Originally posted by: jankiraghav
(Translation of title: Before the storm in a giant ocean)
Good morning sisterhood!!💐💓
The sound of shattering glass echoed in Chavan niwas for the second time (kitni crockery fodte hain ye log🙉) and this time the IPS officer arrived on time to investigate, collected evidences, heard the statements and identified the culprits as well but picture abhi baaki hai....
Bhavani, who went pale when she saw Virat entering the scene, pulled out another one of her lies -- as per her principle, zor se jhooth bolo. But Sai's mild 'jhooth' was loud enough. And police wala had bent down to the exact crime spot to examine how much of the food had been left undamaged in the assault on the plate 😒 (Main Kabhi writer banungi toh Chakram niwas ki crockery ki atmakatha likhungi -- title Hoga 'haath aaya par muh na lagaya'😒😔 is Ghar me sabse jyada beizzati toh crockery ki Hoti hai aur phir Maturity ki moorthi ki 😣)
Chavan Saheb picked up the vadas (edible wala😅) and brought out his best Shravan Kumar tone to offer the morning gyaan to the family at that blessed dining table (seriously, there must be a dirty, dark history of crime in that house that they don't have peace at the meals ever😔😣) since the scene is still incomplete and only the beginning of Sarpakhi's discourse about asking her zeher-laced apology, so reserving comments. But I would like to believe that his 'Kabhi Kabhi Jo cheezein humein acchi Nahi Lagti unhe aise hi chhodhh dena Chahiye... Duniya me har cheez hamare hisab se ho, ye mumkin toh Nahi Hai na' was a warning and also surrender.
Samajhdaar ko ishara kaafi hai but Sai has taken it personally, clouded by all the emotions she is still feeling from their unresolved fight. It wasn't meant for her😔 but for the Makad Sena-- when you force something to change because you don't like it is different from wanting to bring about a change to restore a missing value -- truth, peace or justice or anything alike. Pushing your way through to 'change' something you just dislike is like pulling the rubber band (I wish Chavan saheb had done another demo but I think his migraine hasn't gone away completely yet 😅 and migraine Ka source toh saamne hi khada hai. Oh both Navra Baiko looked so done with all the shouting. Am sure they have irritation in the throat from burst blood capillaries. Kitna chilla ke Bola tha Pati Patni wala dialogue 😅🤣). And of course police wala didn't come after the plate 'slipped' from Kaku's hands, he witnessed what happened.
To me, the sentence "Main itna bada Nahi hua hoon ki aap mujhse maafi maange na hi itna bada hounga..." was a polite way of refusing the apology 😆 itna wahiyaad kaam Karke fake apology Ka drama aisa tha ki migraine ke beech bhi Chavan saheb ki Hasi chooth gayi-- it was a giveaway of what he knew. Some actions need more than fake words to demonstrate sincerity -- I don't want your sorry but you should change your action 😎. Ab since Sarplekha is MA Pass and more educated than BA Pass Kaku, she was the only one who understood it was a taunt and Sai Ka Pati is back in action 🤣🤣 isiliye apna kaam kiye Bina Spokesperson bhi kaise breakfast Karti so muh khol hi Diya 😆
But the moment of the day was Sai's take down of Karishma 🤣🤣🤣 and indirectly Chipakhini (thanks to that thread there is soooo much variety in the name calling 😂). And our Saibai all wounded still, couldn't even resist revealing how karishma warned her about Chipakhini the day she came in 🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣
But, what a cold-blooded sadist is this tyrant Bhavani? Even prisoners convicted of ghastly crimes get their meals respectfully at the designated time. What does this vile woman even mean by saying, "Pehle kaam kar phir khaana kha?"
