Godu Ka gussa, guilt aur gol gol gold ring - Page 4

Remember what Virat replied in one of those night scenes when Sai apologized him for bursting all the balloons he bought for her "Bilkul ajeeb ho! Agar sorry bolna tha tho balloons kyu phode?"

Now he has to put the same question to himself 'Why do I feel sad & guilty after losing my temper at her??' Because saying sorry to the person you hurt (your spouse) is cooler than giving entry pass to a third person in your Pati-Patni ke beech ka mamla.

Not related to just today, but what I have observed is, several times from the start of the show when one person is crying, the other doesn't wipe the tears off. it totally puts me off for some reason..

Even today when Ash was feeling, the boy is in tears, I would have rather had her put the plate down, wiped the tears and then continued the chat..Small nuances, but needed to have the feel. Wish the directors pay attention to these...

In the past, when Sai had picked up her bike and drove past after being threated by Jagthap and she demanded Virat to sign the VRS abhi ki abhi, the sadness and tears were so evident..I wish they showed one angle where Virat caught sight of that.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌞🌻

A new week of Chakram niwas hysterics has been unleashed upon us. It was a good episode. Ashwini was the hero but... left a lot to be desired.

So as expected, Chavan Saheb had no answer to the spashth question: Aap ko bura kis baat Ka lag Raha hai.. Maine Aniket ke gaane par dance Kiya isiliye ya main is competition me participate Kar rahi hoon isiliye?

And yes, he was really hungry by now so he decided to skip the jalebis and huff out of the room... But where did his feet take him? Straight through door that is always open for him 😖 and today, it looked like he even knows that. Sorry to say, but the way he just entered Bade Bhai ki wife Ka room, without even reducing his pace and straight into the middle of it -- as if it were his own room, his body language until Ashwini came was putting off. I don't think he did not realise that he had entered his missing brother's bedroom to ask for dinner... "Koi fark nahi padta, sab jaante hain tum mere liye khaana laati ho" 👏👏👏

Mubarak ho, kal se freestyle Kathak ke badle Naagin naach Hoga inke bedroom me. He was angry and hungry but he was so aware about what he was doing.

For once, even PP Didi asked the correct question when he said Sai is participating in a dance competition: Isme problem kya hai? 😅😂😂 I'll tell you Didi, problem is this that your imaginary husband just saw his real wife in a graceful dance and thought she'd say 'You are the reason of my happiness'. But it turns out that some other guy -- some khet-- made her so happy that she broke into a dance. Aapke imaginary husband ko hazm nahi ho raha hai. But he does remember the guy's name now because he almost told you "Wo Ani..." But Chavan saheb was so hungry that he ate up the khet. And he was so alert not to let the actual reason slip out in front of even his ex lover. If he has said it, she would have caught that immediately and even used it to her opportunity.. for all you know, ACP se pehle round up par Army wife pohach jaati medical college 😂

Coming back, I cannot condone this walking right into the bedroom of an ex-lover just because you're besides yourself with your spouse! How far is his mother's room? And more importantly, how far is the kitchen? Can't a trained IPS officer serve himself dinner? 😒😒 Why does he need someone to show him what's for dinner? And did he not know that his screaming out to PP Didi must have been heard by everyone who heard the wife dancing to the song? So because he was calling out to PP, Bhavani decided to stay in her room because she didn't want to interrupt her one chaheete bete ki Susheel bahu's opportunity to entice her other chaheeta beta? Warna toh even a vase breaking in the corner of the bedroom makes everyone rush out to check if an earthquake has struck the mansion.

