Now this guy has no issues with “touching” and “being touched”? - Page 4

The thing is you hate him so unreasonably that you can only see evil where he is concerned.

I agree with one of the posters. It's really not cool to judge sexual abuse victims in general and in this case Eijaz Khan.

I am watching the same show as you and unlike one of the posters here that you have decided to ignore henceforth who knows him personally, I don't know the man personally but I do not react in the same way as you because I don't think he is faking it at all.

I see a very nice decent man in him. A true gentleman really. I see a tormented soul. I see imperfection. I see willingness to heal, become better and lead a better life. I see honesty in admitting to his mistakes. I see a lot of integrity. I see a man whose defense mechanisms are weak. I see a man who doesn't now how to deal with uncalled for aggression directed at him. I see a man who is not armed enough to deal with it and instead just resorts to shouting at the top of his lungs and resorting to tapori language but it is just his lack of defense mechanisms speaking there because he cannot hurt a fly and can never continue to dole out aggression in face of aggression for long or effectively because he does not know how to deal with it.

The other inmates have understood this over time except for Jasmin because she also is a very troubled person and unlike Eijaz she is mean!! Really mean and not at all sorted out.

He is also not at all sorted out but is not mean.

Abhinav, Rubina and Nikki have understood this. That all the shouting is nothing, just his way of dealing with aggression.

Yes Eijaz has a lot more left to sort himself out but he is basically a very nice person who respects women and values friends and the given word!

So look this is what I see. And whatever you write is what you see. Strange isn't it?

And mind you I am no blind fan!!!! never have been ever!!

Lat season I hated Siddharth with a vengeance because he for me was the epitome of toxic masculinity and therefore wanted asim to win but not because I was a blind fan of asim's.

Eijaz is anything but toxic masculinity. He said he was an alpha male I admit. That was quite ridiculous! So yes he still has a little way to go before he sorts himself out completely and emerges stronger. he will because he wants to and I wish him well.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

The thing is you hate him so unreasonably that you can only see evil where he is concerned.

I agree with one of the posters. It's really not cool to judge sexual abuse victims in general and in this case Eijaz Khan.

I am watching the same show as you and unlike one of the posters here that you have decided to ignore henceforth who knows him personally, I don't know the man personally but I do not react in the same way as you because I don't think he is faking it at all.

I see a very nice decent man in him. A true gentleman really. I see a tormented soul. I see imperfection. I see willingness to heal, become better and lead a better life. I see honesty in admitting to his mistakes. I see a lot of integrity. I see a man whose defense mechanisms are weak. I see a man who doesn't now how to deal with uncalled for aggression directed at him. I see a man who is not armed enough to deal with it and instead just resorts to shouting at the top of his lungs and resorting to tapori language but it is just his lack of defense mechanisms speaking there because he cannot hurt a fly and can never continue to dole out aggression in face of aggression for long or effectively because he does not know how to deal with it.

The other inmates have understood this over time except for Jasmin because she also is a very troubled person and unlike Eijaz she is mean!! Really mean and not at all sorted out.

He is also not at all sorted out but is not mean.

Abhinav, Rubina and Nikki have understood this. That all the shouting is nothing, just his way of dealing with aggression.

Yes Eijaz has a lot more left to sort himself out but he is basically a very nice person who respects women and values friends and the given word!

So look this is what I see. And whatever you write is what you see. Strange isn't it?

And mind you I am no blind fan!!!! never have been ever!!

Lat season I hated Siddharth with a vengeance because he for me was the epitome of toxic masculinity and therefore wanted asim to win but not because I was a blind fan of asim's.

Eijaz is anything but toxic masculinity. He said he was an alpha male I admit. That was quite ridiculous! So yes he still has a little way to go before he sorts himself out completely and emerges stronger. he will because he wants to and I wish him well.

Thank you for your input. 😊

I know that you hate him with a passion, hate everything about him. His face, talks, voice. But don't bash him just for the sake of mocking & hating.

There's thing called giving consent.

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

I know that you hate him with a passion, hate everything about him. His face, talks, voice. But don't bash him just for the sake of mocking & hating.

There's thing called giving consent.

No, I don’t hate him. Hate is a strong emotion. I don’t even hate my enemies (funny I don’t think I have any). I, however, despise this guy as a contestant on the show. He has surpassed everyone in terms of faking up.

What aspect of my post reeked of mockery to you? I have posted a video of this man’s lies and petulance and then built my points around it.

Would appreciate if you understand what’s being posted before hopping on to the bandwagon.

Thanks for stopping by.

I don’t know how I should react to this... 😅

Do I think he is a big fake and plays for the cameras? Yes

But has he faked his past trauma? No, id refuse to believe anyone would stoop that low.

He’s revealed his secret and put it out in public open for scrutiny. There will be many who will sympathise and many will pick at it. People on the Bollywood forum are so harsh to Deepika Padukone when she speaks on depression and mental health, it’s the world we live in. And being in this show every move of his will be looked at through a microscope regardless.

Although I do have issues with his hypocrisy with his touching issues. He expects everyone to keep in mind that he has touching issues and not get in his personal space but will not do the same for others. He can charge at people scream and spit in their face, push them with his chest and that’s all fine because ofcourse no one else has triggers related to close physical proximity.

@DaddyMarvel I have a question for u, since u have an opinion on people’s traumas and what is right and what is wrong in how they deal with it ..

if a woman got raped in her teenage years and then married a man and had a intimate relationship with her husband .. is she also being a hypocrite to her past trauma ?

Reason I’m asking is because u judge Eijaz on a few clips without knowing what he has done to overcome his trauma 90%. There is a big difference in consensual touch and trusting touch than unexpected touch. Still ur blind hatred fails to see it.

Originally posted by: DaddyMarvel

No, I don’t hate him. Hate is a strong emotion. I don’t even hate my enemies (funny I don’t think I have any). I, however, despise this guy as a contestant on the show. He has surpassed everyone in terms of faking up.

What aspect of my post reeked of mockery to you? I have posted a video of this man’s lies and petulance and then built my points around it.

Would appreciate if you understand what’s being posted before hopping on to the bandwagon.

Thanks for stopping by.

If he's faking it's his game even if I see from unbiased POV not as his supporter I don't see him doing anything major to invoke such strong hate for him.

I've already written in my previous reply. Your whole screams mockery & unadulterated hate.

Despise & hate aren't different. Whatever as a contestant or what you hate him. The kinda stuffs you say about him gives away what you feel for him. Like you can't see the sight of him. And it's nauseating for you to see his face.

Stopping by in context of?

Originally posted by: DaddyMarvel

See for yourself!

Heights of hypocrisy and melodrama! At least respect your fake therapist whom you have just exposed.

There is hotstar series “City of Dreams” released in 2019. Check out Chicha’s action, kissing and all scenes in it. Wonder how he did that? 🤔

Originally posted by: DaddyMarvel

See for yourself!

Heights of hypocrisy and melodrama! At least respect your fake therapist whom you have just exposed.

https://youtu.be/LHtI10E2xfw

I agree. He is fake and does things to create sympathy for himself.

Originally posted by: iffan_bb

There is hotstar series “City of Dreams” released in 2019. Check out Chicha’s action, kissing and all scenes in it. Wonder how he did that? 🤔

Again someone else who don understand trauma and how it affects people. Eijaz gets therapy after every show he shoots for . Unfortunately like the millions of us who have suffered trauma , we have bills to pay etc .

U all saying that if someone has had a traumatic past they shouldn’t carry on life