I am sorry but I cannot set aside the logic for this one to take the blame off those who can correct this despicable situation. Itna hi logic set aside Karna hai toh don't show the lead as an IPS officer -- make him anything else but a man in khaki. I take absolute offense to this nonsensical portrayal of an IPS officer. It is the most difficult exam to crack in the civil services. Every year the brightest of them are unable to clear all modules. Only the passionate and really intuitive men and women clear all subject of IPS exams in first attempt. And these guys want us to believe that their male protagonist cannot resolve this pettiness at home despite being a upsc topper and a smart IPS who cleared his exam in the first attempt-- doesn't he know that he (and his wife) is entitled to have at least three personal domestic helps as part of his perks? Can't he just make it clear that his wife needs to study -- the reason why the whole marriage happened in the first place-- and so she cannot be at the service of this obnoxious Kaku and her Makad Sena. Why can't they show him taking a stand without caring about what taunts come next? Any officer of Virat's calibre would use his mind and do that -- if the other women or their husbands don't have the perks as he does, it is really not this Pati-Patni's lookout. And why should any other bahu suffer this kind of torment. This inconsistency doesn't fit with the character at all since he's previously even given her the pravachan about 'thoda kaam Karne ko bol bhi Diya toh kya galat Kiya?' All for this just to keep up the regressive mentality that the least favourite bahu should do the household work? Or is he really on a mission to make her the chaheeti bahu for his own cause? The showmakers must clarify this. 😖😓👎👎👎
His wife is being treated like a beggar who has approached a swanky car to seek alms and gets turned away just because 'ghar Ka kaam Nahi kiya'? The poor girl has a test to appear for and this wicked matriarch and her nasty MA Pass gawar Sarplekha 🐍are audacious enough to actually snatch a plate of food from her hand unless she works for it and then defend the act too? Even a Police Inspector like Kamal Joshi in Gadchiroli employed a woman to help at home along with giving her shelter -- and the joke is that she is very much around to still do the work that is expected of Sai. But her IPS husband can't? Ideally that chilly grinding should have been enough to do it.
If these wicked Makad Sena takes so much pride in how many servants unche Khandaan ki Shahannav Kuli Maratha bahu Sonali or Sarpakhi can employ, then why not get the helps? I really wish to see Virat making a logical decision in this matter (high hopes and unforgivable portrayal by the showmakers 😣)
And I didn't understand why Sai had to offer an explanation about not being in the kitchen when it wasn't asked in the first place? What happened to all those previous scenes where we saw Sai doing the kitchen duties and the unche Khandaan ki bahu making exotic bread butter in competition? Are we supposed to forget that Bhavani mentioned in those episodes that unche Khandaan ki bahu does not work in the kitchen? What is this sudden flip on purpose of showing Sai as 'kaamchor'? Ashwini mentioned it was only 'one day' so what is with this constant martyrdom declaration by the other two Bahus. Oh Bappa! And which household cannot even lay down a time table if they are so regressive about accepting domestic help that the chaheeta beta is entitled to have? I cannot digest this mischievous and forced depiction of a woman having to suffer this mentality!
My heart aches for the dewdrop 💔 how much more humiliation should she face before Virat can accept the reality and not call it 'puraane khayalato wali family'. Because they are clearly not that. They are dishonourable.
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Since there was no continuation of the toofan scene 🙄🙄 I want to assume that Chavan saheb finally asked best friend to leave with the dinner plate... Ya phir best friends ki baatein itni secret huyi ki even we did not get to see it 🤣😅
But I am doing a visleshan of how right Sarplekha was when she hissed that Sai was a toofan -- only she doesn't know ki tehes nehes Virat Nahi, wo khud hone wali hai 😆😣
"Sai naam ke toofan ne tumhari poori zindagi tehes nehes kar di"
Now can anyone explain to this blind Chipakhini that Sai naam ka 'tempest' has been conjured by Chavan saheb himself and unleashed upon the wrecked Chakram niwasis 😅. A hurricane actually also does a lot of good for the one it belongs to -- the gigantic (Virat) ocean because it ruthlessly destroys that which does not belong to the nature. But it replenishes the ocean and it's surroundings with new life. It destroys bacteria and oxygenates surface water making ocean life breathe again. It corrects the imbalance of energy between various levels of the earth, it restores the sand and protects barrier islands from sinking into the ocean. And last, it also creates new life🌱 by blowing seeds across thousands of miles and planting them along shores that never imagined they could grow plants. Sai naam ka toofan will rejuvenate with the ocean by nourishing it's soul (crust), that has been experiencing pressure fluctuations due to external forces.