But what was this barging into PP's room about? And no, for once I don't want to blame Patralekha. She did not step out of her room and I appreciate it. Yes, she wanted to grab the opportunity once he was there because it is the only thing she honestly wants -- this time with him that he was offering her today. There is nothing else she wants as sincerely as this. 😑

Virat's one visit to her bedroom in that state has opened up all doors of hope for her. And it has undone any little boundary that he has laid so far by telling her not to wait for him or maintaining that physical distance. It came completely undone. 😔 I liked it that for once Patralekha perhaps stayed back in her room knowing that Virat is on Sai's side, especially after the chilli grinding payback but now can you blame her for feeling that he's showing signs of seeking her too -- unaware that it is his growing desire for Sai that is making him lose control on his mind. She would rightfully think that he's regretting Sai's presence in his life. And when she asked him the question, he fuelled it with "Sai doesn't understand!"

Chalo Chavan Saheb, at least your true love and your imaginary wife will understand that you're not over her as she was beginning to feel and that you are still seeking her, thinking about her and yearning to have dinners with her. All in all: she has her answer to "Will my ex return to me". Her bubble will burst soon but...

Why should Patralekha be blamed for Virat walking into her bedroom at that hour? And Ashwini, yes she intervened at the right time but left me very disappointed. She said the right things to him about his relationship with Sai but what about his act of visiting PP Didi. If she skipped it because "Mera beta bhookha tha", then I am sorry, he is also no kid that he cannot be admonished for this. Why does Ashwini have to give Patralekha the looks she did while taking away her 'Godu' after the cheek pulling? It seemed like, "See I saved my son from falling into your enticement". Why Ashwini?

This is exactly how women feed the sense of entitlement that men feel over women. Why couldn't she chastise him more than just saying, 'Tumhe Patralekha ke room me dinner Karne ki zaroorat Nahi hai", which was actually a taunt to PP and not her son. Did Ashwini forget that it was he, who was there and not Patralekha who had crossed her line this time. I find this extremely unacceptable. And while I felt sorry for PP, I know that Virat's thoughtless act, which was deliberate, is only going to have PP find more space between Sai and him. All this for what? Jealousy? What do you call a man, who cannot communicate his frustration to his wife and decides to visit an ex lover for solace, without having addressed the issue that his wife's frustration for him comes from this very fact that there are three people in the marriage!

Is it wrong to call him a product of patriarchy -- he is so enraged with the thought of his wife having danced for someone else that he feels entitled to visit his ex lover in the middle of the night because no one in that entire mansion can serve him dinner?

Come on, Chavan, you can do better than this. Please fill that requisition form for your personal domestic attendant.😑

The actual exchange between the mother and son at the dining table was heart warming but I couldn't help feel it was incomplete. Just because Ashwini did nothing to remind him of his 'hadh'. I think, from now on, if she only gives lectures to Patralekha, I wouldn't really like it. It was a scene I was waiting for and so beautifully executed!

Thank God for small mercies. He apologised to Ashwini after being in denial that he had made a mistake. So, he knew he made a mistake but he didn't want to acknowledge it in front of Sai when she was reminding him? Ego? Because he was upset in real due to the Amey issue and not because of her badtameezi, which he used as a cloak to yell and rant at everyone coming in his way.

I liked the rawness with which he apologised to his mother -- he was genuinely sorry and a mess even now. But because everyone is only able to see that he's upset because of the family Vs Sai match, the actual drilling sense into the head will not happen. "Tum fit ho gale ke neeche se... Upar laal gubbara" 😂😅 but Ashwini doesn't know the reason is not the "Jali Kati baatein" so her assurance that Sai will be the best Bahu is not what he needs -- although he liked hearing that but he already knows her potential on that front. Since he doesn't want to reveal the actual problem, it will be a while before someone can make him see the mirror. Of course, in the end, it was the mention of Sai that even made him smile but his act in the beginning had totally left a bad taste already.

It is significant how he begins fidgeting with his wedding ring when he's upset with Sai and ranting incoherent things -- he did that during the nasty fight the earlier night and even today. I wish it serves him a reminder of the sanctum sanctorum that the space between a husband and wife is meant to be -- not just the physical space but also the mental and emotional. He cannot be inviting a third person in his moments of madness to occupy that space.

