NoOne Deserves a man like Aditya !! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Writer_Soul

From your post, I feel you are very critically assessing the characters who are supposed to be flawed.

Lying and cheating are two different terms. Aditya is Horribly wrong in lying to Malini.. If Malini was weak to hear the truth, he should have guts to confront about the situation with his or her families. That's where his major fault lies.

But Aditya hasn't cheated on Malini yet. His feelings have changed and he wants to come out with truth, but Imlie's guilt ridden promises are stopping him.

I have been watching this show for some time now.. These three central characters, none of them are evil, bad or immoral but messed up due to bad situations. Aditya is anything but a two timing cheater, he is just very stubborn and impulsive guy, who prefer to avoid rather then face the difficult situation head on. He has been a loner all his life, that shows in his blurred connect and confidence with his family, who are so chirpy people. Malini was first agreeable woman he met, who fits well in his check list of potential life partner, this was clearly seen since day 1. Right now, he needs to buck up and confront rather than stretching it by catering a teenager's insecurities.

As you said someday may be Aditya can leave Imlie like he stopped loving malini.. Well for that you need to watch show properly I feel. His feeling for Malini and Imlie are different. So its not like he stopped loving Malini and started loving Imlie all of the sudden. It is about connect, he connected Imlie since the day he met her, way more than he did with Malini in 7 years..

I do feel bad for Malini, but its not entirely Aditya's fault. Malini is a avoider too, who tries to avoid harsh truths, else she wouldn't have prolonged relationship with Aditya for 7 years. But that is due to her baggage.

For now, I dont feel there is True love , at least for now in either of characters, be it Imlie- Aditya or Malini and Aditya.

So bottom line, he doesn't have bad intentions. Aditya goes all out in supporting people he admires, earlier it was Malini, now its Imlie..

Adi has done wrong no one denies and he is facing consequences as well... Per two timing🤣 he is either completely Malini jaap and no Imlie OR Only Imlie and not Malini ...

Also bigamy ke liye .. Who is stopping Malini to find out truth and send him jail.. But i hope she first leaves her laziness and find out the truth..

Originally posted by: amaya01

I can understand as imlie was there and he was also his wife so he felt a connection with imlie but don't you think it was an injustice with Malini? That girl could've married to a better guy...

I just shared my opinion dear and glad you put yours in such sorted way too :)

In his own words half truth is a full lie. However what about not disclosing the facts at all and running away or postponing your decision to inform everyone. That is a crime and not justified at all. If Malini is fragile then bro your family isn't. Aditya has made his life Dilli Chaat, how can you single out each every ingredient when everything is mixed thoroughly. On the top of it, his behaviour turned overnight when Imlie decided to run away. Realisation dawned after he got married, lived with Imlie and then could decide between the love of his life and his wife.

Aditya is harming everyone in the process as he is genuine. Time is the essence and BS is just letting it go out of his hands

Cheaters have no regrets.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

In his own words half truth is a full lie. However what about not disclosing the facts at all and running away or postponing your decision to inform everyone. That is a crime and not justified at all. If Malini is fragile then bro your family isn't. Aditya has made his life Dilli Chaat, how can you single out each every ingredient when everything is mixed thoroughly. On the top of it, his behaviour turned overnight when Imlie decided to run away. Realisation dawned after he got married, lived with Imlie and then could decide between the love of his life and his wife.

Aditya is harming everyone in the process as he is genuine. Time is the essence and BS is just letting it go out of his hands

Cheaters have no regrets.

Imlie is also stopping him from telling the truth, when he tried to tell Nishant she stopped him.

So basically dono behno ne pagal kar diya BS ko.

😊

Thank you! I see where are you coming from. It's okay, this very conflict is the major selling point of the show. So its your prerogative, you wanna continue the show or not as not everything can appeal everyone's sensibilities.

Lack of connection is a very real thing, even in real life. I see Aditya and Imlie as sort of twin souls, who bonded since the time they met. Now thing about life is, you don't what you are missing until one day you are lucky enough to find that one thing. Same thing happened with Aditya. He was comfortable with Malini, as there was a convenience in relationship and of course he liked her very much, so all was good. It might have gone okay in future too, except few drama created my Malini's mom.

But Bam, Imlie happened. Aditya who has spent most of his life being a loner, who is unable laugh freely and rarely confide into anyone, Imlie came like a unpredictable breath of fresh air that threw him off his gaurds and made him realize that what was he missing all his life. Its very unfortunate for Malini no doubt, hence that's why she needs to get away and find her happiness..

Some times relationships turn into habits and that was the juncture Aditya- Malini's relationship had achieved. They liked the idea of their relationship, but once married, they were unable to sustain the changing tides. Now Aditya has realized Malini was just a habit, its time Malini realize this too, but its gonna be relatively very hard on her, since she is emotionally codependent out of two. So Aditya is not wrong in pursuing what he thinks his happiness as that feeling he doesn't wanna let go. I am sure he will confront Malini soon, as he is not someone who can string two women along like a smooth cheater.

Anupama and Viraj are whole another story but I cant discuss them in this forum. There dynamics and Imlie's are no where comparable.

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Imlie story is still unravelling. That's what I am waiting for too. For now, I don't want or see Aditya and Imlie be living like a happy couple any soon.. It's not true love yet for them. They have a long way to go.

