Originally posted by: Anvi2009
Just look at the way all of them are standing so close to Sai, all ganged up against her. Seriously, in real life, a person like Sai should just mind her own business. She has a goal, to become a doctor and fulfill her father's wish. Why does she interfere in that undeserving family's matters? I understand she likes Shivani, but she is not her bua. She is Virat's bua. She can tell Virat about her meeting with Amay and what she knows and let him handle this. How is she going to get her studies done if she is constantly involving herself amongst people who just do not deserve to know a person like her? Actually in reality, to hell with this deal marriage, husband, and his family. She should just move out.
A lot of people keep saying that Sai should be respectful, should not talk rudely to elders etc etc, but did the elders give even one iota of chance, one moment or one second of a chance to understand Sai, to try to accept her, to listen to her? Not even as their bahu but just as a fellow human? Forget making her feel liked, they 24/7 make her feel hated as if her existence on the planet is a curse. From the moment she showed her face to these Chakrams, they started a war against her. They never gave her a chance for anything, absolutely nothing. Every time she walks into the living room, it is like she is walking in a battle against her that she is never aware of. They nonstop taunt her when she leaves the home, when she enters the home, when she is eating, when she is happy about her results. They misunderstand her, insult her, call her vile names, insult her dead father, Ninad and Bhavani even threatened her physical harm, they smirk when she is bleeding, and this is just the tip of the iceberg. Why on earth does she need to show any respect toward these vile human beings. You don't show respect to people who mentally abuse you just because they are related, inlaws, or elders. Abuse is abuse, period.
Whatever she says, however logically or illogically, calmly or by screaming, politely or rudely, right or wrong, these people are never ever going to accept her as their bahu, they will never ever like her. She can give up her own life for them or become deaf and dumb till eternity and still they will never accept her. They judged her from the very first moment and if Sai had never spoken up during the rituals, she would have become the next Ashwini in that house. And the very second she spoke up, that was the end, she would never be Ashwini but she would never be accepted either.
She was never given the choice. If she spoke politely and never answered back, she would become Ashwini, if she spoke her mind, rudely or not, she became the enemy. It is not like they would ever accept her as they did Patraleka. So what choice did Sai have to maintain her sanity, stay true to herself? She has to speak. If she speaks rudely, so what? At least she speaks the truth and that is always bitter. And please note that she never ever starts anything.
Lastly, she did try the nice way. When Patraleka came back to Chakram niwas with her father, Sai stood there silently and all of them, including Patraleka's father kept on insulting Sai. In the end, all Sai did was ask if anyone wanted coffee or tea. And then what happened, when Virat came from work, Bhavani complained about how because of Sai, Patreleka's father did not even have tea. Therefore, if Sai wants to be sweet, fine, if she wants to be rude, fine. She can be whatever the heck she wants and whatever she needs to do to maintain her sanity in that household. As far as I am concerned, those people don't deserve an iota of respect from Sai.
Can she just move out to the hostel and concentrate on her studies? This drama and ganging up against Sai is just getting too much.