Look before you Leap - Page 18

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: And that's the thing....emotions cannot be permanently suppressed....they will come out eventually and in a more volatile fashion if you suppress them that much. Adi continues to suppress his emotions even though he has already had a few volatile episodes of them coming out unexpectedly.

Now this is fiction and he has people like Malini and his family in his life to not see the obvious signs of what he's doing, but there is only so long until you can keep bursting out with these emotions that you will find some excuse to downplay them. At this rate, it is fully possible ki Adi will end up declaring his love for Imlie puri duniya ke saamne before even realizing it himself😆.....cuz the way he's going, he will not realize anything, but directly express it one day....and koi toh point aayega where he will not be able to take it back and make some excuse to justify his behavior around Imlie.

Yes, he will be in denial about his love till he cannot be in denial anymore.... But more than love, I think we are going to hear "She is my wife" declarations more and more as we go......... The way he says it with so much haq like its a "be all and end all" kind of statement leaving no room for any arguments..........and like you said, one day he is going to say it in front of people (mainly I think it will be AC) that he will never be able to take it back.😆

I think after the dialog with Pankaj he has understood - it's Imlie's absense that has caused his restlessness and bechaini. But somewhere he has extrapolated to the conclusion that is the guilt of the lie wrt Imlie thats is driving the intense focus on Imlie and not her the person. His thinking is by coming to PG and speaking to her in depth - he will somehow assuage his guilt find closure and move on with life with Mun. That's what I got from yesterday. How delusional he is. The very first moment they meet - the sense of coming home to her, his relief - the way he let's his hand move down and rest conveyed the depth of letting the tension and bechaini go...an unconscious act of relaxing that conveyed a lot without words. I don't even know if it was a planned move - the movement of the arm - scene was so effortless and effective.

Coming to PG, BS is going to engage with Imlie for a deeper connect - especially since they don't have any distractions here. Will he at leave do an introspection of what he came to do vs what he left with is still to be seen. I hope they allow him to let his guard down a bit and show us something similar to episode #9 for today's episode.

I'm so expectant and nervous for the episode today. It's so weird that after all the promotion of them playing cricket and the simplest things - 100th episode is her and they are still keeping it under tight wraps.

Originally posted by: mayuri099

I think kahi na kahi she is feeling that Aditya usse dur jarerahey. The distance between them is increasing. She is right about it, but she doesn't know why. I feel like lots of her frustration stems from that. She is not being able to understand Adi anymore. Whatever little understanding they had, even that is falling apart. I can empathize with that.

Also, in the episode I think they deleted a scene between Malini and Aditya. Aditya says when family drama was happening "I told Malini I was going for work". Malini replies, "par apne jaise kaha woh thik nahin tha (the way you said it was not right)". I think they deleted a scene here, most probably one more outburst from Aditya.

Malini is frustrated/worried that they are drifting apart, I get that. That is how the story is supposed to progress. But, my issue with her is every time there is a problem, she either throws a tantrum or makes it a public spectacle. She is either calling her parents or goes running to her in-laws. It shows her lack of strength of character.

In the last 2 episodes, Aditya was shown to say a few times that Imlie will never tell anyone anything. "Kisi se kuch nahin batayegi". She has been through so much, but didn't utter a single word to anyone. That's how strong she is! Where as Malini is shown to be unable to handle anything on her own, every issue becomes a public discussion. The makers are deliberately showing that and I am okay with that. It is this strength of character that Imlie possesses, that's drawing Aditya to her.

If she has been feeling so distanced for a while now - then she must be seeing through Adi's OOT lovey dovey gestures as well. The very fact that he is doing them must upset her - since she knows he is normally not like that...and is concerned that he is hiding something and not sharing. Even when he returned from PG earlier - Malini kept mentioning about suddenly how accomodating Adi had become and how he was changing. All the PDA scenes for MAlini were courtesy of Jhalli - either to conceal something or draw attention away from. I wonder what scene they deleted and if MAlini mentioned Aparna's suggestion to go away. If that happened and he goes to PG - there will be hell for Adi to pay when Mun finds out. I think Malini knows deep inside that Imli is the one causing this feeling in Adi - after all for AC's bashans she will be stupid not to connect the 2. She cannot handle the truth - so choosing to 'trust' Adi instead.