And really, again, is this how he will be when he is jealous about other men being around Sai? By walking into bade Bhai ki wife's bedroom and space? Is it not taking advantage of the fact that his brother is not there? Would he have gone to that bedroom and even been open to the idea of eating dinner with Patralekha in there if Samrat was around? Today, he crossed his line.

Mirror, mirror on the wall: who is the more vulnerable of them all? There was something about the juxtaposition of Sai speaking into the mirror and acknowledging how Virat's behaviour affects her -- it happens, dewdrop, when the man is beside himself and you can't figure out why but you still want him back to end the argument. And the mirror in the room of Mallika-e-Maturity, showing a reflection of Ashwini pulling her Godu back into the line he had crossed tonight.

I loved how Sai immediately realised her mistake. Of the two of them, she's the one who acknowledges and speaks first. She knew she had taunted him about PP Didi deliberately and she was already regretting it. Obviously, she didn't know it would drive him so mad and until she gets at least a peek into his mind, she wouldn't know why it has become a trigger for him.

I am glad Ashwini gave her a piece of her mind in the morning. Just like Virat, Sai will also need help in dealing with these new emotions. She's become a pro at covering it up with the bachchi act. But yes, Ashwini is right, "Badi ho Jaao".. at least Badi enough to see that he's seeking you and to not bring in the third person in between that space that you both need to cover -- who takes the first or more number of steps is secondary.

What an irony, Virat completely lost his cool because Sai brought PP in between them by her words and he ended up bringing PP in between them in person!

What an irony that the man who's being the wind beneath her wings has also turned into a sudden gusty wind in the sky she's flying. She doesn't know which way to go but birds, when they encounter windy weather, tend to hunker down and find shelter in thick hedges or nearest trees. Sai will find many such trees around her now that she's in her flight but it is also true that birds need a push from the high winds to fly and then there are some birds who also fly against the wind pressures -- the migratory ones that don't fear flying away from the comfort of their known homes. Of course, in the end, all birds return to their nest.

*****

So ACP Chavan is indeed going on a round up 😂😂 chalo, in his moment of recalling the last night's incident, he gave a clear insight into how the whole mesmerising dance he witnessed turned sour for him the moment he learnt that the source of happiness for that dance was another man... So, Virat is officially yearning for the whole of his 'wife' -- tan, man aur antarman se... Dhan se kya yearn Karna... Woh to hai hi Kohinoor! But IPS peak cap, thoda sa off the mark tha, Chavan Saheb. Please straighten your cap and also the brain under it and let the thoughts transmit to your mouth and meet your voice so that your wife can hear what she's been waiting to hear too... Dinner ke saath dessert bhi Mila karega 😆😉 and no, not in the form of the jalebis you serve 😂

But usse pehle, please tell me, who will round up the mess you have created in the passage between your bedroom and your bade Bhai's? 😣

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When Chavan Saheb returns home after his round up:

Sai: Alexa, let's share a "best friend" joke with Virat Sir

Alexa: Unfortanately I do not have enough space to store a "best friend" joke

Sai: Hawww! Alexa, why?

Alexa:Because your Virat Sir's best friend takes up all of it...

ACP: Alexa! Not funny.

Alexa: I am programmed to not make mistakes. It wasn't meant to be funny.

ACP: Alexa, change.

Alexa: In algebra, we look at 'x' and wonder 'y'. But if you visit a garage sale this weekend and think of buying back your own crap, you'll end up only with the 'x' and totally lose the a, b and c of what you actually set out to see.

ACP: Alexa, I don't understand...

Sai: Alexa, forget it.snd play Muthukodi kawadi hadaa..

Alexa: Playing...

ACP: 😳

Sai: 👩‍💻👩‍🏫😐

*****

How high can we fly today? It's a bird's imagination that determines how high it will fly, not the wings... So, fly, fly, fly high against the sky, so high you almost touch the sky... And do listen to Wind Beneath My Wings by Bette Middler if you please..

Have a great take off to the week's flight today with coffee ☕☕☕ tea 🍵🍵🍵 and lots of hugs 🤗 🤗 free.

