Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 96

Originally posted by: NoraSM

A good episode

Only if Bon understands how things she has earned in last few months be it Kaka's love and admiration, trusting her with keys (which is a bit stupid considering it didn't take Sampoorna a lot to misplace a few keys), are transferable.

In one day, Manorama earned everything by virtue of being old enough to understand responsibility of marriage and family

Manorama and Bon's life and duties as Bahu are disposable, they aren't really required, tomorrow Ani can marry one more woman and Kaka will accept her too

This is why Ani wants Bon to earn something which can't be taken away from her, Bon's identity, her education, her knowledge and Same goes for Manorama, Anyone can do Pooja and cook but not everyone can put her life at risk for her country

I liked Ani saying Bon should focus on her education and Manorama should focus on her mission

The difference between treatment of men and women is that none expects Ani to be a good husband or son, but Bon has to be an ideal wife who can do everything. Study and handle responsibilities of her house

Correct and mano won kaka becuase she is old and mature and he easily forgot how at such a. Young age bon did all these things sand suffered a lot of pain due to ani and kaka impulsiveness and expectations he moulded her like this and today she became bad ,bon is feeling all this as she invested her selfless love and devotion to this family ,right now she is in teen and such a vulnerable situation where emotionally hurt and so painful and due to her lack of emotional maturity she is unable to make people understand her pain and how she is against polygamy but people want her to accept it

I so want someone come and tell kaka ur son married his age wife when his first wife is a child and teen and does not have knowledge of sautan,wife relations and what if she comes in that age of loving someone or getting t attracted to someone goodness ,will she be Adarsh

I want this phase in bon life

Originally posted by: faja

cant agree more that blushing smile on Ani's face although for a split second was spot on..for a moment they both seemed to forget its a play and then back on track in the next second..😂

Regarding Manorma and her proud lines.. Haven't you all felt the characterization of Manorama itself is a paradox..a total contradiction for the then society.

Her family is not like Mini who educated her (no doubt this is kaka's correspondence and that was Binoy's), still she doe snot know basic pooja paad and cooking skills, which was mandatory for women of that age and era. she might be a focused women still hail from a normal conservative family. For Bonditha being kid she doesnot know all was fine. But it looked forced on Manorama , a forceful scene to make her look incapable in front of Bondita. God knows how and from whereshe got inspirations and made connections to become krantikari and managed her missions by being away from her house. No dots are getting connected

Yes, you said it absolutely right!

Like if she really comes from an orthodox family who did not allow her to read and write, how come she is not MADE to learn cooking and do pooja? For once her family is being conservative and the very next moment her family is being open-minded.

I have still not got it, how a woman, who belongs to that era, can easily share a room with someone else on the basis of a (fake) marriage and dance with a man? Leave alone that, she even proposed a samjhota kind-of marriage? Even in Raazi, Sehmat is actually the wife and daughter-in-law of the family and carries out the mission separately. I have no problem in her behaving as a girl who was way-ahead of those times, but atleast show from where did she inoculated those habits given the society around her was conservative?

Sometimes she behaves as someone who is least affected by her surroundings and the pain of Bondita, whereas sometimes she cares for her and treats her wound. Her character is a very wobbly-written one.

Originally posted by: rikara94

Or budhape ke bad wala pyar?🤪

I have one doubt.....

If a plant need to grow it needs sunlight water nutrition...etc etc....

But to plant a plant you need soil....that was ani to bon...she was capable...but she need someone to give her what required..if the very own person destroys how can plant grow...

Originally posted by: RUDY575

Indu that time he was busy with bachpan ka pyar☺️dancing with her and taking care of her

How dare you to point him

Please he is worst best teacher.....

Sorry sorry main bhul gayi. 😭 Wo to tabh bhi zimmedaariyan nibha raha tha.👍🏼

Originally posted by: Indira12

cant agree more that blushing smile on Ani's face although for a split second was spot on..for a moment they both seemed to forget its a play and then back on track in the next second..😂

Regarding Manorma and her proud lines.. Haven't you all felt the characterization of Manorama itself is a paradox..a total contradiction for the then society.

Her family is not like Mini who educated her (no doubt this is kaka's correspondence and that was Binoy's), still she doe snot know basic pooja paad and cooking skills, which was mandatory for women of that age and era. she might be a focused women still hail from a normal conservative family. For Bonditha being kid she doesnot know all was fine. But it looked forced on Manorama , a forceful scene to make her look incapable in front of Bondita. God knows how and from whereshe got inspirations and made connections to become krantikari and managed her missions by being away from her house. No dots are getting connected

Yes, you said it absolutely right!

Like if she really comes from an orthodox family who did not allow her to read and write, how come she is not MADE to learn cooking and do pooja? For once her family is being conservative and the very next moment her family is being open-minded.

I have still not got it, how a woman, who belongs to that era, can easily share a room with someone else on the basis of a (fake) marriage and dance with a man? Leave alone that, she even proposed a samjhota kind-of marriage? Even in Raazi, Sehmat is actually the wife and daughter-in-law of the family and carries out the mission separately. I have no problem in her behaving as a girl who was way-ahead of those times, but atleast show from where did she inoculated those habits given the society around her was conservative?

Sometimes she behaves as someone who is least affected by her surroundings and the pain of Bondita, whereas sometimes she cares for her and treats her wound. Her character is a very wobbly-written one.

Last para Indu

The points👍🏼

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Correct and mano won kaka becuase she is old and mature and he easily forgot how at such a. Young age bon did all these things sand suffered a lot of pain due to ani and kaka impulsiveness and expectations he moulded her like this and today she became bad ,bon is feeling all this as she invested her selfless love and devotion to this family ,right now she is in teen and such a vulnerable situation where emotionally hurt and so painful and due to her lack of emotional maturity she is unable to make people understand her pain and how she is against polygamy but people want her to accept it

I so want someone come and tell kaka ur son married his age wife when his first wife is a child and teen and does not have knowledge of sautan,wife relations and what if she comes in that age of loving someone or getting t attracted to someone goodness ,will she be Adarsh

I want this phase in bon life

This is why they banned Child marriage, Marriage and family is a responsibility which should not be left with a child, who can't take her own responsibility. All this was hard for Bon because of her age, she was and is facing repercussion of Child Marriage.

Kaka lives in a time where Child marriage was legal thats why he supported Bon and Ani's marriage when Ani kept asking him for help in making Bon understand that she shouldn't expect a normal relationship, the same Kaka is fine with polygamy, He is personification of society

Bon will grow up and choose a path for herself, either she can cry later for giving up golden opportunity of education or she can take control of her life, She should learn to value herself, she has to come out of identity of RC bahu and become Bondita

@Bold

Ani is in same situation, he is against child marriage but people want him to accept it because he took vows

Mahi, kaha ho tum? Tumhara Bidu ko Sampoorna ke haathon ki chai peene hai.

Agli baar se jab chai dogi, to kukurmutta mila dena.👍🏼

Originally posted by: Indira12

Mahi, kaha ho tum? Tumhara Bidu ko Sampoorna ke haathon ki chai peene hai.

Agli baar se jab chai dogi, to kukurmutta mila dena.👍🏼

Haa missing mahi🤣

Why do I feel that Mano is negative 😕, she is just a chameleon like ani but a intelligent one😆.The way she handling rc ppl is fishy.