Chhal aur kapat ke pendulum se 'Option 2'! - Page 2

Originally posted by: prs_725

Right we do have a choice! I saw today's episode in hopes we will get to see SaiRat, but nope ...

I will stick to what I did before was read Janki's analysis and then decide if i want to watch or not ..

Todays episode, firm characters totally taking flip, and upcoming virakhi scenes....all this is too much for me...was never interested in Deviyani track anyways...so I am taking break from show and the forum...if not possible then atleast wont participate in the discussions.

Originally posted by: anjali0111

Todays episode, firm characters totally taking flip, and upcoming virakhi scenes....all this is too much for me...was never interested in Deviyani track anyways...so I am taking break from show and the forum...if not possible then atleast wont participate in the discussions.

I have been trying to find ways to do that, had the pandemic not been here, I would have already done that. When I was enjoying the show, I loved having it as my break time in between work hours and discussing on the forum here, i felt part of something beautiful as well. I wont stop watching but def need to do something to create a safe space to retrospect my life choices rn (ghar par hi hoon so bohut choices hain, which I am grateful for) and not become like the makkad gang...start vents and complaints as soon as the episode airs 🤣

The thing is, even if Virat flips tomorrow and supports Sai, it will either be because he was transfixed by her beauty or because she applied alta - both of which are not signs of a healthy relationship.

I ff most - but him asking to force Sai when he is responsible for women's protection and going back to square one with his mother after the emotional apology is not going down well with me.

I think I'll pledge not to watch the sbs segments now, i'm still riled up over the yesterday one🤣

Originally posted by: anjali0111

Never have your hopes high from itv🤣

I know its difficult but still🤣

Time and again we have learned our lesson in hard way but itv keeps doing it with us. First they start a show with good actors, gives us hope then ruin it to the level it cant be sorted out.

Happy 100th episode?!?! What a disappointment it was!

When I first started watching this show, about the time when Virat and Sai got married, I thought it would be interesting to see how Virat, Sai and Pakhi's character will grow with their own inner turmoils and feelings as well as the reconciliation between traditional, orthodox values and family structures with a girl brought up by a single father who fears nothing. And it did start off that way but then it went downhill and how.

The neverending family drama is stretched out so far that watching it makes my head hurt - there is nothing new that is brought to the table, it is the same old, same old and with every episode it only gets worse. When Bhavani ends, Omi starts, when Omi ends, Ninad starts, when Ninad ends, Shonali starts, when Shonali ends, Karishma starts, when Karishma ends, Pakhi starts (did I miss anyone...). And today when Pakhi ended, Virat started as well. Everything that has happened with Sai to date has been a classic case of domestic abuse - and it only seems to get worse.

Virat today was awful to watch, like you said Janki - was it his exasperation to end the discussion that brought out this side in him. Maybe - but it was hard to connect with him, especially after his retort about "where will Sai go?" when his family gave him an ultimatum and his reaction to his mom, and last but not least saying that they should have forced Sai to wear the alta or have Karishma forcefully bring Sai down - not done ACP Virat Chavan, not done! After all of that, his softening moment with Sai, did not do it for me. Will wait to see how tomorrow plays out.

The only redeeming grace of today was Sai, be it her little moment of "Am I falling in love with Virat?" or her playfully but also in all seriousness asking "What charges have your family filed against me today?".

The writers need to take a hard look at where their show stands and how it will proceed but if they continue on the current negative trajectory, it will completely lose the charm that is already slowly fading away.

Janki, I'm officially donating a closet full of heels to replenish your bag of chappals that were unleashed today....and as always, thank you for a beautiful post.

Chappals are not sufficient for Virat. Supari killers needed🤣.

Which decent person will ask - why someone (let alone his wife) was not forced to apply alta? As maddening as this new form of Virat is, I don't even see the point of it in the story. If they still show Sai romancing him, then they are taking it into the familiar toxic romances like Kabir Singh etc. where toxic love = true love.

Originally posted by: prs_725

Beautiful analysis, Janki.

