BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 14 - Thread 1 - Page 79

Originally posted by: lankan121

I beg to differ here rosie i will have to disagree with u on this one..ramya falls under the category of politically correct..diplomatic...etc.that category you will survive in all industry. NOT the right strategy for the game of bb but its the daam right game for life.

@bold ..i don't know what kind of meeting you are having that people are crying in meetings 🤣 But she has put her point across when needed and directly confronted bala aari and rio. Her laughing at fake drama over people crying when they going to meet 10 days later doesn't seem over the top to me IMO.

Want to quote example but side discussions not allowed,so just for a week smile like ramya you will know what i mean😛

Originally posted by: lankan121

Even last week ramya rocked the entire family week took care of all family members and was moral support to kutty ma ..fully involved in kitchen task. She was about to take shower aari came and put his twist and turns and weekend eposide fully bashed. No appreciation from kh sir for giving shivani moral support or doing fab job last week. Yet aari will come and ask who put roti outside all night or who left chicken in freezer .

Even that time also, Aari started complaining about Rio and Som. She understood his intention that he was trying to register some thing bad about them to audience using her conversation, so she supported them to Aari. Immediately he changed the topic and started blaming Ramya from there.

Originally posted by: rosel

😆nice one

Want to quote example but side discussions not allowed,so just for a week smile like ramya you will know what i mean😛

🤣 Neenga romba naala pannirga ma !! 😈🤐

Originally posted by: ShanC

Yes She is playing really well from the start. Either its a physical task or speaking task and also no complaints for her Household activities.

But now there is no other reason to blame so bringing up Soft Hurt and Smile.

Even after a huge fight, if the same person smile back to us then mood become light and easy way to solve the problem.

And i dont understand what is the Soft Hurt means....

Its a BB game, at same point everyone has to put some opinion about the co-contestant even if hurts the other. But the way the contestants choose to share opinion matters.. She tries her best to share her opinion without hurting others still it hurts. So the contestants termed it a Soft hurt.

Gaslighting/Flipping/neutral all with examples but these 2 traits are prominant thus discussed a lot

Originally posted by: ShanC

Even that time also, Aari started complaining about Rio and Som. She understand his intention that he is trying to register some thing bad about them to audience using her conversation, so she support them to Aari. Immediately he changed the topic and started blaming Ramya from there.

👏👏...again he tried to register something she is not scared of aari like rio and som she will say it to his face his points guess all of that went missing with her smile as well.and after he tried to register something again yes take ur friend and go..loved it when ramya turned around like a BOSS and gave him left and right in one simple dialogue.

Hold on guys wait pause. Thiri discussion ku vango pa..🙂

Originally posted by: BrightShine

Wait let me see whether we are again thinking alike.😆

That one song and even aari's reaction to it was shown.Is it the same u r talking about

Originally posted by: goldiesif

Ramya had two options for allegation made by KH, either she could have asked for time to explain her point or could have clarified it later on. Does she have answer for allegations made by KH. No.

She allows Bala to talk, listen and go soft on stoping him on multiple occasions and jump/pound immediately when it is Ari. This is very plain simple allegation made by KH. Would be nice to hear from horse mouth before show is over.

Ramya smile lost value long ago, why she couldn't smile during eviction results which is her own pain. Why she she couldn't smile when KH was putting across allegations on her which is her own pain. Why she couldn't smile in recent fight between Bala/Ari where in she did many other previous occasions. Choosing to smile when you like someone is being insulted, someone being sad isn't appreciable. I was liking her for smile before this show .

With her allegations on Ari that he is doing blame game and doing nit picking game, why can't her brain realize it is the same others also do to him and most times it is so silly. Just look at reason gave by Rio for recent nomination on Ari. One guy doing at many people and many others doing against one person is quite different. One guys prep needs to spot on to handle and it will come across different sometimes in different perception - be it audience or HM. Her smartness quotient is also questionable in judging what is going on outside. Doesn't means she has to change based on outside opinion, but point is she isn't able to gauge properly even and that's her smartness quotient.

Bold:This is where her smile bothers me otherwise her smile in positive times is good

Originally posted by: rosel

There are lot of things shan,which can be brought against ramya not only soft hurt/smile

Gaslighting/Flipping/neutral all with examples but these 2 traits are prominant thus discussed a lot

If that is the real case, All those things could have been discussed or highlighted in every-week discussion if it was disturbing or spoiling others game or route for eviction. But i remember nothing so.

Now i can see all those points are getting picked only to show her in badlight.

Usually Aari does this, when he face any fight or problem with someone immediately he started picking points from week one to blame. But never said the same in the past - even he had lot of conversation with them in the past and even he had lot of opportunities to express that long before.

Originally posted by: rosel

yes,that one😆 and selection of songs made me think like that,mostly it was latest hit songs and this task happening after ajeedh's eviction

I still dont remember all the songs. yes there are some latest songs in the list but still Mukkala mukkabulla, Koli vedakoli, kannu rendum ranga ratinam, some kamal songs ithellam eppo Latest hit songs la vanthuchu 😲