Trust - Lost and Found - Page 5

Originally posted by: priyapak

I think Imlie knows where she stands. She will not expect any support from the Tripatis. Remember where she is now - she is not thinking she will ever be accepted by Aditya - it's not like she expects him to fall in love with her - so she has written his part in the relationship away. And she expects the truth will never come out. Not if she can help it. So no illusions here. What I find confusing about Imli is what you just mentioned...she is not thinking long term. She needs to be thinking of how she can be self sufficient and get out of Tripati's and Adi's lives. If she is serious about not coming in between Adi and Malini - that's where her thinking should be - yet she seems strangely content - coasting. They don't show her questioning her future. Maybe the courses she is taking with bade kaka is for correspondence and she is already on her way - and its not clearly communicated.

@bold: That wasn't really the point I was making. I'm not saying she is expecting the Tripathis to support her or expecting acceptance from Adi. My point is that she is making more of her current status than it really is. It's fine if she just wants to maintain status quo....but she is actually imagining the current status quo as her getting so much affection and support from Adi and his family.....that is what she told Dev yesterday too. This shows that these are Imlie's coping mechanisms cuz she doesn't want to face the bleakness of her situation. She consoles herself by telling herself she has so many people around her who give her affection....the elephant in the room is that all this affection still doesn't grant her any real respectful social standing beyond being considered a maid.

The writers choose to not show her or anyone planning her future from an education perspective, fine.....but I think the bigger problem for her long term will be when the marriage that she has accepted mentally won't get any validity, so her character will be questioned on that basis. Yes, she doesn't want to come b/w AM but simultaneously she is also not going to deny that Adi is her husband.....she's just not trying to claim him at this point. But in the future, when her very character is put on the line if the validity of the marriage is questioned in the city....what then?

Originally posted by: priyapak

I don't know why I have a feeling that Nishant will come with some baggage that Imlie will help resolve - health, drug use, something and the T family will be very happy with her. There has to be some reason - he has been missing for so long. I mostly wonder what his relationship with Adi will be - rest of the family are too sweet - it will be good for Adi to have a strong male contender in the house to balance things off. It will be a great addition to the story.

Yes, this Nishant/Ishant jo bhi will definitely have some baggage that the family will struggle to deal with.....Imlie will manage to be the problem solver in some form as usual.

I didn't get the sense that Adi treats Nishant as a rival in the house....he seemed happy when he heard that his cousin is back.....but they haven't revealed enough for there to be any real sense of the family dynamics around this guy fully. Based on usual ITV ways, this is likely just another setup to show Imlie's ability to resolve conflicts in a family and everyone, including Adi will be impressed by it.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh definitely....whenever the truth comes out, I really don't expect Tripathis to support Imlie on that. Their preference will remain Malini cuz she is the one they saw duly married to their son. They might be upset with Adi for a bit but ultimately they will forgive him since he's their son.

I don't think the truth will come out for a very long time....but it does make me pity Imlie that she is building a fantasyland for herself without realizing how she will be viewed when no one gives validity to a marriage that she has mentally accepted. Is she expecting Adi to take a stand for her at that time?😆.....she should probably keep her expectations low there.....lol

Who knows though the writers just may surprise us and show Malini DIDI blasting Adi to hell for this and walking out with Imlie hand in hand🤣.....maybe she will be like, Imlie woh tumhara pati nahin, mera bhi pati nahin....bhaad mein jaaye woh....hum behnein saath saath rahengi 😆

Re: new angle....Imlie already has many friends in the house....what will a random new guy do?😆....I don't think there is going to be any romantic angle with him.....just general Tripathi family drama and Imlie helping resolve tensions in the family as usual.....lol

Even if T family blames only Imlie, isn't that unfair for Imlie to be responsible for the fiasco which is not her fault. Both were the victims of unfortunate situation in PD but that doesn't mean whole T family suddenly turn their brain cells off and start blaming like mad people.

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Bold- Have you seen IK? If yes,then please shed light on adilie truth revelation.

