The two-faced guilt trap - Page 9

Originally posted by: _Seera_

after reading the whole thread i was nt sure where to start...

Aditya - Well I am confused by whatever he is doing. Sitting and eating with IM will not give her status.. it will only make her target... he should know better... he should do better... if you have guts to get up and go from dinning table and eat food by sitting on floor then have guts to tell the truth to everyone.

His behavior also stems from insecurity of loosing IM but dude.. see the manipulation happening in front of you. also if your relationship is done with malini then what was point of giving VACHAN to IM?? you are just running in circles with your guilt and dragging both Im and M with you... Also in precap he asks should i go ahead and live my life with Malini?? have you met imlie??? she will say go ahead and call me to baby shower for your wife.. i will do it... He is using techniques, that would have worked on Malini, on Imlie who is made of completely different Morals..

I think I ma done with my Rant here.. :D

@bold: 🤣I can totally imagine her saying that.

Now my turn to rant.

I rubbed my hands in glee with the Tripathis betting, then gave a "shabbas mere laal" to our hot head when he was nazar se teer maaroing at AC. Kya style mein, ek haath kursee ke peecche, bubble over his head reading, mein teri nautanki jaanta hoon, chudail mummy.

And then ...huh...?? - giving DC a pass for being laachaar and then the Malini-Aditya scene. I was like, arre 2 min ago you didn't give a rat's a** about Malini or her mom, wondered how come Malini was not as upset as you are about Imlie eating with the servants, but then Malini deals one blow below the belt and Adirya is unmanned. Kya? itna khaaya ke khoon dimmag se seedha pet mein gaya, khopdi khali ho gayi? temporary paralysis, khaane ke saath jabaan bhi kha gaya? He is f*ing looking away while his shaant, susheel Maliniji gives the poor child a piece of her mind.

And Malini.....if she is the divine goddess of peace and tolerance, dude are you blind or do you not see the claws, she is taking every swipe she can at Imlie today. I am thinking, ag bhavane, itna hi privacy chahiye to lock kar na darwajja, gyaan mat baant.

Okay, over. I really hope she comes close to quoting you when he asks her that question tomorrow. I myself will nazar utaro of imlie on my iPad in repeat. Shahani g majhi mulgi 🤗

I'm hurting so much for Imlie right now - that I could even bear to come to the forum. Adi turned out to be such a wimp...vachan or not - he wiped out every thing he expressed for imli so far with this one mind voice abt Malini and not taking a stand for imli. Does he remember he pleaded with Imli to come to his house?'

One thing I will say for Imli tho - when the priest sadi abt the 2 shadi thing - she could have kept quiet - i sensed from the precap - she was going to try and make the situation better for malini and she did just that. I felt it was not her business to comment at that point and she should have stayed quiet. If all this means we get an Imli who rejects Adi and keeps him at arms length - I am ok with this for a while.

Hated the last line of the precap - so Adi is asking Imlie what she wants and if she says forget me and go to Malini - he is now ready to settle down with Malini? Maybe I did not understand - that left an even worse taste in my mouth - it seemed to me -he was considering that option even tho it was not his preferred one. Lets see how it plays out tomorrow.

Yeh saas-bahu show nahi. Saas-damad show hai

Gashmeer blew it out of the park today yet again.

Malini was mean to Imlie and that was uncalled for. Hopefully mailini will continue this route because this is what will decemate the relationship.

My money is on imlie sacrificing as per precap. Imlie karegi didi jap. Adhi prob deserves it. Long journey babusahib before u get ur love for the mess u created.

Loved the tripati bit today. Everyone hating anu haha. Soon it will be both anu and malini. Dev is just useless. Ass of a father.

Ppak, I think asking her about settling with Malini is an emotional blackmail. But waise, kayko idhar ghar pe laaya na tu. Jaa us bacchi ko hostel mein rakhke aa. Phir subah Malini ki aarti kar, kaam pe jaa, shaam ko visiting hours mein tyaag ki murat, Malini ki bhakt, Imlie se mil, aur phir raat ko ghar pe uss shantata or sahansheelta ki devi ki waapis aarti kar, phir so ja. Kal repeat. Gadha kahin ka... aaj to majhi satakli rao.😡

Originally posted by: mltr16

@bold: 🤣I can totally imagine her saying that.

Now my turn to rant.

I rubbed my hands in glee with the Tripathis betting, then gave a "shabbas mere laal" to our hot head when he was nazar se teer maaroing at AC. Kya style mein, ek haath kursee ke peecche, bubble over his head reading, mein teri nautanki jaanta hoon, chudail mummy.