Chipakhini should steer clear of her "2hrs-2mins wala true love" (thanks to Keshni for the math 😅) Virat ocean warna Sai naam ka toofan is definitely going to blow her away to tehes nehes, someday 😉😆
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Needless to say the Sai- Devyani scene was all LOVE ❤️ but I must not lie -- it has left me anxious too. Sai, why does she have to take it upon herself to change everything in a household that she has just stepped into. I completely understand her intentions and her value system is exactly what makes her so loveable that even the man who vowed celibacy is unable to keep the promise 🤣 but why Sai, why? Why does this Pati Patni have such a competition for this 'saviour complex'?
"Main Bappa se prarthana karungi ki mere yaahan se jaane se pehle Aapka Pati mil jaaye"... Sai, Sai... 😟 That wish really made me skip one heartbeat, already feeling the anguish of that moment to come. But why does she have to go all alone on this one?
I can totally see her taking it on her 'chhote chhote kandhe' the task of finding Devyani's husband and baby all by herself without confiding in Virat. Because she will remember that he has once asked her to keep away from Devyani and so until she sees a mess approaching that only he may be able to clear, he will be blissfully oblivious to what Miss Marple is up to🙄😟 I absolutely agree with Virat that Sai should not expend her energy or wage wars all alone when he's willing to support her tooth and nail when she's right. And in Devyani's case, honestly and objectively, Sai should not go alone to this battle without Virat because no matter how good her intentions, Devyani is not legally sound to be married off. She is 'unfit' in law to consent to marriage or make her own decisions and so, Sai should definitely involve Virat. He would be upset if she goes off on her own secret mission and rightfully so. Also because this will be a direct battle with none other than Bhavani!
Chavan Saheb tried to talk to Baiko to convince her to eat but see her reaction 😅 she's obviously not over the second round of firing he had launched at her before clearing the mess of the first one -- he'd better do his homework well today 😑.
In between all the jalebis served and some cues that he took from Baiko's spashth baatein during his raging bull moments, Virat answered a very significant question which Sai had asked him pre-wedding: "Aap mujhse Shaadi Kyun Karna Chahte Hain?" He hadn't answered it then but he did now-- because money is not the only need in life. The bigger need is a support system and a companion. He married Sai to give her that "companionship" not just as a sponsor because he knows she does not even need the sponsorship for long. In return, he did seek that same pure companionship from her as well for himself.
What he offered her is not just the companionship that is between the two of them but also with the soul-sisters she has found -- has Sai ever had a close friend? Not that we know, who she can turn to... Aaba was, pretty much, everything to her. But now she has Ashwini, Shivani and Devyani and slowly, she will have more on her side... perhaps, Virat was confident that Sai would find her flock from the many people around her. She did.
Unfortunately, the confrontations thrown at them have overshadowed what they would otherwise experience from their daily companionship that they are subconsciously craving for -- of each other. 😔
Jaane kab wo dinner ki plate ke saath insaaf Hoga... Hoga bhi ya Nahi?
Since Chavan saheb ne aaj badlaav ka Monday morning lesson diya hai, I am going to begin my week with a famous Mary Angelou quote : "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude." The fact is that you can't bring about change by fighting reality, you can bring about change by accepting reality and using your energy to construct something new that will slowly overrule the obsolete.
Have a lovely day and drive away with blues with a big mug of coffee ☕ or a cup of tea 🍵
Warm hugs 🤗 and love hamesha hi ❤️💞
Aabhar 🙏🙏
Love you all 🥰
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