Aaj chappals Ka bag thoda empty ho Gaya hai... So collection is on (*heels will be preferred, buyback policy temporarily suspended)

Yahan tak aane ke liye manapurvak aabhar 🙏 Aapke vichar padhne ke liye man adhir rahega.

Love you all!

💓J

Very nice update as always, i did watch the episode and it was good. Finally the long due to apology, so they do relate the scenes and do a damage control.

Also i see many points being raised about what Virat did today was wrong, i do not like Virat Pakhi scenes but didnt feel he was completely wrong today (i will come back with an explanation once my logical mind works).

Regarding Ashwini not telling Virat what he did was wrong, it was not the time and she knew he wouldn't understand as he was upset and angry. Also for once she did not say anything to Vahini as she knew the mistake was not hers. Both Sai and Virat were wrong in a way, their insecurities give passage to people to intervene. Virat needs to cut that passage, as his friend is getting wrong signals.

The look Ashwini gave was apt, as it was a mother telling her to back off and i can take care of my son. It was not for what she did but what she was about to do (or capable of doing). That is manipulate, she has already done that once and he landed up giving that vaada to her.

He is impulsive and emotional, and I think the mother son scene stole the show today. He just needed pampering nothing else, he misses being pampered, taken care of (who doesn't) and i think the mother realized that. So that was a wow scene for me, very emotional (The chemistry which they have is super).

The wait for the further episodes as more drama is yet to come and wait for your lovely analysis.

Title is wow as is the analysis!! Itne Gs Good episode ke saath!!

I LOVED Godu-Aai scene...... am elated in the manner he said sorry. that was sooo sweet... I was so angry on him being rude to Aai...

Aai should have just mentioned in a fleeting manner about his mistake of barging into Pakhi's room....the scene would have been more than perfect....I

Can give a benefit of doubt here that may be seeing him so angry, Aai did not want to talk about too many things at one time...so she picked up the most important...his relation with Sai and show him the importance of Sai..that she is different....thinks about others....and his Aai... may she did not want to point out his mistakes looking at his vulnerable state....aisi state mein usually we want to show the positive sides instead of talking about negatives....

He needs to clear this mess of his either chuppi or jalebis with his relationship with Pakhi and Sai...Once this is done, the character of Virat will bounce back soon...

Also, I liked ..kya focus hai Sai ka....she is concerned ki..Virat Sir ke wajah se padh nahi payee..aisa raha to Doctor to kya compounder bhi nahi ban payeegi...kitni masoom hai...aur pyar aata hai usper ...

Adding some mirch masala here:

1) Anger : Often heard that when wife serves you everyday kichdi, you are forced to go to restaurant to have biryani. Virat wants to be understood, heard by his wife. But if you everyday serve him khichdi, the man is bound to huddle his steps to have biryani.

Virat in his brink of anger didn't even realize where he was going. He just wanted to be heard and that person was PP for him. He vent out his anger , frustration without realizing root cause.

2) Raja beta complex : Though I loved the mother son tete tete today. I was happy that he apologized. But that glare from passing out from PP room. Why you think, your son cannot be at fault. You were expecting an apology or not , but when he did. Did she ever ask " did you apologize to your wife" when you questioned her upbringing, her aaba. She deserves it, but the Raja beta goes Scot free in mothers eyes.

3) Pakhi : I didn't hate her today. She was in her room when he barged in, without knocking. Do you sympathize with her at times. She was one who believed in fairy tale prince charming. When she got one, he ditched her. Only to marry his brother. It is easy to say move on, but to replace that person in your heart you need another person who would do all those deeds which you expected from prince charming. But here the later also goes missing in action. Its hard for her to move, unless she takes a stand. But, her illusionary husband gives her hope every now and then.

Then , who is at fault ?

3) Ashwini: No doubt star of the day. A bridge who clears misunderstanding between her son and DIL. Sai is small to understand the nuisances of marriage and her husband. And it is only her who can give required gyan to both of them.

Hope the dish comes out perfectly now. Relish it.