And then ...huh...?? - giving DC a pass for being laachaar and then the Malini-Aditya scene. I was like, arre 2 min ago you didn't give a rat's a** about Malini or her mom, wondered how come Malini was not as upset as you are about Imlie eating with the servants, but then Malini deals one blow below the belt and Adirya is unmanned. Kya? itna khaaya ke khoon dimmag se seedha pet mein gaya, khopdi khali ho gayi? temporary paralysis, khaane ke saath jabaan bhi kha gaya? He is f*ing looking away while his shaant, susheel Maliniji gives the poor child a piece of her mind.

And Malini.....if she is the divine goddess of peace and tolerance, dude are you blind or do you not see the claws, she is taking every swipe she can at Imlie today. I am thinking, ag bhavane, itna hi privacy chahiye to lock kar na darwajja, gyaan mat baant.

Okay, over. I really hope she comes close to quoting you when he asks her that question tomorrow. I myself will nazar utaro of imlie on my iPad in repeat. Shahani g majhi mulgi 🤗

Mala nahi mahiti.. when last time i read BHAVANE and laughed so hard...

She is a sorry soul... she is trying save her relationship.. but the way she is going about it is wrong... and BS is blinded by his guilt to see that his silence is changing or showing Malini's behavior..

This situation calls for exactly what he is thinking... hurt Malini once.. but deep enough for her to let go of her delusions..

It would be hilarious if she actually says that call me to arrange the baby shower :D

Mulgi shahani aahe pan bichaari aahe!

It was not even a hug yaaar🤣 That guy was stif as a stick. 😆 . I thought it was a real hug. His facial expression was same as when disi tried to hug him at night😆

Only thing is that he didn't respond to Malini's taunt.🥺

Snake skin started to peel off😈

First half was so good, 2nd half no words

Feeling so bad for my girl💔

What nonsense was adi asking to forget her and live with malini? Well, that was what he was doing all these while ago. Did he asked her the permission to marry malini?Sometimes i feel like punching adi.Imlie should question him, but that's not gonna happen.

Atleast i expect tomorrow there will be a follow up of the door scene and adi to scold malini, that fake aurat is getting on my nerves😡

Ok. I was not able to watch the episode as soon as it was released today which was a good thing because I got to adjust my expectations based on all reviews😆.

So, I think I will have to play devil’s advocate today for Aditya😲😈😆.

Adi took a stand for Imlie’s mistreatment as a servant at C house throughout the episode.

First at his own house, when he was instructing Imlie not to do any work at C house, not to try & give extra respect to AC, etc. Basically, he was telling her not to be her usual nice, selfless person towards AC because she doesn’t deserve it.

At C house as well when Imlie was not at the dining table & AC was trying to distract others with lets eat everyone, he understood that she had somehow done something to relegate Imlie to the servant status. So, he silently walked off from the dining table & went to eat with Imlie. He continued eating with Imlie despite Imlie as well as Malini’s protests. He even countered Malini that how she can’t be worried about how her mother continues to mistreat Imlie😡.

Then he wanted to tell off DC for keeping quiet while Imlie was mistreated but saw a man who was acting helpless about his situation. He understood that there is no use in saying anything to DC & creating more problems for Imlie. More on the lines of he doesn’t expect DC to take any stand for Imlie so why unnecessarily raise the issue & let Imlie be targeted by AC😆.

When Malini called him to talk, he was still standing up for Imlie initially. But then Malini threw a googly at him that she doesn’t want to talk about Imlie or her mom but about them as a couple. She then started all her emotional baiting that she misses them, he doesn’t even call her Moon now, avoids talking to her all the time. She asked him whether she had done something wrong for him to treat her like that. This is the point at which he guilt-tripped because in his mind Malini has not done anything at all due to which he has started behaving differently with her.

Malini is behaving as she always has. He is the one who had misunderstood himself & now that he understands what he wants, he has started behaving differently with her. He has completely stopped giving Malini any importance in his own life, she is irrelevant for him now. He only sees her as a collateral victim of the mistake he made by marrying her. So he felt bad & takes it as only his fault because for him it is not about her & everything is about him & Imlie.

So he still believes in the image that she has always projected as being a sensible, mature, responsible, loving woman. Her faults or anything doesn’t matter to him as long as they are not a problem for him & Imlie. Also he could not directly tell her the truth because of his vachan to Imlie, so he kept quite after telling her it is not her fault.

When Imlie suddenly entered the room, he broke off the hug from Malini immediately😆. When Malini scolded Imlie for doing work at C house, he again defended Imlie saying that she does the work because her mother asks her & she likes doing stuff for people whom she considers as her own. To which Malini quickly tries to appease him by telling Imlie not to do any more work even if asked.

