Originally posted by: Bang-bang
Now coming to Rahul v/s Abhinav where my views donât match with you all.
Rahul was doing very well as the King of Black Hearts.
He was visibly excited that BiggBoss made him a main character in a task. Had it been Rubina, she would have thrown a fit for being given black heart instead of red heart
He understood the game early that people are intentionally making bad hearts for him and so rejecting Rubinaâs hearts was a good strategy
He was also extremely well behaved and respectful towards Rubina as heâs around most of the girls- except Nikki at times which Nikki totally deserves btw. 
The problem arose when Abhinav needlessly butted in between Rahul and Rubinaâs discussion. âSasta wakeelâ was a very apt term to describe Abhinavâs behavior
But then Abhinav started personal attacking Rahul. Rahul calls ânallaâ all the time itâs not a gaali in his dictionary and neither in my dictionary. Heck Rahul calls himself ânallaâ too most of the time and if I know this by watching just the episodes- Rubhinav must know this by living 24/7 inside the house with him 
Abhinav âtriggeredâ Rahul by going constantly at his profession. If calling him classless, sadakchaap, uneducated, criminal, ladkibaaz, etc for 2 months was not enough he went on the one thing the guy has- that is his profession! That was a real low blow
Rahul was in 11th standard when he did Indian Idol Season 1. He has been working ever since. The guy never got a chance to finish his education and never had a normal youth like most of us. Of course Rahul got triggered and went on to say he had never heard of Abhinav before.
(Btw I too never heard of Abhinav before, I had seen Rubina when she had come in Season 11 to enact scenes if housemates as a colors bahu but had no idea about bahu ka pati đ).
I hate boys who DM random girls in insta and being a girl, I get at least a dozen requests from unknown guys in insta every week and only one word comes into my mind for them- CREEP. Also what with this âmard bannâ, âladki mat bannâ thing with Rahul. If he thinks doing gossip behind peopleâs back- the thing that Abhinav does instead of confronting them directly- are ladki-things then he should be sorry for himself.đđŒ
Honestly I didnât watch the episode where this insta DM thing was mentioned but I gather from mentions here in the forum that Rahul probably contacted Nikki (and Pavitra?) before start of the show to discuss playing fake love/flirt angle to survive in the show. The ladies not only rightly refused his request but also discussed it inside the house to belittle Rahul. Fair enough. He did kinda creep thing- thinking if fake showmance when he already had a girl friend outside- and faced the repercussion. đBut what with Abhinav bringing it in yesterday? It was just to trigger Rahulâs- by now famous- motor mouth to churn some more filth out đđŒ
However that âtann mannâ thing was clearly Rahul running out of his vocabulary and he shouldnât be targeted for that. Also, the âhalkaâ thing he said - he explained it further that Abhinav does halka aka light house work, i.e. parathe talna,and how he wishes he knew how to do make parathas so that he can do these âlightâ duties. It was no demeaning of Abhinav. Also I see no harm in saying that me being a single- not formally committed- guy can still DM a girl in insta but of course you being a married man canât.đ€
Bottomline: Yes, Rahul has a sad definition of âladkiâ and âmardâ and his mouth needs urgent filtering but Abhinav IMO seems to be a whole lot more wrong in these arguments.