Will you return to Virat's life if you were Sai? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Roch

Arey yaar, ye Virat v/s Sai kyun hi jaata hain sab kuch.

I am not in favour of Virat's behaviour, absolute trash basis what i have read about the episode, not watching as of now.

We know Sai is right, she has done the right thing and knows Pulkit is a good guy. So its okay we as viewers to side with Sai.

But a neutral person, Virat does not know anything. For him Pulkit is a fraud and his wife got his sister married to a fraud. Now what am i supposed to do. Plus in his family majority of people have schemed and planned again Sai, he does not know that. For him everything has been planned by Sai.

Tomorrow you come to know your sister is married to fraudster, how will you react.

Now the question why does he support Pakhi, because his thought process matches Pakhi's and hence he lands up agreeing to her.

His words are very Harsh, but his heart is at the right place.

The only reason he connects with Sai, is because he has a very good heart and he is a good human being. In anger no one things straight, and does things sometimes you cant even apologize for. This happens between Parents and Children as well, its what you do later about it that matters. Thats how relationship works.

Lets see how he redeems himself, the only reason Sai would come back to him is his heart, which was at the right place.

Not supporting Virat but for me this has always been Sairat and not Sai Virat. 😊

It is not Virat vs Sai for me. Is it fair is the point.

I am not talking as an audience.

@bold I agree, but does that mean he will not open the door for her? Will turn her out of the house? Will ask Usha Maushi to leave?

Even if my sister was married off to a fraudster, by my spouse like this, I wouldn't turn my spouse out of the house. I would have taken actions to part ways, not this. Let anyone instigate him, this is not how he should have behaved.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Hey Sorry to hear about that and much much love to both of you.❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗

Arre, thank you so much for this🤗

Par zindagi hai, aage badhna hi hai❤️

Ekdum dabangg style mein😆

Originally posted by: Roch

Hands down, i agree wrong behaviour on his part and there is no excuse for his anger. I cant even say that just because he was hurt he behaved this way nope. Your hurt was gloated by your family and best friend.

If you only talk about him, i would have slapped him for stopping Mohit and behaving rudely with Usha Maushi and his own mother, His behaviour was absolutely unacceptable.

Also for this behaviour there is no redemption what so ever, lets see what the CV's show. Sai is not someone who would take everything hands down and she gives it back and at times even she has been rude which is needed. And its needed now even more and she should go back to him with Fierce.

Leaving that house should be her decision and not his, currently he is behaving like an MCP. (There i said it)🤣

He is behaving like a MCP right now. He is police officer ,knows laws. He should know that a husband cannot throw his wife out of the house, even if he is the only earning member of the house. The house is as much as Sai's as it is his or Kaku's. He is patriarchal , when he doesn't lets his aai also to decide if sai can stay back or not. Aai has been staying in that house, working like a maid for so many years and she cant let Sai in the house or feed her .. 👏👏

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He is behaving like a MCP right now. He is police officer ,knows laws. He should know that a husband cannot throw his wife out of the house, even if he is the only earning member of the house. The house is as much as Sai's as it is his or Kaku's. He is patriarchal , when he doesn't lets his aai also to decide if sai can stay back or not. Aai has been staying in that house, working like a maid for so many years and she cant let Sai in the house of feed her .. 👏👏

Why does Virat think that the husband has all the rights whereas the wife has none and she can be thrown out like a piece of furniture if the husband or the in laws get mad?

It's really strange how Virat overrules his mother all the time, does he think he is superior to the woman who gave birth to him?

Ashwini should have taken out her chappal and let Virat know who is in charge here..

@cheeku Sorry for what you went through. Brave of you to talk about it.

Sai knows he has been misled. That's why she kept pleading with him desperately during the wedding tamasha, Ayesha brought that out beautifully. She knows him actually more than anybody else except Aai. She knows he is going to be shattered when the knows the truth. She also knew he was very angry and since she has been the recipient once before, she knows the extent...Virat 1?

However, she has her self respect and what I am happy about is she stands up for it. While she knows he will repent, her trust in him will be shaken because of the extremes he is going to go, in his misplaced anger.