Even if T family blames only Imlie, isn't that unfair for Imlie to be responsible for the fiasco which is not her fault. Both were the victims of unfortunate situation in PD but that doesn't mean whole T family suddenly turn their brain cells off and start blaming like mad people.

What's IK? The Bengali version? No, I haven't watched that and I'm not interested in discussing that either.

I didn't say that Tripathis would blame Imlie....I said they likely won't stand with her on the point regarding the validity of the marriage with Adi. There's a difference. Adi is also calling the marriage illegal....and they will likely call it illegal too and only consider his marriage with Malini valid. But Imlie has accepted it fully....so what will they do about that?

Anyways this is all a side issue....for now, they will develop the Adi-Imlie equation as much as they can.....the consequences of the truth will happen when they have to but that's a long way away.

Why do you think her character will come under question? It's not like she had options. To save their son's skin she married him. Adi brought her along to his house. She wanted him to accept her. He chose to keep mum and marry another. He further chose to keep her in his house as a maid even though she was willing to go back to PD citing destiny. She accepted his marriage, new wife, helps keep their marriage intact. She remains here - since PD will only offer her the same life as her mothers. At least here - even though I agree she does not have official standing the family has gone over and beyond any normal family in taking care of her. When the truth comes out - if the T family is thinking alright - as they have been thus far - they should understand and sympathize with her predicament. If anything the reaction should be the one they had when she was in hospital - when they thought she was married and dumped - indignant about whoever married and cheated her. Only its now their son. I think when truth comes out - Malini needs to clearly walk out - this is a bad breach of trust from Adi. T's need to find best reparation for the mistreatment of Imli. I like the Adilie story - but Adi has been the instrument of destroying Imlies life thus far. He needs to have a lot of guilt and make sure when the truth comes out - protect Imlie from any retribution - he owes her that at least.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

What's IK? The Bengali version? No, I haven't watched that and I'm not interested in discussing that either.

I didn't say that Tripathis would blame Imlie....I said they likely won't stand with her on the point regarding the validity of the marriage with Adi. There's a difference. Adi is also calling the marriage illegal....and they will likely call it illegal too and only consider his marriage with Malini valid. But Imlie has accepted it fully....so what will they do about that?

Anyways this is all a side issue....for now, they will develop the Adi-Imlie equation as much as they can.....the consequences of the truth will happen when they have to but that's a long way away.

Green- Adi ka bas chale toh both marriages are going to be tagged under "illegal". Now he is completely on his moon jaap journey,so basically.....In his pov adilie marriage is illegal.

After some 200-300 episodes,he will make a 360 degree turn and start tagging his marriage with Malini as invalid and illegal. So, according to him, marriage is legal and valid as per BS acknowledgement. As per his convenience, marriage hold legal/illegal status. Baadh mein jaye janta aur dusra 🤣party.

Comparing Adi's character to Archie, Archie's character for Baha was from intense hatred to intense love. There wasn't a midway in their relation.

But here for Adilie,we are seeing their snail speed progression and journey towards the future.

Originally posted by: priyapak

Why do you think her character will come under question? It's not like she had options. To save their son's skin she married him. Adi brought her along to his house. She wanted him to accept her. He chose to keep mum and marry another. He further chose to keep her in his house as a maid even though she was willing to go back to PD citing destiny. She accepted his marriage, new wife, helps keep their marriage intact. She remains here - since PD will only offer her the same life as her mothers. At least here - even though I agree she does not have official standing the family has gone over and beyond any normal family in taking care of her. When the truth comes out - if the T family is thinking alright - as they have been thus far - they should understand and sympathize with her predicament. If anything the reaction should be the one they had when she was in hospital - when they thought she was married and dumped - indignant about whoever married and cheated her. Only its now their son. I think when truth comes out - Malini needs to clearly walk out - this is a bad breach of trust from Adi. T's need to find best reparation for the mistreatment of Imli. I like the Adilie story - but Adi has been the instrument of destroying Imlies life thus far. He needs to have a lot of guilt and make sure when the truth comes out - protect Imlie from any retribution - he owes her that at least.