On a re-watch, I guess Ashwini did not mention PP because she wanted them to focus on each other. Then automatically, no third person can cause a problem. She listed out Sai's loveable traits to Virat and on the other hand, told Sai very clearly. ..Spashth shabd mein... taking Pakhi's name was not needed, and two.. give him food when he comes back home.

So I noticed she added 'ill feed you everyday', she meant it as a joke but it was sending a message to Virat that she will give him his dinner if required. He need not call PP, but it was a very subtle comment.

I am unable to join the fandom is toasting Aswini as the heroine of the episode. I will consider her that the day she gives Virat a verbal chammat & tells him what an immature brattish mcp he turns into sometimes, extends basic courtesy to Pakhi, and reprimands Devi when she says mean things about Pakhi without any provocation. The only things I appreciate Ashwini for are (a) her standing up to her bully hubby & vahini (within the realities of her no degree no job nowhere to go life) , and (b) giving Sai practical & supportive advice.

And while we are at it, what did Pakhi do to Devi that she loses no opportunity to say really mean things that noone wld be allowed to say abt their bhabhi. She knows nothing abt Pakhi, yet makes fun of her every chance she gets, right fm the ulte pav entry. And none of the “good folks” - Ashwini, Sai or Virat stop her! Her mental health issue is no excuse for this targetted attack.

All things aside, the one thing that annoyed me the most in today’s episode was why can a grown man not just get himself food? You can fall in love in 1.47 days, give bheeshma pratigya in next1. 47, get transferred to GC, marry someone, give aate jaate logon ko lessons on machooority but you cannot serve yourself food? Yeh kaunsi entitlement haibey? Please how did you function when studying or training? And no...i'm not saying that no one should bring someone food...it's fine...when it's done outof love, without it being seen as some random duty a wife has to fulfil!! But Yahaan the way the makers showed it, it was like baseline expectation was metired me earn money me deserve to be brought food….and no his gussa = Khet ki Mooli, not bhook.

Haiii!! The only person I can't fault in this fiasco is my didi. She Asked all the right questions, gave the right emotions, and launched on the chance provided as any person looking for a gap would do. Didi was on point today! You have now given her more freedom to cook her khayali pulao (sans silbatta masala) and added to her delusional state of mind (I could almost visualise her in Uday Chopra of Dhoom scenario dreaming of little baby and baba Virakhis.Apun ki tu…apan tera).

I think the writers write Ashwini very patchily! I love the actor and she portrays the emotions so well, but I think sometimes she’s let down by the writing. Why Ashwini would you give my didi looks, but not your own beta oris this the conditioning you’ve had with Bhavani, that you fail to see the partplayed by others? It also jarred alag se when VC started with Sai bilkul nahi samajhti hai…UNCLE….you are angry at her for being happy outside of the confines of this house and without nadi as the main reason (khush dekhna chahta hoon,toh how does it matter ki Khushi kahan se mili?). If you can’t understand your emotions, how would she? Also you are now spying on your wife’s friends? I’m Really struggling to understand this jealously track, the way he’s playing it really reeks of toxic male syndrome. Bhai why you giving Jagtap level vibes to a college student, who currently hasn't even interacted with Sai!

In other important questions,

· Yeh log waise kaunse Time Warp mein hai…. are they travelling aage or peeche? Am I watching GHKKPM or Doctor Who?

· Where are my Omi and Ninad and their tracksuits…badi yaad aa rahi hai unki…this yellow yellow thoda pheeka lag raha hai!

Waiseee….more wonderful chance pe dance by my didi with Usha Mausi!Koi hai nahi to jump for defence, so lag jaao ussi par…

I’m loving this Alexa feature in these posts…was giggling uncontrollably as I read through! Koi parcel karke aapke saare questions ko bhejo to our in-house Godu! But main question will be kaunse saal, kaunse mahine, kaunse din…cos currently ghum hai calendar kisi ke writingmein.