Unlike other serials, she will probably hold out a bit longer. She will not go through the Agni Pariksha . Agreeing to burn herself to prove her innocence. This is what happens in other serials. The FL goes to prove and comes out victorious when she brings proof of whatever.

Here, the onus is on him to find out the truth. She's going to walk out with her head held high, secure in the fact that she has helped Devi.

Does it befit a police officer to behave like this? No. But in real life, does it happen? yes. I heard of a shocking incident pertaining to a suave, polished Minister. During some scandal, it was actually discovered, he was a wife beater and his wife used to tremble in front of him!! All his party workers knew.

And no, to answer your question, I would not return in real life. But again, this is fiction, that too a daily soap, if they don't get back together, there's no story!! I will accept it with a sackful of salt.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He is behaving like a MCP right now. He is police officer ,knows laws. He should know that a husband cannot throw his wife out of the house, even if he is the only earning member of the house. The house is as much as Sai's as it is his or Kaku's. He is patriarchal , when he doesn't lets his aai also to decide if sai can stay back or not. Aai has been staying in that house, working like a maid for so many years and she cant let Sai in the house of feed her .. 👏👏

@bold: I am not very sure about this. He listens and believes to whatever Pakhi or Bhavani says or advises. Virat's values there opinion but he doesn't vaule his Aai or his wife's opinion.

I think the best thing for virat to do is to listen to ashwini and shivani. They were logically correct. Just listen to her side of the story once.

At the moment we may feel that virat can't be redeemed but he will..Sai will also forgive him. With time the scars go away.. Sai is also at fault , she is doing the right things in the most horrible manner and that too , without any proofs. So when both the parties r at fault , both will step back and understand what mistakes they did. I can't just erase everything and look at it in isolation.. if I were in Sai's place I would have never done what she did. I would have taken my husband in the loop . If after knowing the truth he sides with his parents then there is no question of staying there.

Originally posted by: StoicPrince

Why does Virat think that the husband has all the rights whereas the wife has none and she can be thrown out like a piece of furniture if the husband or the in laws get mad?

It's really strange how Virat overrules his mother all the time, does he think he is superior to the woman who gave birth to him?

Ashwini should really let him know who is charge here.

Ashwini should have slapped him hard when he disrespected Usha Maushi.. Thats what my mother would have done if I talk an elder who I call Maushi like that... I really want to see how Ashwini treats him when the complete truth is out. I felt so bad for Ashwini when she was pleading Kaku that she was not with Sai in this, when Kaku suddenly started blaming her and it looked like Virat agrees to kaku..So sad for the mother in her who has had just good to think for that son of hers..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Ashwini should have slapped him hard when he disrespected Usha Maushi.. Thats what my mother would have done if I talk an elder who I call Maushi like that... I really want to see how Ashwini treats him when the complete truth is out. I felt so bad for Ashwini when she was pleading Kaku that she was not with Sai in this, when Kaku suddenly started blaming her and it looked like Virat agrees to kaku..So sad for the mother in her who has had just good to think for that son of hers..

Sai has hurt Aai too but is not having trust or faith on Sai?

Obviously a big and clear No but yes! I won't even have indulged in the matter only! It's a deal marriage, and according to the deal he's giving me a security until I became something in my life. So it's not my responsibility to poke nose into his family matters and they also can't expect anything else from me.

Infact on the first hand, I wouldn't have gotten married. Either I would have applied for students loan and being a topper I would get scholarships too, and many girls actually lives in a big city without any security after completing their high school actually or my father would have entrusted a person whom he knew for years like Kale or Milind, not some Virat whom he knew for 11 months in a training academy and some 2 months in GC. (And more absurd, Imon's father knew Rono for 2 months in Sundarpur only)

So, if we think by our thought process, it actually differs than a CVS thoughts for his characters.

As for Sai, she should not return any how but also depends on how Virat repents for his Sins and change his behaviour, she should apply for legal separation and since according to procedure, they have to live for 6 months, if in these months, he doesn't change his behaviour, and have a toxic anger issue, she should go for the final divorce