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Abhishek can taunt viveka by saying she is a gold digger... That he got a rishta from parashars so he brokeup with him... đ¤
Originally posted by: ishruhiAbhishek can taunt viveka by saying she is a gold digger... That he got a rishta from parashars so he brokeup with him... đ¤
Ethically, Viveka did kiss and say yes to Raanav while she was in a relationship with Abhishek. Abhishek was merely in the relationship for fun. Both are wrong in their own ways.
But, a wolf is no less a wolf because he's dressed in sheepskin and the devil is no less the devil because he's dressed as an angel.
Just because Viveka dumped him that doesn't change the fact Abhishek was cheating. Just because Abhishek was cheating that doesn't make Viveka's an angel. The moral high ground: Both don't have it anyway.
Flawed Humans
âI used to date herâ text lit up the screen
âYou always ask nude selfies from your GFs after you break up?â
âShe is chill reyâ he sent a angry face
âIts gross and disgusting⌠and plain wrong Abhishekâ
âI told u it was a mistakeâ
âDecide once and for all if it was a mistake, or if u intended to do it. I would say it was disrespectful but I cant⌠â
She realized she should have told him about Raanavâs proposal, she should have told him how long ago she received it
She should have told him about her growing feelings
She had failed a bit in her own standards
âI will not send you pictures⌠I will be civil. But I met someone I likeâ she said
He called her
She felt she owed him a real call
âTo TU aisa bol na? Tujhe koi aur mila, tu mere ko dump maarne waali haiâ
âI have never lied to you. I have craved for your company Abhishek⌠you blow hot when there is no one else jab koi rehta hai tum mujhe bhaga dete hoâ
âCome to the point rey⌠you found a boy friend⌠mere ku kaatne ka raasta dhoond rahi haiâ
âI donât agree⌠but its no use arguing, I have messed up.â She said grimly
âYOU are a cheaterâ he hung up smugly
She hated how she had let the whole situation devolve
She expected more from herself
There was no excuse
Abhiâs indifference did not push her toward Raanav
There was a solid original attraction, there was no attraction or sparks between her and Abhishek
But she let it worsen in the hope that some day the damp wood will catch fire.
She will never be able to prove if he was or was not faithful or seeing someone else
But personally she had failed in not being truthful to him early on.
She shut her eyes and wept softly
âI was THIS close to going to bed with himâ âI have such poor judgement sometimeâ âI just let him him treat me poorlyâ
âI was so lost in my work and college I never paid attention to what I was receiving in the relationshipâ
âWhat seemed to me like an intelligent funny man is actually slimy player who doesnât respect meâ âOr he is a guy who could not wait for nature to take its course, he went and found physical satisfaction
Both answers are not very good for a long term relationship
She chuckled between her sobs
âHere I was almost believing what my parents presumed about Raanav⌠I was definitely not going to give him a chanceâ
âWhat do I do⌠sometimes⌠Ufff⌠so shameful⌠wonder if he talked about me or laughed about the attempts he made at intimacyâ âDo younger people put out more?â âIs that why he lost interest?â
She heard footsteps, she quickly wiped her tears and sprinted back to her room
She sat in her favorite work chair and swirled and stared at Naina
âEven Naina could not detectâ âNaina has such good radar for such thingsâ
Abhishek texted her
âIts all just a joke OK⌠tu ab seriously legi kya?â
There had been multiple attempts by him to start making out, one time when she had helped take the leftovers after grad party he had tried to tip her over in bed and just urgently began to push himself in rhythmic movements
Carried away for a bit by a man who she believed was on her mental plane she had allowed herself to be fondled
Now she wondered if he had cameras in his room
He had sent her some pictures over the months she scrolled through them to reassure herself that she was being paranoid
âHow would I even know how he took themâ
âI never found any other womanâs lingerie or anything I am just being too dramaticâ
She took many deep breaths
She could not tell Papa or Ma
âOh! How humiliating⌠he was a house guest.. ughhâ
She had told Ishwar anD Ratna and Rheaand Neha and a couple of Faculty friends about Abhishek
They didnât even suspect anything
âUnless we are all dumbâ
âHOW do u spot a creep?â âWhat is the red flag?â
Rhea anD neha and her would maintain log books during high school and college days of DTC Redline and Metro creeps and come up with plans to chop their fingers or some⌠critical body parts
Originally posted by: Creative001
Ethically, Viveka did kiss and say yes to Raanav while she was in a relationship with Abhishek. Abhishek was merely in the relationship for fun. Both are wrong in their own ways.
But, a wolf is no less a wolf because he's dressed in sheepskin and the devil is no less the devil because he's dressed as an angel.
Just because Viveka dumped him that doesn't change the fact Abhishek was cheating. Just because Abhishek was cheating that doesn't make Viveka's an angel. The moral high ground: Both don't have it anyway.
OMG!
You READ MY MIND
OMG!
Yes... Viveka is equally guilty. She let the ambivalence coax her into falling for Raanav. She cannot accuse Abhishek of cheating. Neither can he. He never cared much for her from the beginning.
She wanted to care and wanted the intimacy but it never came when she wanted it
Its a complex and sad turn of events
She waited for the sparks to fly, somewhere along the way when they did not fly she was drawn to the fire Raanav ignited
Humans are clever stupid and devious and naive... all at the same time
Wow such deep thoughts from Viveka.
Agree with Creative001 POV. Infact Anu had asked her to break it off with Abhishek as soon as she said yes to Raanav. She got carried away and didnât prioritize this.
Juggling partners has become more casual. Hope she settles this tonight and move on.
I was tired of sanctimonious goody goody leading ladies. II was hot headed but very prissy and prim. I made Viveka very human
Tooâ & âAlsoâ
Abhiskek's secret rendevouzs with girls are all out for her to see. But why should she feel humiliated? She did nothing wrong. She just just be grossed out.
Flawed Humans
Viveka wasn't completely honest with Abhishek, but her crime is minor compared to what he has been up to. We can't say either one cheated, because their relationship never got to that point even. He has no right to tell Viveka that she cheated.
Originally posted by: Nisha0604OMG!
You READ MY MIND
OMG!
Yes... Viveka is equally guilty. She let the ambivalence coax her into falling for Raanav. She cannot accuse Abhishek of cheating. Neither can he. He never cared much for her from the beginning.
She wanted to care and wanted the intimacy but it never came when she wanted it
Its a complex and sad turn of events
She waited for the sparks to fly, somewhere along the way when they did not fly she was drawn to the fire Raanav ignited
Humans are clever stupid and devious and naive... all at the same time
To add to this, when it came to Abhishek, Viveka couldn't go with the flow though she tried to. Simply because there wasn't any flow going for them to go with the flow in the first place. Anyone in a relationship deserves to know where they stand with their partner.
Did she know where she stood in that relationship with Abhishek? Nope... the thought about Abhishek even proposing her or thought of marrying him gave her an anxiety attack.
WHILE SHE SAID SHE IS LOSS AVERSE TO RAANAV , given that she couldn't help herself getting emotionally invested hugely in such a short time , the one thing that she does not realize or May be in time to come she'll realize that when it came to Abhishek is this ..she felt RISK AVERSE.... the thought of marrying Abhishek or him pulling out a ring was a risk she wasn't considering taking at any given point in the brief empty relationship they had.
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