Originally posted by: yyyy
I had shared this earlier in some thread. Virat believes as a Vahini Sai has the right to support and feed her Devar but when it was his turn to be fed by his Vahini he decided not to eat the food served by her. She brought the food with Kaku’s permission yet he decided not to eat. This shows he realized her intentions to a certain extent hence he draws a line and doesn't entertain her when she tries to take care of him. He might not openly accept it because somewhere he believes if Samrat comes back things will be ok as Pakhi will get a chance to spend time with his brother which will make her realize whatever she feels for him is infatuation not love like how he figured out after being with Sai. What he doesn't realize is his approach is only sending wrong messages.
Originally posted by: msin
mohit sayi for virat is not the same as virat PP relationship.. that’s where his chauvinistic attitude comes into play ..
He has never treated PP as his bhabhi .. she is his friend .. maybe married to his brother .. even the family has not reinforced it .. they keep bringing best friends tag .. not devar bhabhi relationship is more important..
yes she’s another man’s wife so he will maintain a distance but can chat with her about other things .. which is ok ..
now will he allow the same liberties to his wife .. that has to be seen .. the way virat speaks with Pp calling her pakhi .. telling her to come to gharcholi with Sunny .,
Today if Mohit dares to do the same with sayi .. he will beat him up ..Mohit calls sayi vahini not sayi .. she must be 3-4 years younger to him.. the way family suggested pakhi to go with virat .. yesterday Sonali was asking VV if virat got chhuti .. would virat have liked it if Mohit n sayi were being talked about like this .. No ..
But he has ensured that Mohit karishma toe the bhabhi line for sayi .. Today he told Kaku sayi is Mohit ‘s bhabhi .. An extension of him can take care of his younger brother .. because bhabhi Ma saman hoti hai .. so he prided that his bride is getting more attached to household matters and doing things needed as a daughter in law ..
My view:
It's been nearly 8 hours since I am itching to reply to this, imagine "main kitna tadpi hoon" 😆
haan so, i agree with Nitu's part in @bold. The fact that he was uncomfortable with PP trying to feed him dinner and did not see her as "Vahini who had haq to do parvaah" is very evident. But, I am not sure if it is exactly because he has "realised her intentions" but because in that moment he was so vulnerable in the middle of a terrible fight and he just wanted Sai around him, not PP.
Or because, as @msin (*Please tell me your name, dear) said in @red that he actually doesn't think of her as a "Vahini". If he did, he would have addressed her as "Vahini/Bhabhi" by now. I tend to believe that his discomfort comes from the knowledge that they shared an emotion which they wanted to translate into a relationship but couldn't -- she's his 'missed opportunity' who was betrothed to his cousin before he found her again. He feels "morally" obliged to maintain that distance from her, which is why he refrains from the slightest of touch, except while she was made to grind chillies, which he did more as an instinctive response to correct what "We"- Sai and he --did wrong.
But @blue: does his statement on Sai having the vahini haq on Mohit come from a chauvinistic attitude? I am not sure. I don't think at that moment he processed so much to think of it from his chauvinistic side (Which he definitely has given that Sai should be okay with 'pyarosti' but she can't dance to another man's music or prank call an aunt's fraudster boyfriend without making the 'husband' him go crazy). Virat, as we know, reacts slowly. So, I don't think he said it in the way to already 'tell off' Mohit and Karishma to draw the vahini line. If that were the case, then he would have objected to Karishma insulting Sai during the screaming match he had before Amey came, where he was so upset due to his jealousy that he even allowed Karishma to get away with talking rubbish to Sai. How he will react to Mohit and Sai's friendly relation remains to be seen but I think from the initial family interactions during Samrat's wedding, they seem to be a fun-loving generation, set aside the tragedies they all have. I think if the story wasn't what it is, the three couples would have gotten along very well. But yes, he might raise questions if Mohit were to ask Sai to accompany someone alone to meet him in a secluded place -- not suspiciously, but out of his protective nature. There is a difference between Mohit and Amey-Aniket. One: He is the brother in the same house. He knows Mohit. Two: Mohit is married to someone he 'loves', so he wouldn't go after Sai.
But the @green I tend to agree with it. He wanted to project Sai as an extension of him or rather a "team member". It is "WE" for him now. She is his "half" so she is also to be seen and respected for being someone who will always have "parvaah" for the family. Yes, his statement was to give her that attachment in the household. "Wo Mohit ki bhabhi hai", by the virtue of being "my wife and ghar ki bahu". It is his attempt to live up to that promise to self - "Jo maan aur izzat ki tum haqdaar ho, main doonga"... and of course, his biggest angst with her has been her lose cannon nature which he feels aggravates the fights and doesn't allow him to push her up in front of the family on the seat of the Queen-to-be, beside him. So, it was a moment when she was clearly right, speaking in low decibels and standing up for someone else in the house. Out of also the value system they share, the pride was visible.
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