Then Malini tells off Imlie for not knocking on the door of a couple’s room. This in general is nothing wrong. We know Malini was talking down to Imlie because of her own insecurity & Adi’s protectiveness for her but Adi didn’t. Imlie had an inkling of it because earlier also Malini had taunted her that since Imlie saved his life, Adi is only listening to her. So she understands the point Malini is making & apologises & then tells that she will not be coming in between anyone even unintentionally.

During this convo, Adi had turned his face because I believe he was getting angry at both Malini for scolding Imlie & at Imlie for trying to be selfless & indirectly reminding him of his vachan that she would not be the cause of Malini’s hurt. We were not shown what he was thinking as usual by the CVs because they like to bait us with his potential flips now. We have to wait & see how he behaves in tomorrow’s episode to get the clear picture. But I don’t think his guilt trip for Malini is going to last more than 2 mins because as per the BTS released he will be leaving from C house with Imlie alone after some discussion with AC & Malini.

Adi will continue to think of Malini as a victim until she starts actively hurting Imlie & creating problems for him & Imlie. Once he understands that, then all his guilt towards Malini will get evaporated & he will not tolerate any emotional crap from her😆.

Wow I can’t believe I defended Adi today🤣.

Nice review AY

Absolutely agree, only first half of the episode was watchable today.

I found the scene amusing where t- youngsters were betting on how long anu's drama will last? 😆 Apu scolded everyone like what is this behaviour? 🤔 But badke kaka alag hi level ke nautankibaaz hai, he bet Rs. 200 on it. I was like apu aunty ab daanto badke kaka ko bhi. 🤣

Then, adi entered with sadu/tension wala face. He was continuously thinking about imlie might get insulted again in C house today. Imlie was looking so cute but adi itni tension mein tha zyada react hi nhi kya. He looked lost. 🤔 Adi ne phir anu puran shuru kar di. He said to imlie that it is not important to touch sure sure's feet because she doesn't deserve respect. Phir kya malini chidi is baat pe. Lol dono kaise sabke samne tu tu main main kar rhe the. 😆

Then, pooja scene, adi was sitting with malini and doing pooja rituals. Imlie madam looked restless, then adi looked at her, She nodded and gave that look to him, like han karle karle pooja. It's alright. 🤔 Waise mujhe imlie ka samajh nhi ata, ek tarah she always say to adi tu malini ke saath reh then she behaves all sad when she sees him with malini. Like choose one side, either become mahaan or behave like his wife. She behave like both.

Then, pandit did prophecy that adi will have two wives. Adi and imlie's reaction was like sure sure. But imlie madam ne ulta pandit ko hi liar bna diya. hahahaha. Hamesha tapak padhti hai imlie beech mein, husband ko support karne. 😆 Dining table scene was funny, how adi was leaning to one side of the chair and staring at anu, kya scene tha woh. hahaha. He was angry at her for not letting imlie sit with them and eat the meal. Then the way he took off with shaking his head like enough of this elite drama of sure sure. 🤣

I loved how he sat on the floor and had the meal. aww. Adi didn't care how will malini or her family react, bs beth gya imlie ke saath khana khane. Sach mein yeh impulse mein kuch bhi kar sakta hai. 😛 Malini madam ke tantrums, jo log mere saath interested hain khana khane mein main unke saath hi khayungi. like what the hell. If you really love your husband, you should have eaten on the floor with him to feel equal like adi did with imlie to make her feel equal in their relationship. But nope, madam walked away. 🤢

I don't get this malini didi, last time when adi came to take her back, she said i should go back to t house to sort out the issues with him. But t house mein kuch nhi boli, ultimately apne ghar mein hi topic start kiya. Agar baat karni thi toh tabhi kar leti. That TC article spoiler came true. 😲This is the second time tc article sahi hua hai. I am surprised. 🤣 Malini didi ke i miss us, relationship poorane jaise ho jaye rants made me eye roll. She said she wanted to talk only but hugged adi. like what??? Arey baat karna, yeh hug kya kar rhi thi. Adi looked uncomfortable, he resisted but in the end out of sympathy kar diya hug. 🤔

Imlie entered the room, poor girl, kya sunanaya malini ne use. I hated her like imlie yahan kya t house mein bina knock kiye room mein mat ana. 🤪Badi ayi.😡 Adi looked lost again until he heard imlie saying i won't ever come between you two, never ever. I think adi realised at that moment, he f**ked up big time by hugging malini. 🤢

Kal mr. propose bhi marne wala hai imlie ko with balloons, flowers, teddy bears. lol 😆Aaj biwi no. 1 ne ise biwi no. 2 ko hug karte dekh liya, get ready to face another rejection adi. 🤣

Didi said he don't like recieving and giving gift.

But tomorrow he is 😆 going to propose Imlie with baloons teddy's gifts and all.

We should wait till tmrws epi before bashing Aditya🤣