i don't think what kavita said was that offensive. ye baat to log laraiyon mein casually bol dete hain, especially guys. they say it all the time k main tera baap hun, jo ukharna hai ukhaar le aur whatever. kav ne keh dia to what's the big deal? anyone would know that she's not talking about his actual father, plus aly said it right back to her. jab apne agey se same baat kehdi to itna bara issue banane ki kya zarurat hai? he just wanted to create an issue and act out. it was clear.
uper se non-violence gang aur baki k log bhi justify karne ki koshish kar rahe hain. none of what aly did was called for or acceptable. the things he said were disgusting as well. jas ko aisa banda pasand hai, no wonder she liked shukku