Malini has changed too. To give her some slack - earlier it was Imli who brought AdiMalini fight into the open family with her poem and attempts to reconcile. Malini did not run to the family then. I guess she feels she has been struggling with this for a while - she first asked her dad Dev for help then her grandma then Aparna - no one's suggestions seem to help....so finally its the family forum now.

I think she is sensing the slowly building disconnect - but so far no actual break has happened - I'll give her some credit for at least not being with her head in the sand as she was earlier. She has progressed enough to ask for her zaroorat. Adi walking away after her saying she needed him openly was a tough blow for her. Adi is so inconsistent - sometimes for Mun he overcompensates - but when he himself can not stand his restlessness - off he goes.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Yes, he will be in denial about his love till he cannot be in denial anymore.... But more than love, I think we are going to hear "She is my wife" declarations more and more as we go......... The way he says it with so much haq like its a "be all and end all" kind of statement leaving no room for any arguments..........and like you said, one day he is going to say it in front of people (mainly I think it will be AC) that he will never be able to take it back.😆

Interesting point you've made here. I do wonder sometimes what will be harder for him to accept.....that Imlie is his wife? Or that he has fallen in love with Imlie? 😆.....cuz both things he has mutinously declared only belong to Malini.

Accepting Imlie as his wife still gives him cover to claim that she is just a zimmedaari and his heart belongs to Malini😆...so he just may go that route first as you said.....in all his protectiveness, it's easier to say ki meri wife hai isliye kar raha hoon protect.....lol

But then again, Adi can't digest his khaana without calling this "nakli rishta" and "illegal shaadi" once a day....toh phir wife kaise maanega? 😛😆

I thought the same but how did she get to her picnic with the bike then

Made a batch on the last scene.....just in time before the next epi airs😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Interesting point you've made here. I do wonder sometimes what will be harder for him to accept.....that Imlie is his wife? Or that he has fallen in love with Imlie? 😆.....cuz both things he has mutinously declared only belong to Malini.

Accepting Imlie as his wife still gives him cover to claim that she is just a zimmedaari and his heart belongs to Malini😆...so he just may go that route first as you said.....in all his protectiveness, it's easier to say ki meri wife hai isliye kar raha hoon protect.....lol

But then again, Adi can't digest his khaana without calling this "nakli rishta" and "illegal shaadi" once a day....toh phir wife kaise maanega? 😛😆

Lol maan ke bhi kaunsa koi guarantee hai adi will not flip the next day 😆 maan lia bhi toh baad main usse bolta rahega remember you weren't my choice.😆 yeh adi hai hurt karne ka koi tareeka dhoondh hi lega

Also lovely gif sets 👌😍

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Interesting point you've made here. I do wonder sometimes what will be harder for him to accept.....that Imlie is his wife? Or that he has fallen in love with Imlie? 😆.....cuz both things he has mutinously declared only belong to Malini.

Accepting Imlie as his wife still gives him cover to claim that she is just a zimmedaari and his heart belongs to Malini😆...so he just may go that route first as you said.....in all his protectiveness, it's easier to say ki meri wife hai isliye kar raha hoon protect.....lol

But then again, Adi can't digest his khaana without calling this "nakli rishta" and "illegal shaadi" once a day....toh phir wife kaise maanega? 😛😆

Definitely admitting to both will be difficult almost impossible for him 😛. But between love and wife, I will say wife would be easier. The reason is because he can justify that it was not his choice, it was forced on him but he is accepting because it’s his responsibility, duty blah blah blah.....so even though it’s not his choice, he still has no choice 😉

Now love cannot be forced and to accept he is in love, will open a big can of worms mainly in relation to Malini. First of all, the guilt because of all the tall claims he has made till now about she being the only one.Then, the question of whether he has fallen out of love with Malini or he was never been in love with her. If it’s the second case then what was he thinking for last 7 years and if it’s the first , then what about all the promises he has made. Either ways he is going to lose. 😆

But having said all that, I highly doubt they will got that deep. It’s ITV after all. Like, his landing in PD, one day we might just hear him announcing to be world that “ I am in love with Imlie... now deal with it”🤣

Originally posted by: aparnak

I thought the same but how did she get to her picnic with the bike then

You can ride a cycle in a saree... many women in india do it 😊

Originally posted by: pamk06

You can ride a cycle in a saree... many women in india do it 😊

Really? Wow!!