@bold: Because this is ITV😆.....and characters like Mrs. C exist in this show for such purposes only.

Again, I never said that Tripathis will question Imlie's character....they will likely feel sorry for her.....but Imlie will definitely be put in those situations because the validity of the marriage is in a very precarious position in the city....since her marriage will Adi will not be recognized, she will be called a home-breaker.....I'm not speculating from whom, I'm just saying it will likely happen. Denying that possibility basically means you aren't following the patterns of the show so far.

Tripathis treat Imlie with a lot of love and affection.....it is easy for them right now....the real test would be if their own son's reputation, his life was on the line when the truth came out....they will struggle with taking sides obviously. They can sympathize with Imlie easily when they think of her as a village girl with a husband they don't know about.....but when that husband turns out to be Adi, what then? lol

I'm not going to speculate about what Malini will do then and how much Adi will try to protect Imile....because a lot more needs to develop in these relationships first for characters to reach the point of taking any stands.

Expectations from Adi should remain on the low side....he's a guy confused enough to not be able to extract himself from a relationship which has so many red flags, and also confused enough to not be able to take a stand for the relationship where he is feeling growing concern and care for someone.

Only time will tell if he can take a definitive stand either way.

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Red- yes Bengali.

Green- Adi ka bas chale toh both marriages are going to be tagged under "illegal". Now he is completely on his moon jaap journey,so basically.....In his pov adilie marriage is illegal.

After some 200-300 episodes,he will make a 360 degree turn and start tagging his marriage with Malini as invalid and illegal. So, according to him, marriage is legal and valid as per BS acknowledgement. As per his convenience, marriage hold legal/illegal status. Baadh mein jaye janta aur dusra 🤣party.

@bold: LOL I really doubt Adi will ever call his marriage with Malini illegal😆....even if he starts to develop feelings for Imlie, he will struggle with the fact that he is also married to Malini. More likely that MALINI will declare their marriage illegal and tell him to get lost😆.

The guy who can't even accept that he has fikar for Imlie....obviously for him, marriage will be too high a bar to accept anytime soon😆.....confused hi ghoomta rahega....lol

Well today's episode was one which made me realize that why one should ALWAYS keep very low expectations while watching ITV. They can go tangent anytime with any character and in this case, it was Aditya. It left me questioning that "Did I miss some scene or may be an episode". When did his care for Imlie became so great that it overshadowed Malini's hurt? Last I knew, just a couple of days back, between making sure Imlie takes her medicine vs a romantic scene with Malini, he choose the latter, so what happened today?. Believe me, I enjoyed Adilie's scene to the the "T" and it was full of guilty pleasure and sweetness but timing matters and today the time for that set-up just did not feel right.😊

Anyways, coming to the episode, it was nice to see that Malini does get angry, rightfully so and can take a stand when she feels her happy castle is threatened. I would have preferred it if she would have done it before Aditya's entry but well "Der aaye durusht aaye". But, something about that scene did not sit well with me and made me realize that every time Malini has shown her anger or displeasure, has been when she has felt that she is not at the center of Aditya's world. Like last time with the trophy when he showed it first to someone who was not her and today too, when his outburst was for a third person. It does make me wonder if she has an unhealthy attachment to Aditya because he gives her a feeling of security and love which she must have never got in her house. (Thinking back to all his dialogues to her) Hence, whenever she feels that a world with Aditya is threatened, she lashes out and her offense is always a heavy dose of guilt in the other person, like today or when she fainted or the trophy scene. It might be far-fetched but If this is true, then I wonder how will she will react when she finds out the truth. Methinks she will not let go of Aditya so easily but lets see how they take her character graph.

