put up by you guys!! wonder how you capture such nuances👏

My few observations:

Yesterday, I was rambling about changes in BS...But then you see Imli flower into a woman today. The confident eye stare that she gives to her man...When he asks about the changed hairstyle and goes all coy and at the same time confident that he is going to like what she was gonna show and say!! Love matures a woman like nothing else!

The thing I like about Adi's character is his passion. towards his work. Even without the love angle...Imlie's story was to be covered by him. His unconventional look towards everything will have made him hanker for the story and this is what Didi doesnt understand. it was not Imlie per se....It was the story behind the story that would have pulled Adi in and this is what Didi has not been able to grasp in 7 years!!!

And what Gajini is she...on one hand she accuses Adi that he is cancelling their Date because of Imlie and on the other hand she tells Imlie "it is not because of you"😳 Behen,,,Decide kar le...

And to top of it all ...she compares her one date break to Imlie's life achievement😡 Tumhare liye ummeedon se badhkar din tha aur humari ummedien tootne ka din tha!! Arey yaar!😵 tumhein to CV ne nahi bataya ne ki Tumhara pati tumhara nahi raha...to kyun dimaag ka dahi kar rahi hoshe has worked all her life for this day and you are comparing it with one stupid cancellation of date which could have been the case with or without Imlie in picture🤢

Oh God...again I started on my Didi rant!

Back to BS....the basic component which makes Adi...his passion towards his work, his story....like he said in PD...Story lene aaye hai...story leke jayenge(IT is a different thing that he came out with a Dulhaniya as well) The way he explains it all to Malini...

And the way he accepts that Imlie can do it alone...but HE needs to be there...and he will be there ALWAYS...Its so awesomely conceptualized...the man doesnot have one iota of ego in saying that his woman may or may not need him...but HE needs to be there....It is HIS need...not hers...and he is damn proud of the fact!!! *sigh* where do you get another one like this....

It is always these abilities of his that pulls you in...The way he himself doesnot NEED anyone...atleast till now he hasnt!! The way he always put his job first but today he put the very same job on hold for the passion that he holds so dear! In one moment he snatches what he considers to be his eternal right...but then it is not only his right but his promise!

The promise we see him fulfilling instead of the one Imlie wanted him to be doing .....To fulfill the first promise he made...he breaks away the second one....so righteously and without one second thought!

Babu sahib! You just made my day!!⭐️

Haha Srush, yahaan pe time ka jhol hai, kya karein......I think we all show up at different times so jo jitna bol paata hai utne mein, woh bol ke nikal leta hai😆

But please feel free to to post your thoughts whenever possible....always enjoy reading them :)

Lovely observations on this epi too....+1 to everything you said....the subtle shifts in Imlie as she basks in the confidence of knowing his feelings for her, but then the coyness is still there too....badaa hi unique dynamic they share. Adi has always been super passionate....anyone who saw his passion for his work could see it but they all made the mistake of presuming that's where it ends....lol that he only has passion for work and nothing else in his life.....they are now discovering that no one else had the capacity to unlock passion in him before Imlie.

@bold blue: My fav. part today no doubt....just the way he worded that was....for all his MANY faults😆, it is with this soch that he manages to win us over.....that he is not staking claim on Imlie like an acquisition....the way he accepts that she can face any problems life throws her way but HE wants to be there with her regardless...it is HIS need to want to support her rather than be some cliched knight in shining armor trying to coddle her.....the way he fights for and envisions Imlie finding independence in her life....he never imagines her as being dependent on him or anyone even if he is her husband....he just wants to be a PARTNER to her....yes there is the haq, heck the PRIVILEGE of being her husband that he does want and yearn for....but he also doesn't want that to define her....he wants her dreams to take flight....and he's not asking to handhold her through it....but he does want to hold her hand in support as she walks the path to her potential. :)

As for promises....lol yes, if Malini really wants to get technical, he made the promise to Imlie regarding that interview even before he made any promises to Malini at their wedding....and Adi is determined that promises made to Imlie will now take precedence over all else.

Originally posted by: SelctivMumbaite

AY, really love reading ur analysis... :-)

Boss-Adi scene was hilarious as u mentioned...in fact I was lol while reading ur analysis ..so much that my MIL have me a weird look wondering what I was laughing while reading text ...must be wondering if I have lost it ...while being cooped up.in.house in lockdown 2.0

🤣

Also v lovely Adilie scene...that's what got me hooked to the serial in the first place....that and the way creatives have shown the progression of Adis feelings for Imlie..

Haha thank you....glad my analysis is helping you cope with the lockdown😆....Then I guess I can say there are extra benefits to these analyses beyond me just gushing to my heart's content😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Eggjactly😆....Didi is showing ki upper class log "benevolence" mein kaise charity karte hain for poor village people....especially those jinko "ummeed se zyada mil jaata hai"😆.....

Ab apni "muh boli behen" ke liye charity nahin karegi toh kiske liye karegi, Malini didi? 😛

I also felt that Malini is a person who cannot handle unhappiness or disappointment so that saree. So now that saree became a symbol unhappiness and disappointment. Hence she wanted to give it away. Plus anytime Aditya give Imlie more importance than Malini, she lashes out at Imlie. She did the same during Pooja and she did the same now but this time it was the “Mithi shuri” mode. She taunted imlie, she made her feel guilty but in the end came out as benevolent doner who is Ok with being hurt and disappointed by her husband as his work is more important 😛

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Why though? It actually makes sense especially after the sindoor scene. Considering at what point they seem to be making Malini do these things. Imlie’s behen prem is blinding her but humare liye Malini’s characteristic ko dekha jaaye toh clear kar rahen hain.

@BOLd: satyavachan!

Malini's act of giving a saree to Imlie, to whitewash her, make her mahan, to prove how understanding she is would all have been taken with a pinch of whatever...but what was the intent of giving a saree that she was wearing 10 mins ago..There was nothing special in that saree and neither did Imlie say she would love to have a saree like that. it was close to being disrespectful. So yes I was mad at Malini ofcourse and for the fact that Imlie took that saree and wore it...!

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Iss mein bhi cooler competition ho jaaye?😛 I'm in the sindoor stays camp.😆

Main predictions nahi karne wali.😆 I'm just going to pray to Sita Maiyya that she does not call Pari her husband... Waise there is pic of Pari with dirty clothes...😆

well our prediction are always gone on a toss but I think Aditya might step up based on his “ jo hoga saath hoga” statement but no names will be taken.

Imlie will just describe him as someone who is here, who is always with her and she is where she is because of her subarachnoid. PD people will think that she is talking about Aditya and T’s will think she is talking about an unknown person. But let’s see googly the makers give us.

Irrespective, the sindoor will stay I think 😊

Originally posted by: pamk06

well our prediction are always gone on a toss but I think Aditya might step up based on his “ jo hoga saath hoga” statement but no names will be taken.

Imlie will just describe him as someone who is here, who is always with her and she is where she is because of her subarachnoid. PD people will think that she is talking about Aditya and T’s will think she is talking about an unknown person. But let’s see googly the makers give us.

Irrespective, the sindoor will stay I think 😊

Sorry for ghusoing,...I dont think she is going to say Pari or Adi...

She might even say she has married her studies...*ducks and runs away*

My guess - she would say she is married to her ambition. It is her commitment to become an officer and save her uncle