I think the family knows exactly how to switch on Virat's buttons. Initially, he would take pride when they would say "virat tum hi samjhao, tumhari hi maanti hain yeh ladki" and now it's become "virat, Sai tumhari koi baat maanti bhi hain?"

I think they know that pushing his button on Sai doesn't listen to you blinds him due to his ego turning off all rationale thought process. I think what turned off his thinking today was when kaku mentioned that alta is put on all suhaagan woman but your wife didn't want to put it on..in his mind it might be "does Sai not consider herself a suhaagan? my wife?" atleast I think that got him to completely shut his brain off ... i am not understanding this Virat as it's not the ACP Virat but just someone else suddenly who sides w everyone against Sai. And since when does a person who has the skills and intuition that they need to use in their professional life turn off using those skills and intuition in their personal life?! If i have skills required professionally, i actually also make use of them personally when needed. So I dont get how a person can be an ACP and a good cop outside but suddenly uska dimaag band ho jata hain at home!? That makes no sense at all.

Today's episode was like eating 20 karela's, to me. Bitter that just gets more bitter. I loved that little slap in the face Sai did, seriously she's such a cutie, such a breath of fresh air. I don't see how he didn't see she offered to get him dinner and asked him to relax..something that the household members should have done ..cant they see that, cant he explain the same to them as he did to Sai on "ek aadmi kaam se thaka haara ghar aata hain?" And finally, she is trying to help him!

Pata nahi why they are showing 10000% level ka torture level and lies per lies ..why was usha mausi quiet today?! why did no one speak of Sai's allergies ..sach mein ... is show ko dekhne ke liye we all need to do meditation afterwards.

I think constantly showing Virat this foolish is ruining the bond and chemistry they had created for SaiRat, atleast for me bc aaj uska 30 second ghoorna didnt seem natural to me, not sure if you or anyone else felt that way?

Sorry maine pura vent kardiya yaha par ..

Well said.👍🏼.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

The thing is, even if Virat flips tomorrow and supports Sai, it will either be because he was transfixed by her beauty or because she applied alta - both of which are not signs of a healthy relationship.

I ff most - but him asking to force Sai when he is responsible for women's protection and going back to square one with his mother after the emotional apology is not going down well with me.

I think I'll pledge not to watch the sbs segments now, i'm still riled up over the yesterday one🤣

Exactly!! Instead of Ashwini telling sai that she’s ruining her relationship, someone needs to tell Virat too. Instead of telling Virat, when sai samajdhar ho jayegi.. they all need to become samajdhar .. you can’t cloak someone’s behavior on their understanding level .. it’s a matter of perspective too which he needs to use on himself and his household

Yes, make your vaada a Sai wala vaada ☺️

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

The thing is, even if Virat flips tomorrow and supports Sai, it will either be because he was transfixed by her beauty or because she applied alta - both of which are not signs of a healthy relationship.

I ff most - but him asking to force Sai when he is responsible for women's protection and going back to square one with his mother after the emotional apology is not going down well with me.

I think I'll pledge not to watch the sbs segments now, i'm still riled up over the yesterday one🤣

@bold - True. Had she not applied alta, the matter would have escalated in a different way.

A husband's support when his wife had concern over doing something that is against her wishes VS him supporting her just because she complied to rules has a difference. It makes no big deal if he stands by her now.

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Chappals are not sufficient for Virat. Supari killers needed🤣.

Which decent person will ask - why someone (let alone his wife) was not forced to apply alta? As maddening as this new form of Virat is, I don't even see the point of it in the story. If they still show Sai romancing him, then they are taking it into the familiar toxic romances like Kabir Singh etc. where toxic love = true love.

Yeah, and to think so many men and women alike loved that toxic love wala crap ..

ab to don’t want Sai to get into any sort of love or vaadas or zimmedari. May she find a mentor and a loved one who wants to be her mentor and friend .. not as a zimmedari or something forceful but out of connection and understanding. Maybe like a teacher or a student ..