Well, as I said before, I was expecting a guilt filled, remorseful Aditya but what we got was an Aditya who was more worried about Imlie than the fight with Malini. I guess I missed a couple of stations in this Imlie-Aditya journey 🥱 but well, I again loved the contrast that they showed us. Today, poor Aditya was rebuked by both of his women (what else can you expect when you have two wives😉, 😆), but whereas on one side it was loud, full of accusations, aimed to fill with guilt, on the other hand it was soft, pointed, filled with meaning and aimed to show only the familiarity that one has with the other. On one side, there was only a tearful, sour, unhappy end with no resolution but on the other, there was a smiling, sweet, happy, full of understanding end. Hence, on one side where it only gave rise to a feeling of guilt and a need to apologize , on the other side it gave rise to a realization of increasing trust, care and changing equations between them.😊

I will end it with Imlie's words that though imlie always feel bitter, when we eat it the first time but once you develop the taste, you cannot live without it. Looks like Babusaheb will reach that stage soon or is he already there?😉 I just hope I get to see the whole journey and not one with missing hoops, scenes and stations…😛

Originally posted by: pamk06

Well today's episode was one which made me realize that why one should ALWAYS keep very low expectations while watching ITV. They can go tangent anytime with any character and in this case, it was Aditya. It left me questioning that "Did I miss some scene or may be an episode". When did his care for Imlie became so great that it overshadowed Malini's hurt? Last I knew, just a couple of days back, between making sure Imlie takes her medicine vs a romantic scene with Malini, he choose the latter, so what happened today?. Believe me, I enjoyed the scene to the the "T" and it was full of guilty pleasure and sweetness but timing matters and today the time for that set-up just did not feel right.😊

Anyways, coming to the episode, it was nice to see that Malini does get angry, rightfully so and can take a stand when she feels her happy castle is threatened. I would have preferred it if she would have done it before Aditya's entry but well "Der aaye durusht aaye". But, something about that scene did not sit well with me and made me realize that every time Malini has shown her anger or displeasure, has been when she has felt that she is not at the center of Aditya's world. Like last time with the trophy when he showed it first to someone who was not her and today too, when his outburst was for a third person. It does make me wonder if she has an unhealthy attachment to Aditya because he gives her a feeling of security and love which she must have never got in her house. (Thinking back to all his dialogues to her) Hence, whenever she feels that a world with Aditya is threatened, she lashes out and her offense is always a heavy dose of guilt in the other person, like today or when she fainted or the trophy scene. It might be far-fetched but If this is true, then I wonder how will she will react when she finds out the truth. Methinks she will not let go of Aditya so easily but lets see how they take her character graph.

Well, as I said before, I was expecting a guilt filled, remorseful Aditya but what we got was an Aditya who was more worried about Imlie than the fight with Malini. I guess I missed a couple of stations in this Imlie-Aditya journey 🥱 but well, I again loved the contrast that they showed us. Today, poor Aditya was rebuked by both of his women (what else can you expect when you have two wives😉, 😆), but whereas on one side it was loud, full of accusations, aimed to fill with guilt, on the other hand it was soft, pointed, filled with meaning and aimed to show only the familiarity that one has with the other. On one side, there was only a tearful, sour, unhappy end with no resolution but on the other, there was a smiling, sweet, happy, full of understanding end. Hence, on one side where it only gave rise to a feeling of guilt and a need to apologize , on the other side it gave rise to a realization of increasing trust, care and changing equations between them.😊

I will end it with Imlie's words that though imlie always feel bitter, when we eat it the first time but once you develop the taste, you cannot live without it. Looks like Babusaheb will reach that stage soon or is he already there?😉 I just hope I get to see the whole journey and not one with missing hoops, scenes and stations…😛

Haha you were also thrown off by the timing, Pam? Welcome to the party😆

@bold: LOL yes, that line about the taste of Imlie ultimately becoming indispensable even if you find it bitter initially...that line definitely seemed to foreshadow what's coming up for Adi....he already seems quite restless without Imlie around for one day....so it's possible the taste of Imlie is going to overpower him more in the coming days......lol

LOL as long as we keep our expectations rock bottom, I think we will be able to get through the journey even with missing hoops and stations😆

Waise I belatedly realized that Adi's mention of "bharosa" was more a follow up to Imlie's line about "Humein apni maa ki seekh pe aur Sita Maiyya pe pura bharosa hai".....she talked about faith, so he also said he has started to have faith in her.