Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 14. - Page 15

Originally posted by: sukri

No, he gave the rights, but he didn't think through.

As a male, he doesnt see that there is a gender bias at his home, and he unknowingly follows that..

She had to constantly fight for her freedom.

Even to go to Professor house, he refused to let her go.

Alta episode, he would have forced them to apply alta.

Didn't want to let her dance in college due to jealousy

And list goes on.

He thinks he gave her the freedom, but she had to always fight at every step for it.

Bold : it was she who instigated him with his double meaning dialogue " aapko kisne kaha mein padhayi ke liye ja rahi hoon , Sunday ko male professor ke ghar , akele or reason bhi nhi batana , virat never had problem of her going out .

Then if some thing happen to her then blame virat

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Aww ☺️

Okay so how will Virat ? What should Virat say when he apologises to Sai ? That will redeeem him , I know it’s a long process but what would be a good start

Thoughts??

Dilli door hain.

Abhi se woh discuss kar liya toh next weekend kya karenge.🤣

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Bold : it was she who instigated him with his double meaning dialogue " aapko kisne kaha mein padhayi ke liye ja rahi hoon , Sunday ko male professor ke ghar , akele or reason bhi nhi batana , virat never had problem of her going out .

Then if some thing happen to her then blame virat

It doesn’t matter who is instigating whom. He cannot manhandle his wife or any woman for that matter. Period.

I have a question: Why is Virat so eager to punish Sai for the wrong she has done to his ill sister (she did make a mistake) but turns blind eye to all the wrong things done to Devi by the family?? Why’s he so partial towards to Sai?? She’s his family too after all so why not give her the same benefit of doubt instead of running to punishment when she does something wrong.

I’m not excusing what Sai has done here but I just want to understand why’s Virat like this towards his wife.

Could it be that he’s close to her (although neither of them admits to this) and gets very emotional when he gets upset whereas he doesn’t think much about his family or doesn’t hold them in the same regards as his wife. I’m confused, I don’t know what to make out his reaction to his wife’s wrong doings. They seem very extreme to me.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

A verbal apology from Virat is not going to be enough to redeem him this time.

I am not talking about Virat, talking in general, in real life ad well.

Verbal apology is not enough many times, in many situations. I always believe thay a person need not always apologise verbally, their actions should show their apology. One should be able to see a regret in a person.

One's gesture too sometimes speaks for itself.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Bold : it was she who instigated him with his double meaning dialogue " aapko kisne kaha mein padhayi ke liye ja rahi hoon , Sunday ko male professor ke ghar , akele or reason bhi nhi batana , virat never had problem of her going out .

Then if some thing happen to her then blame virat

Why will anyone blame Virat if something happens to her due to her own decision?

There was no double meaning dialogue, she was like why are you assuming I am going to study? What's double meaning in that?

Wahan Pakhi tells him that she wants to keep his cloths in same suitcase as her and go on a trip without his wife, wahan double.meaning nahi dhikta usko.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

It doesn’t matter who is instigating whom. He cannot manhandle his wife or any woman for that matter. Period.

Yes virat was wrong in manhandaling & food denying but sai joshi ki har batmeezi or instigation ko azaadi ka naam bhi nhi diya ha sakta period.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Bold : it was she who instigated him with his double meaning dialogue " aapko kisne kaha mein padhayi ke liye ja rahi hoon , Sunday ko male professor ke ghar , akele or reason bhi nhi batana , virat never had problem of her going out .

Then if some thing happen to her then blame virat

I agree that in thar incident, it was his concern that was stopping her. Ghar mein generally aise hi hota hai. Just that, the way they had all instigated him mainly made him loose his cool. Even if Sai had not spoken what you have mentioned, he gets easily manipulated at situations like this and we can't deny that.

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

I have a question: Why is Virat so eager to punish Sai for the wrong she has done to his ill sister (she did make a mistake) but turns blind eye to all the wrong things done to Devi by the family?? Why’s he so partial towards to Sai?? She’s his family too after all so why not give her the same benefit of doubt instead of running to punishment when she does something wrong.

I’m not excusing what Sai has done here but I just want to understand why’s Virat like this towards his wife.

Could it be that he’s close to her (although neither of them admits to this) and gets very emotional when he gets upset whereas he doesn’t think much about his family or doesn’t hold them in the same regards as his wife. I’m confused, I don’t know what to make out his reaction to his wife’s wrong doings. They seem very extreme to me.

More than Devi, I feel that his anger is about Sai ne Pulkit ke liye fight kiya against him (he doesnt see it for Devi yet).

Toh his fight is mainly because she didn't listen to him and do per his wishes and that while he was all lattu over her during Holi, she was not even thinking about him.

Originally posted by: sukri

Why will anyone blame Virat if something happens to her due to her own decision?

There was no double meaning dialogue, she was like why are you assuming I am going to study? What's double meaning in that?

Wahan Pakhi tells him that she wants to keep his cloths in same suitcase as her and go on a trip without his wife, wahan double.meaning nahi dhikta usko.

Agar padhayi karne nhi ja rahi to kyu ja rahi ho ? Infact she said she compared this to virat going to police station equal to she going without telling out.

Regarding pakhi's clothes thing before he could say anything sai spoke up