Bigg Boss 14 - Daily Discussion Topic - 29 Nov 2020 -Weekend Ka Vaar - Page 113

Originally posted by: SoPunk

So, officially they are divorced since 11 Nov

they aren’t 😆 wish they could work on their relationship but whatever I have got to know the same looks doubtful

Originally posted by: Priya258

Paratha will miss Ruby after BB😔

abhi will miss paratha more 😆

Kitna paratha banaya bechare ne 😆

Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

Thanks dude, appreciate it.

Nothing much man just time pass going on lol

Both bb and IF have been pretty boring (with some exceptions) nowadays lol

Even I might quit soon, just waiting to see who go through the finale this week as top 4 and what role the 6 ex contestants have lol

From Manu’s review video last night it did seem like they’ll be actual contestants since he was asking his viewers to trend for him on twitter and vote for him whenever he gets nominated lol

I forgot did I congratulate you, if not congratulations on the colour change 🥳

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

I forgot did I congratulate you, if not congratulations on the colour change 🥳

aapne congratulations kiya thaa muje yaad hai

🤣

Originally posted by: SP2684

Dude I don’t get the moral policing jahan dekho. If I feel for people that have been violated, and especially for men because it is SO tough for men to be open about such things in this society - given the stigma attached to the victims - toh I must feel the same about an almost divorce revelation? And if I don’t then I’m a hypocrite yaan selective feeling wali yaan whatever the fuk?

Kya zabardasti hain? I DON’T put abuse that happened to someone, even in the same geographical region as a mutually sought divorce, let alone on the same plane. And I DON’T buy that anyone would choose BB in a bid to save a failing marriage - that makes no sense and doesn’t ring true to me. And I don’t impose this view on anyone else. It’s my view.

Again - kya ajeeb zabardasti hain. Rubina na hui koi Devi hogayi, Jiske alter pe sab worship kare 🥱

no one takes up a reality show to save their marriage! How revealing this secret is going to help her relationship? I mean how anyone can justify that you came to a show as you were getting divorce and tell about this during a immunity task? What if Abhinav was a bigger star and who would have kept quiet if he had said this?

Aaj ganga jamuna behene wala hai

Originally posted by: Priya258

Aaj ganga jamuna behene wala hai

Tissue box lekaar aana

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

I forgot did I congratulate you, if not congratulations on the colour change 🥳

I don’t remember either lol but hey thanks a lot, really appreciate it.

Agar ddt aur ddt ke hilariously entertaining log naa hote toh main ne kab ka yeh season chorh diya hota 😂😂

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

they aren’t 😆 wish they could work on their relationship but whatever I have got to know the same looks doubtful

That’s what Rubina says; they agreed to separate in Nov. 😊

Originally posted by: SP2684

Dude I don’t get the moral policing jahan dekho. If I feel for people that have been violated, and especially for men because it is SO tough for men to be open about such things in this society - given the stigma attached to the victims - toh I must feel the same about an almost divorce revelation? And if I don’t then I’m a hypocrite yaan selective feeling wali yaan whatever the fuk?

Kya zabardasti hain? I DON’T put abuse that happened to someone, even in the same geographical region as a mutually sought divorce, let alone on the same plane. And I DON’T buy that anyone would choose BB in a bid to save a failing marriage - that makes no sense and doesn’t ring true to me. And I don’t impose this view on anyone else. It’s my view.

Again - kya ajeeb zabardasti hain. Rubina na hui koi Devi hogayi, Jiske alter pe sab worship kare 🥱

The reason I'm pissed with this task is because of it's design/nature. You're actually pitching one trauma with another and deciding which one is greater. That's ridiculous! Now, chalo, jisne bhi jo bhi reveal kiya for whatever reason of theirs, at least they're getting something in return for it. Whether it's the trophy, the money, public sympathy, catharsis or the them just being able to find their voice and courage.

What exactly are the people out here and everywhere else getting by trying to impose one's view over the other? It's ludicrous to pitch one tragic experience against another and also decide what and which kind is supposed to fetch what and how much of a reaction, affection or a discussion. I wouldn't personally put physical/sexual abuse and a mutually sought divorce under one umbrella too but I understand that both these experiences have the potential to be unquestionably and tremendously traumatic. People end up with long last effects as a result of these experiences.

So, both Eijaaz and Rubina's traumas or past-present awful experiences are equally valid from non-game related POV. All of the HM's past-present tragic experiences are valid. Now, what people choose to talk about and to what extent and who they offer more sympathy or affection to is an individual choice, imo. As long as the validity isn't questioned and as long as we aren't imposing ourselves on others, it's cool.