What Am I Missing? - Page 2

Originally posted by: methebest

Nayi ka pata nahi, it sounds more like "gandi baat"

Idk this was funny 🤣

Maybe they should have a second thought about the tag line or the show for that matter

Originally posted by: TheLifeDiaries

I would confess that I have not watched the show from start but I know the basic plot line. So, Pakhi and Virat met in some yoga camp and "fell in love" and exchanged numbers. Virat lost the number and eventually all the contacts with Pakhi (hello Social media?). Then, Pakhi decides to get married to someone else (and move on right?) In the wedding she realizes the man she's getting married to is the cousin of the man she loved (but hello, you decided to move on?) Virat realizes the same but urges her to marry his cousin and gave her the promise that he'll never love anyone else. And that makes Pakhi agree to get married to the cousin of the man she loved (why even?) Cousin gets to know everything and leaves his newly wedded wife and family and vanishes in thin air.

Meanwhile, Virat is appointed in Gadhchiroli where he meets his mentor (i guess) and his daughter. I'm not going in detail but eventually they get married under the given circumstances, fair enough. Virat's family is not pleased except for his Mom, Aunt and a sister. Everyone taunts Sai and whatever, all that drama. But in all this, why is Pakhi so heartbroken given the fact that she clearly sees and knows why the marriage happened of Sai and Virat. Also, I don't understand why she thinks Virat should love her anymore. Yes, he made a bizarre promise. I mean who promises that he'll love the wife of his cousin. But moreover, who expects to be loved by the brother in law in that inappropriate way. Pakhi was requested to get married to Samrat and not forced to. If she was sure she couldn't move on, why did she agree to go about with the wedding anyway? Tell me what I'm missing. On some occasions I'm like let me get into the screen and ask her what is the 'Dhokha' she has gotten? What does she expect out of Virat and does she remember she's someone's wife, still? I mean, she freakin got married on her own free will. What if Samrat wasn't Virat's cousin? Would she still behave this way? Or is it that she want to avenge Virat for getting married to someone else? Isn't the show really frustrating with same sort of taunt and sentences? Usnein mujhe dhokha diya. Tumnein meri beizzati ki. Bhai, kaunsa tum kahin ki maharani lagi ho ki har baat pe beizzati ho jaati hai? Also, is your Respect so low that every now and then it is trodden so easily? It is only Sai that keeps me going with her unique and strong personality that is so rare on ITV but day by day I am getting annoyed with the reasoning of this stupid of a Chavan clan of the show.

Your views?

Pakkhi really married Samrat to be near Virat and in her mind she is virat chavans wife and that was her sole intention. ON the turn of event Samrat got to know of their relation and expected them to get together and wanted Virat to be happy so he left. And Pakki was getting blamed right ,left and center and Virat went and married Sai. Now pakki cannot digest the fact that her pati is someone else actual pathi and that too so soon. So she is burning in jealousy, anger, depression, and all these coattail has made her mad and pathetic. Inside herself she is not able to give up hence she is acting up and its patetic.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Maybe they should have a second thought about the tag line or the show for that matter

They really need to contemplate and understand the storyline from the wider perspective

Originally posted by: janaki17789

Pakkhi really married Samrat to be near Virat and in her mind she is virat chavans wife and that was her sole intention. ON the turn of event Samrat got to know of their relation and expected them to get together and wanted Virat to be happy so he left. And Pakki was getting blamed right ,left and center and Virat went and married Sai. Now pakki cannot digest the fact that her pati is someone else actual pathi and that too so soon. So she is burning in jealousy, anger, depression, and all these coattail has made her mad and pathetic. Inside herself she is not able to give up hence she is acting up and its patetic.

Perhaps she genuinely needs some sort of counseling

Hey, was Pakhi not Called upshaguni An stuff at the start with grahpravesh an all??? So kaku forgot all that when she saw sai???

I have hazy memory with the starting epi...

The makers left practicality aside and made up the story for drama an apparent entertainment... They are forgetting that audience is getting smart with time...

Fact is virat could have used social media to find Pakhi... Else sunny could have called and passed on the message...

Pakhi made hasty decision and is regretting it.... Can't leave virat and can't go with samrat...

In today's epi, she tells her father to not say things that she is not ready to hear.... MATLAB kisika bhi Sunna Nahi hai... Virat Ka Bola na samjha, makes some sense but Apne Baba Ka toh suno aur samjho....

We can only hope for better sense from makers 🤞🤞

That’s exactly what should happen

But unfortunately for ITV, even though it is the most widespread medium to convey anything (right/wrong) to everyone , the people working there seldom realizes the importance.

And all this at that time when there are many things like ‘equality of pays in all sectors’ , ‘same sex ratio work force’ etc.. movements are going all over the world

Originally posted by: TheLifeDiaries

Perhaps she genuinely needs some sort of counseling

Counselling only will happen when someone around her and herself feels that there is something wrong in her. Here everyone has their own agenda

For Pakhi the definition of Dhokha is 'Virat not doing things her way' .

For Pakhi- Virat ne saans usse puchkar nahi liya toh dhokha ho gaya aur Sai ne saans usse puchkar nahi liya toh beizzati ho gayi!!

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

Hey, was Pakhi not Called upshaguni An stuff at the start with grahpravesh an all??? So kaku forgot all that when she saw sai??? Like I said I have not watched the show from the start but if that's what happened, didn't Pakhi say then it was her beizzati?😭🤣

I have hazy memory with the starting epi...

The makers left practicality aside and made up the story for drama an apparent entertainment... They are forgetting that audience is getting smart with time... idk why CVS think the audience is dumb🤔

Fact is virat could have used social media to find Pakhi... Else sunny could have called and passed on the message...

Pakhi made hasty decision and is regretting it.... Can't leave virat and can't go with samrat... can't agree more

In today's epi, she tells her father to not say things that she is not ready to hear.... MATLAB kisika bhi Sunna Nahi hai... Virat Ka Bola na samjha, makes some sense but Apne Baba Ka toh suno aur samjho....

We can only hope for better sense from makers 🤞🤞

Fact is, she's not ready to listen to the truth that she's being stupid and inappropriate in her thoughts about Virat in general and Virat-Sai relationship in particular 🤓