Mai virat sir ke Bina reh sakti hu !!!!!- Page 3

Sai uttered those words but not convincingly. She still needs to sort it out in her head. Her face fell as she said it.

Can Virat live without her? I think someone needs to ask him.

Abhi bolne mein kya jaat hain, most of the time in anger we say many things.

Originally posted by: Remyavenkat

Ya you are so true. She was beginning to think about Virat when bua feas talking in the coffee shop. even in the beginning itself she told Virat that she don’t like Pakhi comingto their room at night. She told if he wants he can go and talk in Pakhi’s room. A 18 year old know all thes things and a matured and well behaved composed girl according to Virat does not know not to interfere in husband and wife matter. Wow Virat wants Pakhi as mentor for sai. Sai said it correctly he didn’t get anyone else to mentor her.

There needs to be some limits . You just can't force the best friend and her taunts over sai. I agree virat objects to taunts most of the times. But the audacity to actually involve in a couple fight and then questioning their relationship is something completely not acceptable. This needs to be condemned by virat.

While he supports her going against his family the main rock of their relationship is patralekha with whom he never goes loggerheads and keeps mum.

From day one sai was clear on her stand that they both can have their talks in other roombut let her live in peace.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree,

this whole 'best friend' thing has gone too far.

its like unknowingly he is digging his own grave

i said this 100 times already and will say it 100 more times if needed..him letting pakhi interfere in his and sai's personal space is giving both ladies wrong signals.

this is making pakhi think that he is interested in him

and making sai think the same which is leading her to make assumptions that this is still a 'deal' waali shaadi for him.

if this continues like this i don't think sai will belive even if he directly proposes to her.

he need to show it through his actions first. make her feel loved rather than ehsaan jataana by using 'zimmedaari and farz' words again and again.

All these words are giving wrong signals both the ladies.

Virat needs to understand this and mend his ways

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I seriously think she'll be able to live without Virat. Yes, she'll be hurt and will feel his void, but she'll live. For the time being, she is living for her and her Abba's dreams.

Even when things are sunshine between them, she keeps on saying that she'll leave on day, because that's what the deal was about and she is determined and has probably conditioned herself to fulfil her part of it.

I'm not so sure about the one who so loudly proclaimed the "jao" though!🤔

Sai is strong emotionally than virat. She can live without him as of now .

The other one is emotionally vulnerable and can't live without her. But the irony is he never confesses it rather makes it more confusing .

The "jao"was not from his heart. But his after words are a bit objectionable to me. There are many women out there who are on their own. And even if there are difficulties whats wrong in learning the hard way???

Though all these words are blurted out in anger , they will give a meaning of ehsaan jatana to sai for sure.

This man keeps throwing jalebis and expects the immature bachi wife to understand them

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Yes, it was moving when she said that but I don't think she is speaking from resolve. It is from her hurt at the moment and the fact that just minutes ago she had to walk out of her room which was invaded by husband's 'pyaar-dosti'. It was a thought that came from her anguish if the moment, which unfortunately she believes in because the change of deal terms hasn't been conveyed nor has she been asked if she's okay with the change.

It's not just about winning a woman's heart. It's about being able to treasure it once it has been won. They need to have a chat and sort their issues but if he continues to push his own feelings under the cloak of her mistakes, she would really want to leave. It will not be easy but then what is life without learning aate daal Ka bhaav.

And yes, the true affirmation will come when they tell/scream at one another saying 'Tum meri patni ho/Aap mere Pati hain'

The words were definitely spoken out of hurt but wasn't she made feel like a third person in that room????

I agree virat has not given any badhava to PP directly but silence is half acceptance right?

This man needs to sort his feelings first and then speak anything otherwise it's will only go downhill from here. Theirs is not a marriage out of love but a deal and forced one. So it needs both of them to be vocal about their feelings and the place other one holds in their life.

And virat keeps calling her immature but expects her to understand his jalebis

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Why should virat win sai ?? What for ? Sab kuch virat ko hi karna to sai kya karengi ?

Aaj tak jo bhi kiya virat ne hi kiya , Sai ne kya kiya virat ke liye infact sai never tried knowing virat as frnd also husband to bahut dur ki baat hain.

Friendship to zimmedari mein nhi aati .

Sai koi ye bhi nhi pata virat ke saath itna waqt rehne ke baad ki virat don't raise hand on ladies.

This relationship is one sided where only virat should win sai but sai should get virat in sliver platter . Why ?

Even virat can live without her , if sai can live without him .

Virat did do things for her but wasn't those all promised by him before marriage as part of his zimmedari????

Misunderstanding ur partner is different from asking her "kaun ho tum " infront of ur entire family.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Why should virat win sai ?? What for ? Sab kuch virat ko hi karna to sai kya karengi ?

Aaj tak jo bhi kiya virat ne hi kiya , Sai ne kya kiya virat ke liye infact sai never tried knowing virat as frnd also husband to bahut dur ki baat hain.

Friendship to zimmedari mein nhi aati .

Sai koi ye bhi nhi pata virat ke saath itna waqt rehne ke baad ki virat don't raise hand on ladies.

This relationship is one sided where only virat should win sai but sai should get virat in sliver platter . Why ?

Even virat can live without her , if sai can live without him .

Sad but true

When the time comes, everything will be forgotten. We are clearly expecting a lot when it comes to Virat's redemption but as the time passes, in ITV, they forget all this and heroine falls in love with the man who initially hurt her a lot... I mean what??! I would hate such guy. Forget falling in love, I wouldnt even initiate any friendship with him.

After knowing that he has made some silly vaadas and is really pissed about this 2-mins-lover cum friendship and feels hurt by his behavior, she will irrevocably fall in love with him. 🤪

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

first things first , virat should stop PP from entering the room and poke her nose in their arguments or fights or whatever it is.

The words were definitely spoken out of hurt but wasn't she made feel like a third person in that room????

I agree virat has not given any badhava to PP directly but silence is half acceptance right?

This man needs to sort his feelings first and then speak anything otherwise it's will only go downhill from here. Theirs is not a marriage out of love but a deal and forced one. So it needs both of them to be vocal about their feelings and the place other one holds in their life.

And virat keeps calling her immature but expects her to understand his jalebis

I am hoping he will put an end to his silence against Sarpakhi tomorrow... His last look to her was of end of tolerance I feel. He saw how Sarpakhi intervened exactly at the time when Ashwini and he were trying to get Sai to eat and he realised that she was trying hard to make Sai leave without eating to escalate the drama.

Silence is not half but full badhava. Sometimes even more culpable than the crime itself. He cannot let anyone walk in or walk over and damage his wife's honour like that. It's inexcusable. For that matter, Sai stood up for him when Vitthal entered their wedding and spoke rubbish. Of course Virat was going to administer that chamaat anyway to Vitthal but Sai got disgusted and spoke too. He has to do the same with Sarpakhi.