Amaya ji, aapke sentiments ki respect karte hai par kripya ye jaan lijiye , is forum pe sab adilie ke deewane hai. To Malini ke liye sympathy hamse to expect nanhe kijiyega. Waise bhi didi itni annoying hai unke liye hamare dil se na he respect nikalti hai na he sympathy.😂😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Kaede

Amaya ji, aapke sentiments ki respect karte hai par kripya ye jaan lijiye , is forum pe sab adilie ke deewane hai. To Malini ke liye sympathy hamse to expect nanhe kijiyega. Waise bhi didi itni annoying hai unke liye hamare dil se na he respect nikalti hai na he sympathy.😂😂😂😂😂

I got you but believe me I am neither a fan of Malini nor a hater of imlie ...I am just a viewer who get irked seeing television promoting bigamy anyways this is my first and last post on this forum ....aap chahe apni didi Ko aadar de yaa naraadar aapki iccha🤗

Originally posted by: amaya01

I got you but believe me I am neither a fan of Malini nor a hater of imlie ...I am just a viewer who get irked seeing television promoting bigamy anyways this is my first and last post on this forum ....aap chahe apni didi Ko aadar de yaa naraadar aapki iccha🤗

Actually this show is just a remake of a really pathetic show called ishti kutum. Wo isse bhi bada kachra tha. Even storyline I don't care about , I only care about leads and their chemistry. Uske liye bigamy, ema etc kuch bhi dekh sakti hun.😈 Ab aap.muzhe evil samazh lo😂

Originally posted by: amaya01

You have penned down it really well !!

I agree with you ...characters here are not white or black ...they are grey or as you said "flawed"!

My problem is I just can't stand with the justification of " lack of connection" this is the same explanation vanraj gave to Anupama ( not comparing as both shows are not on the same page) I mean why you made the commitment if you couldn't even try to fulfil it ...just because imlie is there so it's easy for Aditya to switch as he has another option ...for me cheating is being with a woman/ man and thinking about another woman/ man that's why I used that word particularly for Aditya ...Also I don't get why our writers are hellbent in giving regressive storylines

I mean imlie is a talented , chirpy girl though she has been married to Aditya forcefully writer could hv shown her leading her life with pride..they should show a life is beyond "a forced marriage" also Malini should rise above this insecurities ...if a man doesn't want her in his life she should move on !! Anyways it was really nice to read your take ...I am not going to follow this show anymore but thanks for being supportive and explaining it this well 👍🏼

My take - this show has the best actors, dialogs and screen play on ITV right now. I f you can get beyond the plot - do watch - the quality of the show is is excellent and shows real grey people as opposed to imaginary over dressed perfect people or over dramatized villains. As you can see - we all love the show and are hooked. Not everyone likes everything - but just wanted to let you know - you will be the one to lose out on quality content - if you decide not to watch the show.

Originally posted by: Writer_Soul

Thank you! I see where are you coming from. It's okay, this very conflict is the major selling point of the show. So its your prerogative, you wanna continue the show or not as not everything can appeal everyone's sensibilities.

Lack of connection is a very real thing, even in real life. I see Aditya and Imlie as sort of twin souls, who bonded since the time they met. Now thing about life is, you don't what you are missing until one day you are lucky enough to find that one thing. Same thing happened with Aditya. He was comfortable with Malini, as there was a convenience in relationship and of course he liked her very much, so all was good. It might have gone okay in future too, except few drama created my Malini's mom.

But Bam, Imlie happened. Aditya who has spent most of his life being a loner, who is unable laugh freely and rarely confide into anyone, Imlie came like a unpredictable breath of fresh air that threw him off his gaurds and made him realize that what was he missing all his life. Its very unfortunate for Malini no doubt, hence that's why she needs to get away and find her happiness..

Some times relationships turn into habits and that was the juncture Aditya- Malini's relationship had achieved. They liked the idea of their relationship, but once married, they were unable to sustain the changing tides. Now Aditya has realized Malini was just a habit, its time Malini realize this too, but its gonna be relatively very hard on her, since she is emotionally codependent out of two. So Aditya is not wrong in pursuing what he thinks his happiness as that feeling he doesn't wanna let go. I am sure he will confront Malini soon, as he is not someone who can string two women along like a smooth cheater.

Anupama and Viraj are whole another story but I cant discuss them in this forum. There dynamics and Imlie's are no where comparable.

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Imlie story is still unravelling. That's what I am waiting for too. For now, I don't want or see Aditya and Imlie be living like a happy couple any soon.. It's not true love yet for them. They have a long way to go.

Lack of connection is real thing and scary too now imagine if every man or woman starts giving this explanation and leaving his/ her partner respectively .We live in male dominating world where in a relationship a woman depends on man financially and we know how much remarriage is difficult in our society so breaking ties just because you no longer feel connected with your partner or feels more lively with some one else is not acceptable ..

Marriage is not about getting the best one ...it's about finding best in the one you have chosen for you . Aditya leaving Malini just because now he feels more lively with Imlie is not a " pursuit of happiness" this is selfishness....we can't normalise it . Divorce is welcomed if the separation is mutual or if one gets married to an abuser.

Anyways that's just my views not want to spread any hate campaign against Imlie or Aditya after all it is just a show ...sorry if I hurt the sentiments of any of you ❤️