Completely agree with not liking the way virat stormed into pp's room. Even if they are "friends" i think there need to be some boundaries. Virat git upset just hearing the name of aniket but he thinks that since Sai already knows of his "friendship" with pp she should just be cool with it. Even though both of them clearly have had more than friendly feelings for each other and continue to make these slip ups where it seems like they still feel for each other.

I also think Ashwini dhould remind Virat of having a clear boundary with pp. Even if he doesn't call her bhabhi or vahini, that is their relationship. I think shes always "blamed" only pp but i dont know if she knows about virat's promise. Yes so far out if virat and pp we see pp being the one who oversteps her place and alnost acts like she thinks she is virats wife whereas virat has been "formal" but today his actions were unecessary. He could have stormed into the balcony/kitchen/his mom's room but he walked straight to pp! 😡

I dont want to see pp-virat be "friends" . Pp is a delusional, evil, manipulative and selfish person. And virat is a confused guy. He looks like he understands everything, must be smart coz IPS- but everytime pp is taunting or saying negative things about Sai he invariably looks like hes listening and pondering over her comments very seriously :( unless she goes truly overboard he never stops her from bad-mouthing Sai. Everytime he has stopped PP from taunting Sai its been extreme- chilli grinding, education, Sai going empty stomach to college. But all the small instances every single day including her walking into their bedroom to insult his wife was unnoticed. Aise friendship ki zarurat hi nahi hai.

Originally posted by: bones123

All things aside, the one thing that annoyed me the most in today’s episode was why can a grown man not just get himself food? You can fall in love in 1.47 days, give bheeshma pratigya in next1. 47, get transferred to GC, marry someone, give aate jaate logon ko lessons on machooority but you cannot serve yourself food? Yeh kaunsi entitlement haibey? Please how did you function when studying or training? And no...i'm not saying that no one should bring someone food...it's fine...when it's done outof love, without it being seen as some random duty a wife has to fulfil!! But Yahaan the way the makers showed it, it was like baseline expectation was metired me earn money me deserve to be brought food….and no his gussa = Khet ki Mooli, not bhook.

Haiii!! The only person I can't fault in this fiasco is my didi. She Asked all the right questions, gave the right emotions, and launched on the chance provided as any person looking for a gap would do. Didi was on point today! You have now given her more freedom to cook her khayali pulao (sans silbatta masala) and added to her delusional state of mind (I could almost visualise her in Uday Chopra of Dhoom scenario dreaming of little baby and baba Virakhis.Apun ki tu…apan tera).

I think the writers write Ashwini very patchily! I love the actor and she portrays the emotions so well, but I think sometimes she’s let down by the writing. Why Ashwini would you give my didi looks, but not your own beta oris this the conditioning you’ve had with Bhavani, that you fail to see the partplayed by others? It also jarred alag se when VC started with Sai bilkul nahi samajhti hai…UNCLE….you are angry at her for being happy outside of the confines of this house and without nadi as the main reason (khush dekhna chahta hoon,toh how does it matter ki Khushi kahan se mili?). If you can’t understand your emotions, how would she? Also you are now spying on your wife’s friends? I’m Really struggling to understand this jealously track, the way he’s playing it really reeks of toxic male syndrome. Bhai why you giving Jagtap level vibes to a college student, who currently hasn't even interacted with Sai!

In other important questions,

· Yeh log waise kaunse Time Warp mein hai…. are they travelling aage or peeche? Am I watching GHKKPM or Doctor Who?

· Where are my Omi and Ninad and their tracksuits…badi yaad aa rahi hai unki…this yellow yellow thoda pheeka lag raha hai!

Waiseee….more wonderful chance pe dance by my didi with Usha Mausi!Koi hai nahi to jump for defence, so lag jaao ussi par…

I’m loving this Alexa feature in these posts…was giggling uncontrollably as I read through! Koi parcel karke aapke saare questions ko bhejo to our in-house Godu! But main question will be kaunse saal, kaunse mahine, kaunse din…cos currently ghum hai calendar kisi ke writingmein.